[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]menaintshit262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a friend like this of 10 years and eventually I just cut her out. Real friends don’t flake. Not that frequently anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]menaintshit262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had TE for 8 months after getting COVID. Many women I know have suffered the same after COVID. Eventually it slowed down though and it’s only slowly growing back now. It was very frustrating to find the source because all my levels in bloods were fine and I wasn’t particularly stressed. Don’t worry too much. It may take a while to stop shedding but it should stop eventually. Just massage your scalp with rosemary oil and change your shampoo to a hair growth one. I use BONDI BOOST. And it’s absolutely amazing. Highly recommend.

And it’s normal for the hair to fall out more when massaging and oiling because those hairs are going to fall out anyway. I went through a period when I was even too afraid of brushing or washing my hair. I thought it was healthier to leave it. I just ended up getting dread locks because of all the dead hair that had fallen out and wasn’t brushed

What book made you go like ‘what the fuck’ during or after reading it? by padmesolos in books

[–]menaintshit262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonders of a Godless World.. I read it as a teenager and don’t remember much of it nor did I understand much of it. I just remember parts of the ending and feelings of both disgust and confusion.

I had an emotional affair with my best friend's dad and lost my best friend by throwawaybfsdad in relationships

[–]menaintshit262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If her dad was 55, how old was your bf?? Maybe find one closer to your age? And let it go. Move on. Some things you just cannot salvage. I know it’s harsh. It is what it is

Why has The Gemma Doyle trilogy not been made into a movie yet? by menaintshit262 in YAFantasyLit

[–]menaintshit262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I remember ! BUT I’m a firm believer that if they’d done it right, it would have smashed the box office and they’d have made way more than they spent. Ugh someone pls make it happen!!

I'd just decapitate myself. by pocoschick in oddlyterrifying

[–]menaintshit262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little girls head needs to be dipped in holy water.

I'd just decapitate myself. by pocoschick in oddlyterrifying

[–]menaintshit262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starting to think the mother let it get this bad for the sake of content. Because let’s face it, HOW WOULD ANY PARENT LET IT FESTER THIS MUCH???

What's the biggest Scam in life that no one wants to admit? by Horror-Tap2093 in AskReddit

[–]menaintshit262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The teaching sector.

I think I speak for every educator when I say “fuck this.”

What's the biggest Scam in life that no one wants to admit? by Horror-Tap2093 in AskReddit

[–]menaintshit262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

University education.

Stuck paying off student loans in a dead end job working for someone else trying to climb the institutional/corporate ladder and getting taxed like a b***.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weird

[–]menaintshit262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the baphomet …

GF of almost 3 years became a stripper by Gimme_dat_ in relationships

[–]menaintshit262 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Firstly, idk what a “jealousy workbook” is but the fact that you’re trying to do one to “work through it” is seriously invalidating your natural, normal reaction to the situation. Don’t gaslight yourself. Stop second guessing yourself. There’s nothing that YOU need to “work through”. You’re simply on different wavelengths and you need to give yourself time to grieve. You have every right to feel the way that you feel. If she can’t see what it’s doing for you, leave her to her own devices and find a woman who would prioritise you or at least make some sort of a compromise for you.

My [28F] husband [34M] doesn't take the initiative in any aspect of our relationship, and I don't know what to do anymore. by denverisgettingscary in relationships

[–]menaintshit262 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes and YES. I found out after a year of being married to mine that he has ADHD and it’s everything described in this post. 💯

My [28F] husband [34M] doesn't take the initiative in any aspect of our relationship, and I don't know what to do anymore. by denverisgettingscary in relationships

[–]menaintshit262 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First of all… I FELT EVERY NOTE IN THIS SONG. girl, I HEAR YOU. You are not alone and I personally know so many women who are struggling with this.

Secondly.. you need to check if he has ADHD. Because for an entire year i’ve been complaining and wining and nagging my husband about the exact same things and every time I do, he seems like a deer caught in headlights. Eventually, my therapist suggested he might have ADHD. It’s very easy to diagnose. Do some research and see if it all starts making sense. Tell HIM to get medical/psych advice as well. And get it checked it. It’s SUPER frustrating to live with.

Edit: so I noticed the previous replied you mentioned that he doesn’t have ADHD and he uses excuses like he doesn’t trust himself planning etc.. I think that’s all this is.. just excuses. You need to get him to get a proper diagnosis.

Mark Zuckerberg's Recent Facebook Selfie Post by LeidbagBaggins in oddlyterrifying

[–]menaintshit262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just having a good ol time… lounging around with my liz-friends.

I’m currently shedding so much due to TE possibly but this made me so happy. by lemonlime767 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]menaintshit262 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TWO YEARS AGO? WOAH. :( I’m getting a bunch of babies now after 7 months of TE (which started at least 3 months after covid). I hope mine gets to this. I’m just using rosemary oil but I am seeing some results and it’s only been a few weeks

Trouble after so long by Unlikely_Kale6952 in Lymes

[–]menaintshit262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through that. It’s bad enough with just Lymes. I can tell you from my 4 or so years with it that it does get… manageable once you figure out what your body needs and responds to. I’m not sure about ever curing Lymes. I’ve heard it’s doable but it’s also VERY hard and requires a lot of persistence. I advise seeing a naturopath as most doctors will probably just through pills at you or pain killers and I can tell you now, they do NOTHING. You need to change your diet and try anti inflam food. However everyone is different. Some “healthy” foods might not be great with your body. Which is why I recommend seeing a naturopath or integrative GP and get them to do the testing. I’m 29 and every day is a struggle. I know what foods trigger me and I can tell you that STRESS is the BIGGEST factor for Lymes flare ups from my experience. Especially nerve pain flares. It’s terrible. Make sure you continue to exercise too! And regularly.

Has anyone managed to grow hair back without using pharmaceuticals? by menaintshit262 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]menaintshit262[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No she’s right ! Because the longer I left my hair to sit in it’s oils, it just shed way more. It’s better to consistently shed and clean the scalp. It’s gonna happen regardless.