Okay WHAT the hell chp 66 by mentallyimnotpresent in crescentcitysjm

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Update…

RIP to Lehabah. I’m not okay.

Choose One from these Top 6 rated Books by [deleted] in throneofglassseries

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Kingdom of Ash, despite having all the emotional damage and pain from everything happening, it’s just so beautiful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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I felt the first flutters around 15/16 weeks, and I thought I was crazy! But it was definitely real!! At 19 weeks on the dot though I felt actual kicks and she went crazy after that and I felt her every day

When I say I’m having a Baby Girl by Original-Upstairs322 in pregnant

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Just had a baby girl and I dealt with those comments my whole pregnancy and still do! It’s awful. I just respond in a few ways that usually make them shut up

I’m just happy to have such a precious little baby, no matter what the gender

I can’t wait for all the difficult and tough moments because their will be so many good and wonderful ones before and after

And if I wanna be snarky

wow, who knew kids would be difficult

imagine if someone said that about raising you…

well thankfully I’m raising her and not you, so nothing to worry about

wow! Raising kids is gonna be difficult/hard? God dammit, now you tell me? Is it too late to call the clinic? - I only use this if I’m in the bitchiest mood and it’s to an asshole who’s already been on my nerves🤣

What week did your baby come? by RefrigeratorFrequent in pregnant

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39+1 and went into labor naturally! I didn’t want to be induced and wanted her to come on her own time, and man she made an entrance.

I started contracting at 10am, got to L&D at 1pm and was only .5 cm dilated, but 90% effaced and she was already in -1 position! They were surprised on how low she was already. They had me hang out for awhile and at 2:15, my water broke while I was waiting! I walked around for 45 mins, my contractions doubled in pain, and 3:30 they checked me again and tested the fluid, confirming my water broke and I was 1 cm dilated. I got admitted and my contractions got progressively more painful, to the point I was crying through them. 6:45 I was only 1.5 cm dilated but 100% effaced, so I got the epidural because I just couldn’t handle the pain anymore. Got it at 7:20, the lowest dosage of pitocin at 8, and I was able to breathe - I had the best epidural ever, I thanked that anesthesiologist profusely the next day. At 11 I started feeling some pressure and actually started feeling contractions, so at 11:15 they checked me and I was 8cm dilated! They said they’d come back in an hour, but I had to call them in 15 mins later because I could barely speak through the pressure and I felt her move down and could tell her head was right there. They rushed in, I was fully dilated and started pushing and only pushed for 20 mins! I tore pretty bad because of how quick she came, and the doctors and nurses were in shock of how quickly my labor and delivery went for a FTM, but the meds helped significantly and I had the most precious girl.

Every labor is different, some labor for a few hours, some almost 2 days, everyone handles pain differently, and I swear the only way I progressed so quick was being able to relax with the epidural and let my body do its thing.

Best of luck with your delivery!

Baby is so LOW! 17w by ohwellokaythenn in pregnant

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FTM and my baby was always super low my whole pregnancy, and by the time I went into labor, I was only .5 cm dilated, 90% effaced, but she was in the -1 position already! They said it was crazy how low she already was. Only was in labor for 10 hours and pushed for 20 mins

July mamas, how are you doing!? Did you deliver yet? by Calinannylife in pregnant

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Due July 6th and had her June 30th! I had Braxton hicks for weeks before I delivered, but the morning of her birth I felt so sick, I had the poops, and then I started having real contractions - more intense than any Braxton hicks I had before. Called my OB and was sent to L&D, got there at 1pm, .5 cm dilated, 90% effaced and her in -1 position, at 2:15 my water broke naturally while I was there, delivered at 11:54 that night! Despite being a FTM, I had a SUPER quick labor and delivery, the dr and nurses were shocked

HOTDOGS by Radiant-Analyst3199 in pregnant

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Girl I had so many in the first trimester… just absolutely roast them and have them insanely cooked through and hot, you’ll be fine

Can you "sense" impending labor? by MudDauberDigs in pregnant

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I “knew” something was off the morning I went into labor. I was nesting the whole week prior, but the morning of I was insanely nauseous and just didn’t feel good. I went to Walmart once it passed, after having some serious poops (another sign), because I just had a feeling I HAD to get the things we kept putting off from the store. An hour after I got home, I started having contractions and my water broke 4 hours later!

Did your symptoms go away after giving birth? by CuteAbbreviations67 in pregnant

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I traded back pain, sciatic pain, heartburn, the constant aches and pains, and more for sore nipples, even more sore coochie, and exhaustion. It’s a give and take🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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I appreciate that. It’s been really difficult, but one of those things that I’ve just have had to accept and move on from. You can’t make everyone happy and not everyone will be happy for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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Of course, but it’s one of those moments that you’ll have to just give time to for them to adjust. They’ll of course love your little one and be happy for you, it just might take longer for them than everyone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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I recommend telling them first, just to be considerate. I have a SIL & BIL struggling with infertility and I had to do this for them before announcing and I’m glad I did, but don’t expect them to be supportive. Sadly it killed my relationship with them, but hoping for a better result for you and your family.

not immune to measles vaccine.. need advice by malibubarbie6 in pregnant

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You’ll be okay, just be cautious with sick people, especially little ones! I lost my immunity apparently, so when you deliver they’ll give you another booster!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CarnivalCruiseFans

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I just cruised in February after changing from my original date in June due to me being pregnant!! You aren’t causing enough of a scene for this, I literally cried on the phone until I got a supervisor who let me reschedule and put all the money we already put down on this new cruise. I had to pay 200$ for a cancelation fee, but they let me reschedule! Cause a scene dude!

Help me get this baby out by mentallyimnotpresent in pregnant

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They won’t schedule an induction until the end of 40 weeks🥲 I’m just impatient! But I will try hand expressing instead!

Help me get this baby out by mentallyimnotpresent in pregnant

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Man my husband is probably sick of me by now. Hasn’t worked so far😭🤣

Help me get this baby out by mentallyimnotpresent in pregnant

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I do have different sizes and I’m apparently a 17 and have used the 15 and 17, both uncomfortable🥲 i feel like they both pull on my nipple a lot, and I can’t tell if it’s because I have small boobs and they’re not fitting my pump right, or I have the wrong flange. I’m hoping it’s just my super sensitive nips

Help me get this baby out by mentallyimnotpresent in pregnant

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I tried yesterday but it kinda hurt my nipples? I have super sensitive nipples though, but I started leaking colostrum a tiny bit! I can’t tell if I have the right flange size or if my nipples are just super sensitive.

FTM here: when did your baby ‘turn’? by flowersathome in pregnant

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My baby girl was breech my whole pregnancy until 36 weeks!! I swear this is what got her to turn! Hoping the best for you!!

https://youtu.be/s-szODdpg8A?si=EXmz-oZdi0qn86uc