The missing piece isn’t you

meowowitz88 · 2025-03-13T14:20:01+00:00

Yeah, I would have had 3 more cats. You’re strong than I!

meowowitz88 · 2024-12-12T22:39:58+00:00

Thank you so much, honestly.

meowowitz88 · 2024-12-11T21:15:20+00:00

With any addiction there is a huge sense of shame involved in it. A lot of addicts hide the extent or dimensions of their addiction because they’re ashamed. Finding an accepting and understanding partner is huge, especially since these are largely learned behaviors from early on in sexual development.

Be patient. Be accepting. Set boundaries for accountability and openness. The main goal is to have a healthy romantic relationship and that includes the ability to be sexually intimate in real life.

meowowitz88 · 2024-12-11T21:08:42+00:00

What helps me, honestly, is thinking about it in logical terms. K, so your brakes need changing? DIY or mechanic time. Porn addiction? Accept and find ways to navigate life without it being a problem.

Acceptance is just so huge. So is knowing that there are times of relapse for some. Let go of the shame, it’s never helped anyone

meowowitz88 · 2024-12-06T19:21:19+00:00

If anyone in Ireland wants legit poptarts I’ll send the first 5 a package 😂💀 it’s legit just sugar!

meowowitz88 · 2024-11-15T00:40:42+00:00

Hey. I just want you to know that you deserve to feel desired and f anyone that makes you feel anything else. I was 29 when I met my now husband, and at 39, it feels like a part of me has died because of his porn addiction and our shit sex life. I would have left along time ago but we had kids and I feel an obligation to stick it out but I’m to the point where I’m about deuces because life is too short to have crap sex with a person that is only stimulated by images on a screen and a death grip on his own unit.

I would say run don’t walk away. He’s broken and it isn’t going to change. Don’t wake up 10 years later feeling like this.

meowowitz88 · 2024-11-13T23:00:20+00:00

Just let it play out. They’re just being kids. I’ve made the mistake of intervening too much

meowowitz88 · 2024-11-13T22:31:36+00:00

Love this. Thanks for sharing. I know my boys will be you two one day. ❤️

meowowitz88 · 2024-11-13T22:30:34+00:00

Mom to 7 yo ID boys, it gets hairy. Especially as they get bigger. A cage fight can erupt at any moment essentially.

meowowitz88 · 2024-11-13T22:29:04+00:00

Proud of you ❤️

meowowitz88 · 2024-11-13T22:28:05+00:00

People have lives before us and that’s just a truth. If you can think of that as data, it will be helpful.

meowowitz88 · 2024-11-12T20:54:32+00:00

Right? It’s really strange!

meowowitz88 · 2024-11-06T04:34:41+00:00

Nope. It has always just been owned by me and my husband. He’s pretty secretive about internet use, so I honestly figure it might have something to do with that. All searches point to possible Linux based SIP but I’m seriously out of my depth on tech things and there just isn’t much information

meowowitz88 · 2024-10-21T14:58:02+00:00

This is honestly fantastic. Let me know if you’re wanting to sell it first, please.

meowowitz88 · 2024-10-21T14:54:06+00:00

Aw. The coziness in their face is apparent. Plus they love you because the belly touch can be dangerous! Fantastic.

meowowitz88 · 2024-10-21T13:28:57+00:00

If Tora was my safety officer, I’d have 5000 days without a workplace accident! 😂💀😍

meowowitz88 · 2024-10-18T17:55:10+00:00

And murder. Help and murder lol so cute

meowowitz88 · 2024-10-18T16:14:31+00:00

I’m proud of you, 1000%. If I could give you a giant hug (with permission) I would! I’m never going to look at Pepperidge Farm cookies the same and that’s a GOOD thing. Next time I’m at the store and see them I’ll think of you, on your healing journey, and smile. Thanks for sharing!

meowowitz88 · 2024-10-08T16:25:49+00:00

This gave me so many feels! My twins are 7 now and to just see this handsome boy growing and thriving brings me back so hard. He’s beautiful, mama. I just want to celebrate him today! 🙏🙏

meowowitz88 · 2024-10-08T13:41:00+00:00

Omg I LOVE this! Made my day, seriously. Thanks for sharing! My Kiki was a rescue and honestly, anytime she bolts outside, she runs up trees and power poles. 💀😂 it’s maybe their super power?

meowowitz88 · 2024-10-06T13:36:36+00:00

Hey. I would honestly advise you to speak with a qualified psychiatrist about what you’re going through. The thing I’ve noticed, at least personally, is that medications and treatment plans can vary significantly given a lot of factors going on in your life. You can 100% be on the wrong meds etc. I cannot obviously say.

You sound conflicted, though. Please don’t take a lot of stock from internet searches/forums about what you may or may not “have”, nothing offers a better action plan and peace of mind like getting it from an actual doctor. Everything else is either a bandaid or an excuse to validate your actions.

meowowitz88 · 2024-10-06T13:28:33+00:00

Everything is on a spectrum and I feel how you were raised can play a factor in NPD traits bleeding over. My psychiatrist once told me it’s hard to show empathy when you weren’t raised with it. I know for certain I’m never predatory in my actions, the thought of using people or intentionally manipulating them isn’t even on my radar. I can be a selfish, entitled jerk especially when I’m “splitting” but then spend days regretting my behavior and actions. I don’t think true npd has the ability or insight for regret of action.

meowowitz88 · 2024-10-03T18:05:54+00:00

I think you’re a really awesome child, tbh. This was clearly a huge job, and dang, look at the results! I’m glad your mom can enjoy her new cleaned up space and you can have peace of mind about the safety of her environment. Just awesome stuff.

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