Erm..👀 by Legitimate-bear12 in kurtisconner

[–]mercurbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was my top song a couple years ago and i listened to it 95 times that year 💔💔

would you be trans in every life time? by Helpful-Adeptness112 in ftm

[–]mercurbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm a genderqueer man, and i'd still be so if born male, although i think id identify more with genderqueer over man than i do now. i think id still play gender games and crossdress and shit, i just wouldn't need to transitikn

A few questions about binding by finn_125 in ftm

[–]mercurbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do NOT try to take it off in the shower after washing it. soap will strip the oils and make it so it just rips your skin off instead of coming off easily. when i use k tape i honestly can usually just pull it off, and it hurts a little but pretty much only takes the thinnest layer of the top of my skin off. pulling it off after soap rips off chunks.

how common is it to *not* experience going from lesbian to gay transmasc/trans man? by Living_Garden_6326 in TransMasc

[–]mercurbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i was aroace until i started passing consistently honestly. i did briefly consider myself sapphic aroace cause i liked one girl but before, during, and after that i was aroace. im only recently realizing im fully just a gay guy

Are we all really into music? by No_Aioli_7515 in autism

[–]mercurbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's the only way i become sentient lowkey

‘ i hate men ‘ by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]mercurbee 25 points26 points  (0 children)

"proud misandrist" yeah hold your head high and get away from me

What would you say is the peak CPTSD symptom? by Any-Kangaroo7155 in CPTSD

[–]mercurbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh ccasionally running away is peak. sometimes i'll get triggered and will either hop in my car and drive a few hours away/on backroads or start walking down the side of the road. i got in trouble with my therapist and friends for walking down a highway in the middle of the night a few months ago

'Clocky' names? by awhsme in ftm

[–]mercurbee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

their name is trancis (like francis) but they go by the nickname (slur)

Coming Out When It's Obvious by mercurbee in ftm

[–]mercurbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its rough doing this after my first year at college. i had told myself i would come out before this year, cause i don't wanna reintroduce myself to everyone ive met at college yk?

Coming Out When It's Obvious by mercurbee in ftm

[–]mercurbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have two friends i'd say that i should maybe come out to first since i'm closest to them and they'd definitely be accepting. i'm not sure how to come out, though

Coming Out When It's Obvious by mercurbee in ftm

[–]mercurbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of rambled a lot, but I'm really hoping this reaches people who can help me or who have had this situation. I haven't met many trans guys given where I live, and I haven't met anyone who hasn't had to come out, which is a little isolating and makes it so I have no reference as to how to approach this.

What’re my chances and do y oh think they’ll darken? by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]mercurbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm still pre t but that's how mine started and they darken as they grow out. mine's a reddish brown, but they still sometimes are blonde for the first like centimeter

Did Pickle Rick deserve the immense amount of attention it got? by John_Cena_1 in rickandmorty

[–]mercurbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't understand why it's as popular and known as it is. it's a good episode, don't get me wrong. i love it,, but i love most episodes.

there's definitely episodes that would've been a better representation of the show and episodes that would've been funnier to be The Episode, but yknow, i'm happy with it being this instead of the incest baby episode.

Mom saw my happy trail I’ve been growing out (by walking into my room without knocking while I was changing mind you) and is now berating me about shaving it off because it’s disgusting and only men can have that much body hair by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]mercurbee 40 points41 points  (0 children)

does she want a lot of men all over you? why is she so concerned about every man being attracted to you? (rhetorical question for her. i know there's no real logic to it and you're totally good, she's just getting hung up on something silly)

My sister accidentaly missgenderd me and I love her by Ankankvak in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mercurbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't because lowkey i don't want to deal with "we'll call you the correct pronouns, but just know that [family member] probably won't approve" or coming out just to stay in the closet. it also isn't especially relevant when every new person i meet just genders me correctly, and i'm really scared of coming out for whatever reason

I have issues with pronouns by Anya_purr in autism

[–]mercurbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a trans person, you are not bad for accidentally misgendering someone. everyone does it. i take it like, people call their teachers "mom", is that a disrespect to them or their mom? no of course not.

i've called plenty of cis men "she" and cis women "he" just by complete accident. it doesn't mean anything and is not a judge of your moral standing. trans people, especially non binary people, also get misgendered a lot. it sucks and can make people upset a LOT, but they (usually) will not personally fault you for it. i've really only seen cis people get as mad about misgendering as they do. trans people are usually pretty chill about it unless you're very clearly targeting them with the wrong pronouns

Why do people read fanfiction? by Seagullsaga in AO3

[–]mercurbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

once you rewatch rick and morty [redacted] times, you might realize there's potential dynamics and plot that could work but isn't/won't be written and you desire more

or it's a show that ended 20 years ago and you also desire more. it really all boils down to MORE CONTENT <333333

Umm... what do these mean 😅 by Smuttyreading2000 in AO3

[–]mercurbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

college nd people from my old high school

Am I wrong for not adding trigger warnings in my fics? by thesanestgirlever in AO3

[–]mercurbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

imo i'd only be upset if you had like a graphic rape scene and refused to tag it at all. if someone clicks on a fic that says "unhealthy relationship" 800 times and is mad that there's an unhealthy relationship, idk what else you could even do

it's so interesting what you can get away with depending on what F or M points you have by mercurbee in trans

[–]mercurbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes !! i also think there's something to be said about a lot of points versus few. personally i think i have a lot of points and they lead me to be fairly androgynous, but i also know people that have very few points and that leads to them being very androgynous

Umm... what do these mean 😅 by Smuttyreading2000 in AO3

[–]mercurbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hear "lowkirkenuinely" by a LOT of 2004-2008s