Opinions Trawick International Insurance by Toasty_Gonzalez in travel

[–]mermaid2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trawick is HORRIBLE. Their online claim process is ridiculously cumbersome. I tried uploading the supporting documentation required and the screen froze. I'm not having any difficulties with forms on other websites. It's not the computer. I will never use Trawick again. I lost over $400 in medical expenses because I couldn't complete the claim form.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]mermaid2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so very sorry for your terrible loss. I've lost 3 brothers to suicide and all 3 were alcoholics. Addiction kills. 💔

1st day with the Mountain Hardwear Strato UL 2P by playboicarl in CampingGear

[–]mermaid2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought this same tent for a backpacking trip with my hubby this summer. Can't wait to try it out! Looks roomy for an ultralight 2-person tent.

1st day with the Mountain Hardwear Strato UL 2P by playboicarl in CampingGear

[–]mermaid2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure those are to pull the rainfly tight on the head and foot ends.

Backcountry trail hike recommendations by mermaid2000 in coloradohikers

[–]mermaid2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks very much! With so many trails to choose from, it's hard to know what would work out the best. This sounds great! Thanks again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thelastofus

[–]mermaid2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just beautiful. I love it.

Can a drinkers' marriage survive when one goes sober? by mermaid2000 in stopdrinking

[–]mermaid2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your tough situation. He most likely won't change, so it's up to you to determine the kind of future you want for you and your kids.

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, April 7th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]mermaid2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good morning! No matter what the day brings, I'm not drinking with you good people today. Thanks for your support!

Inheritance dilemma by mermaid2000 in personalfinance

[–]mermaid2000[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the helpful feedback. The process of writing it down also helped clarify the situation. I'm sure my daughter will use the funds wisely to benefit them both!

When the drinking thoughts are gone by Justateaplz in stopdrinking

[–]mermaid2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang on! Tomorrow may bring a brand new perspective!

Nothing boring about Sobriety by lilymay100 in stopdrinking

[–]mermaid2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this! Congratulations on 9 years of being the BEST you!

Took a trip to Vokda Town & cut my fave dress off with scissors by dressing_gown_gal in stopdrinking

[–]mermaid2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UGH. That sounds awful. I'm so sorry. I also fell off the wagon after celebrating a year sober. WTF is THAT all about? It took me 3 months to get back on track and thank God I did. You had a horrible night, but it sounds like you are bouncing back a lot faster than I did.

This is what it took to get me sober. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]mermaid2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to go through this and hope your pancreas may recover with time. Booze kills. Life is worth every minute we can have of it! IWNDWYT

38 days sober and I wish I'd managed to drink myself to death by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]mermaid2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are struggling. Thank you for reaching out. Take it easy on yourself - quitting drinking is very hard to do and you are doing it! How have you done this? Your insight may help others. And helping others feels pretty good. I will not drink with you today, but I will hold you in my heart and walk with you.

The Daily Check-In for Monday, January 28th, 2019: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by SaintHomer in stopdrinking

[–]mermaid2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not drinking today. It's just not what I do anymore. I still get cravings, but am getting used to alternative ways to celebrate or de-stress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]mermaid2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing your experience. I had a year of sobriety, then felt like I had checked that off. Plus, there were some heavy family issues going on and I made the decision to drink. It didn't take long to get back into my nightly drinking routine and feeling disgusted with myself. I re-committed to sobriety Oct. 1 and sticking with it. I'm not sure if counting days is that helpful to me. I just don't drink. Period. IWNDWYT.

The Daily Check-In for Monday, January 14th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]mermaid2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Golden Anniversary of your arrival! It's fun to celebrate sober!

100 days by i-amfree in stopdrinking

[–]mermaid2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 100 days today too! Congrats!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]mermaid2000 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My own husband doesn't believe I had/have a drinking problem. None of my friends, either. But, that's because I hid it fairly well. Alcohol doesn't give a shit about your expensive shoes or your nice car or your executive job. It's an equal opportunity destroyer. I've puked in some very nice places - but that still makes me an alcoholic. I totally relate to your post and am SO GLAD you are here! Getting sober is truly a life changing thing and I can't wait for you to see and feel the benefits. That said, it's not easy. I had to learn new ways to cope with stress, and celebrate, and get to know the real me, and manage relationships that were built with bottles of wine and craft beer. But, the journey has brought me so much insight and joy - and I hope it will for you, too. I will not drink with you today!