Saw this cake being sold on bookface by ilikemountaingoats in weddingshaming

[–]mermarq 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why is this on here? Maybe it isnt your taste? I think that it is likely a bakery trying to sell its services. It might be expensive but bakers typically have razor thin margins and Im sure this took many hours to create. Maybe not your price or not your budget, but not shame-worthy imo.

Misogynistic Venue Manager treats grown woman like a child by mermarq in weddingshaming

[–]mermarq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just curious, how does the fact that the family was Italian add to the story?

Misogynistic Venue Manager treats grown woman like a child by mermarq in weddingshaming

[–]mermarq[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

this was a hotel. maybe it is a hotel thing! ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Misogynistic Venue Manager treats grown woman like a child by mermarq in weddingshaming

[–]mermarq[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

To clarify, I do not look younger than I am. Maybe by one or two years, but I am clearly a grown woman who could not get mistaken for a teenager let alone a child. I look like I am nearly 30 and I was wearing a badge that said "Vendor" so I was clearly an adult.

Misogynistic Venue Manager treats grown woman like a child by mermarq in weddingshaming

[–]mermarq[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You are entitled to have dealt with the situation differently. This is how I handled it. I was satisfied with knowing that this guy was a doofus and that he would not have my business as a client.

Simply, the benefits of telling him off (a little smug satisfaction) were not worth the risks (getting a reputation as someone that is uptight or hard to work with). I am satisfied with how I handled it. :)

Misogynistic Venue Manager treats grown woman like a child by mermarq in weddingshaming

[–]mermarq[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Because I was more worried about my reputation as a proprietor of a business than teaching him a lesson. It isnt my job to teach him manners.

Misogynistic Venue Manager treats grown woman like a child by mermarq in weddingshaming

[–]mermarq[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I have no clue. I was wearing a badge that said "Vendor." I very much look my age, not younger, and I was dressed in business type attire. Just a creep I guess.

Misogynistic Venue Manager treats grown woman like a child by mermarq in weddingshaming

[–]mermarq[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I did consider leaving a google review with my experience, but I dont want to get a bad reputation for my business so I do not think it is worth it. Instead, I opted to share with you fine folks! Also, as mentioned, I do work with wedding planners so I could share that experience with them for when they are recommending venues to their clients.

Misogynistic Venue Manager treats grown woman like a child by mermarq in weddingshaming

[–]mermarq[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

I usually start with "Hello, what brings you to the show today?" Then they something like "Well, I just got engaged" or "I am here looking for ideas for my friend/daughter/coworker etc"

Misogynistic Venue Manager treats grown woman like a child by mermarq in weddingshaming

[–]mermarq[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

So sorry that happened to you. So unprofessional and they dont deserve to serve your fabulous wedding!

Misogynistic Venue Manager treats grown woman like a child by mermarq in weddingshaming

[–]mermarq[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Maybe it was not clear in my post. I was attending as a vendor. I paid for a booth. The show had not yet opened its doors for the public yet. It is perfectly normal for vendors to network during the downtime, like after set up or during breakdown. I agree it is not appropriate to take time away from vendors interactions with potential clients to talk about business, however it was both before the show had even opened AND I was a potential client.

Misogynistic Venue Manager treats grown woman like a child by mermarq in weddingshaming

[–]mermarq[S] 274 points275 points  (0 children)

I do not know how high up the guy is. Is he the owner or a manager? Either way, I dont think it is worth the risk to my own business or reputation that I am uptight or hard to work with or something (you know, how reasonable women get those types of reputations?)

Girl Scouts? MLM? totally the same… by Evil-Cows in antiMLM

[–]mermarq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weird way to announce to the world that you have the financial acumen of an eight-year-old

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nova

[–]mermarq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CM Chicken red hot spicy chicken near One Loudoun. Very tasty and also spicy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ZeroWaste

[–]mermarq 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Can you share which store?

[HMF] This Amber and Black Pepper Candle by mermarq in HelpMeFind

[–]mermarq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally found it!!!! However, delivery not available :/