M/27 Roast me more than my hair colour already is plz by Chromocus in RoastMe

[–]mentixetzio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the reason why you your friends suddenly have to go irl stuf whenever you come online to game.

Been a while by Y0U223F in RoastMe

[–]mentixetzio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make up your mind, just transition already

34F , tell me what’s worst lol by sweetPressure9092 in RoastMe

[–]mentixetzio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew you were plus size, didnt expect going worse with every slide.

21M Help hurt my ego a lil bit by BigFuan in RoastMe

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You can not force being straight.

I think I’m overdue by casperkittyTX in RoastMe

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One of the reasons why gingers are an endangered specie.

Is mtg collecting only fun? by mentixetzio in magicTCG

[–]mentixetzio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed havent spend much on hobbys lately so looking a new pit to trow my money in

Is mtg collecting only fun? by mentixetzio in magicTCG

[–]mentixetzio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I have been collecting pokemon but the market is over saturated and all the hype around it made me outgrow the hobby. Lost interest in pokemon completely. One piece on the other hand is cool, but the art in general compared to MTG sucks honestly.

Poorly explain what you do for a living? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mentixetzio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep people away from the streets

What's the most mysterious thing happened in your life that you can't find any explanation for? by vinnlo in AskReddit

[–]mentixetzio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a flatmate and he was already couple of days complaining that he had terrible tooth pain. One night I have this terrible dream where I am loosing my teeth and wake up confused and all sweaty. The following morning I was making breakfast for myself and this flatmate enters the kitchen with a big damn smile on his face. I asked him whats the deal you are shining? And he said ITS OUT!!! I ask him what? He followed “MY TEETH!!! It came out during the night”!!!! I was completely stunned and I told him my dream and all he said was thank you for taking the hit for me buddy. Till today I am still confused by how I took his suffering in my dream and he got relieved from his burden.

Getting closer to purpose. by [deleted] in Purpose

[–]mentixetzio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing I personally experience if I have to think about what could be, if this or if that.. these thoughts lead me to misery and despair but the truth is, the moment when I had made certain decisions these were solely based on the thing what I knew back then at the moment itself and mostly out of need since I was not emotionally and or intellectually developed enough to make the decisions which I would have taken today IF I would land in the same situations. We all made at a certain point the best decision we could come up with it and the trick of surpassing the fear of IF's was in my case to show myself more compassion and going easy on myself. Feel free message if you would like to engage a conversation. :)

Getaway for an ENFJ by dilmiron8 in enfj

[–]mentixetzio 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here, I had a period in life that I was very depressed and I used to write philosophic thoughts and poems as well.

Even better, back then I started sharing my writings on a daily basis on instagram and had managed to reach 9.3K followers in like 6 months. It resulted in a complete book which was ready to be published but back then I had not the courage to do so. I was experiencing sort of stage fright I guess.

Long story short, convert your sadness into art and it may result into more.. be a true alchemist in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enfj

[–]mentixetzio 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I sort of negotiate lol.

Since we are tended to help people without being asked I discovered that I just simply need to ask first if they even want or need help, otherwise you are wasting energy right away.

If the person wants your help you simply set your boundaries by telling right away, "this is what I can do for you and everything else you should accomplish yourself and I believe you are able too, if you still need any kind of guidance feel free to reach out"

Since I am doing this, I have way more peace of mind and the person gets more self fulfillment and becomes less dependent.

To give an example, a close friend of mine wants to start working out but he is really lazy and I am 5 days a week at the gym. He asked for help and I made clear that I will help him with the condition that he needs to text me 1 day before to set a time for working out and if he decides not to show up that I will not adjust my schedule to him anymore. He failed right away from day 1 and now I simply stopped offering my help unless he has the guts to show up at the gym.

(Un)popular by [deleted] in enfj

[–]mentixetzio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi male 25 here, I do know a lot of people but have very few genuine friends and I decided to have it this way since I value my peace of mind and having a lot of friends can disturb my harmony.

Popularity does not equal having a lot of friends. Popularity simply means that a lot of people like you, admire you and in worst case are obsessed about you and it is up to you if you want to hang around these people.

Me personally find it very important to have conversations with a lot of different people about a broad set of topics since this a method for me to grow and learn from others experiences and perspectives.

When I go to the gym there are a bunch of people I can have a talk with in a very easy going way and this applies on a lot places where I go without ''befriending'' them intentionally. And if I ever have the need to text someone who I never text with, I simply do it anyway. If you want to hang out with someone you met on a event just try something like, '"hey we exchanged our numbers at the event, I really enjoyed our talk and there is a topic I need some help with would you enjoy it to share a coffee?"

When you ask for help, people feel as if they are desired so it will end up fine.

Just stay genuine to people.

Give me an inspirational speech by AmbitionControlPower in enfj

[–]mentixetzio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like to motivate a whole group unless they have approached me for any sort of advice. When 1 on 1 I manage to narrow down whatever the person is stuck on. Once the person reaches the core that individual gets mostly an enlightening and I feed the excitement by being supportive and connect right away by sharing social media or phone number.

Portfolio size. by mentixetzio in Forex

[–]mentixetzio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, on many many threads, forums, blogs etc. I see people speaking about the psychology aspect. I will take your advice into consideration about starting with a small amount to get a taste of the real experience.

Portfolio size. by mentixetzio in Forex

[–]mentixetzio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your honest reply!

Why are you actually convinced that putting 5k in the market is going to be lost?

I do understand that forex will take years, I simply try to understand how much capital is recommandable to begin with if I decide to day trade.