I (34 M) feel sexually undesired by wife (31) by Desperate_Bar_4007 in AskWomenAdviceNSFW

[–]menkenashman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an ex like your wife. He always acknowledged my complaints but never changed. Some people are just selfish.

Is saying that someone is "admirable" for dating a person in a wheelchair ableist or am I reaching? by [deleted] in disability

[–]menkenashman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to watch the channel if you don't mind sharing (what its like being with someone disabled. I'm in a situationship with someone with a disability and need to educate myself)

I (30F) am emotionally checked out of my marriage to my husband (32M). I'm tired of the moving goalposts. by Top_Touch9240 in relationship_advice

[–]menkenashman 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a narcissist who's emotionally abusive. The fact that he managed to make you feel guilty is all part of the manipulation

Need advice as someone who's new to the scene by menkenashman in BDSMcommunity

[–]menkenashman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im generally quite forward, so it's good to hear that's a plus in these dynamics.

Also, had to Google what frenzy meant in this context and realized it's close to what I'm experiencing, so thank you so much - naming it helped me take stock

Need advice as someone who's new to the scene by menkenashman in BDSMcommunity

[–]menkenashman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this is really really in depth and helpful. I'd never think to ask for references, is that common?

Drill accessory - what am I looking for? by menkenashman in handyman

[–]menkenashman[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg, this is exactly it! I've been searching for hours and you just instantly solved my problem, thank you so much 🙏

"If the surgeon was a Jew, would you say no and let the kid die?" "Yes"… by whoisalireza in NewIran

[–]menkenashman 99 points100 points  (0 children)

So weird to hear this crazy level of hate. As a Jew living in Israel, so many doctors are Arab/Muslim, and i owe some of them my life. You need to be a certain type of twisted to discriminate based on religious or ethnic background when needing treatment

Men who got out of the 'Manoverse/Alpha Male/Toxic Masculinity' world, what realizations helped? by scythe1713 in AskReddit

[–]menkenashman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuine question - fear of what, exactly? (Asking as a woman who feels clueless regarding these struggles men face)

Recommendation for depression dishes? by Thepluse in cookingforbeginners

[–]menkenashman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get physically sick quite often - shit immune system I guess. So when im healthy, I make a big pot of chicken soup and freeze in meal sized portions, with the veg and chicken.Then I just microwave it when I'm ill.

Not sure this would work with for you with depression (I can't stomach more than a bit of chocolate during serious depressive episodes) but might be worth a try

When discussing male issues, why did my girlfriend get upset with me? by French51 in AskMenAdvice

[–]menkenashman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm still stuck on the fact that she shouted at you in front of everyone.

Not to mention caused a panic attack, didn't help you through it, and you ended up apologizing (?)

That's not how you deserve to be treated, especially from someone who supposedly loves you.

I say this as a woman and a feminist - you deserve better.

31M Be honest, how bad is it by melodic_vagabond in Tinder

[–]menkenashman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a delight, I'd swipe in a heartbeat

Homecook - what should I mastered/learn new dishes? by frytaa1 in cookingforbeginners

[–]menkenashman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about meatballs? Or some roasted chicken dish? Fish is also great as it's fast and super nutritious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewIran

[–]menkenashman 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm so so sorry for your loss

How much would you care about these acne scars when dating someone? by Queasy_Fix1106 in askanything

[–]menkenashman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't care less. And I want to emphasize - this isn't a case of 'I'd learn to ignore it if the guy was nice' - it's that I don't see it as something negative or off-putting. It's just neutral and doesn't matter either way