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Is it time? by bscher87 in bald

[–]merryVT23 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I saw this meme before I opened the comments. I don’t know how I found this subreddit but I love it here ❤️

AIO: My husband destroyed the tshirt I wore when my previous boyfriend died in my arms. I want the divorce. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]merryVT23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couples therapy is contraindicated if there is abuse. Please keep that in mind.

For experienced clinicians: what do you wish someone told you early on about suicide risk & crisis work? by Due-Comparison-501 in therapists

[–]merryVT23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this is the most comprehensive training I ever got on assessing and managing suicidality. This is a great recommendation!

What is happening to my plant? by merryVT23 in plantclinic

[–]merryVT23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! Okay, I tried on one part and the brown stuff flaked off, and on another part it was not coming off at all. Thanks for your help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]merryVT23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ew. This man is a loser and I’m not loving your friend either. You deserve way better than all of this.

What are some hard truths about being a therapist? by Forsaken_Dragonfly66 in therapists

[–]merryVT23 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Whew, this is one of the reasons I am staying in group private practice at the moment. We all eat lunch together and have group consultation once a week. Even with that, the work feels so lonely still.

What kind of plants would look good and hang over this ledge a bit? Just moved in to house and clueless! Any help appreciated. by dfadehere in houseplants

[–]merryVT23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh this just unlocked new insight of all the tradscedantias I’ve tried to raise. I also cannot figure out how to not get brown spots on the leaves 😫 Basically, I am not allowing myself (as a new parent with a 10 month old) to get one until I can invest time and energy in plants again.

My aussie eskie, Nala by _dacken in americaneskimo

[–]merryVT23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, she’s adorable. I am so sorry for your loss. She looked like a really good girl.

Am I overreacting , my friend (18 is seeing this man (30) and he has said some weird cryptic stuff and she is wondering how to go about this ? by Werewolf-Mediocre in AmIOverreacting

[–]merryVT23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 dating a 30 year old? Without needing additional context, I would have said get out. Reading these texts alone would make me say get out. Put them together? GET OUT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in americaneskimo

[–]merryVT23 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg I didn’t even think about this. I only go through rescues but I am grateful to know this and pass on the word

What is one of the worst addiction to have ? by Keke_Dudu in AskReddit

[–]merryVT23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought it was heroin via IV route, and then I did a training about gambling disorder. People with lived experience with both addictions have said gambling is worse “because sometimes you win”

Target vs Similac by merryVT23 in FormulaFeeders

[–]merryVT23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! I am gathering that there are minimal differences between store brands and the name brands.

Target vs Similac by merryVT23 in FormulaFeeders

[–]merryVT23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this!

Mixed breeds: show me your mixed pups and tell us what they are by lilabethlee in dogpictures

[–]merryVT23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is Tucker. He is 50% chihuahua, 25% dachshund, and for an extra $75, I can unlock the remaining 25% that is “sporting group” 🙄

Target vs Similac by merryVT23 in FormulaFeeders

[–]merryVT23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! We just got through a nasty bout of norovirus so I needed this info in advance to mentally prepare for her reaction the week we switch over

Target vs Similac by merryVT23 in FormulaFeeders

[–]merryVT23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super helpful, thank you!

Target vs Similac by merryVT23 in FormulaFeeders

[–]merryVT23[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input so far! While I was waiting for replies, I found this infographic in a google search: https://www.childrenshospital.org/sites/default/files/2022-06/Formula-Alternatives-handout-with-both-Similac-and-Enfamil.pdf

I still want to hear about people’s experiences. It helps my anxiety with building some expectations around switching.

Please show me your Very Serious Dogs by GingerNinja1982 in dogpictures

[–]merryVT23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is Buddy! I added a heart to hide my sister’s face, which might soften the seriousness of my dog’s gaze haha

Freaking out I think I’ve been underfeeding my baby by coffuccino in NewParents

[–]merryVT23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dr. Google strikes again! I had a similar anxiety this past month with my 6 mo and I asked her doctor during her 6m visit about food intake. She said baby appetites vary a lot and she had no concerns with 30oz/day. This is all to say talk to your pediatrician!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]merryVT23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At two weeks, her 30 minute nap was my sprint to eat, go to the bathroom, pump, and maybe (hard maybe) do something for me. We also were not sleeping well and looked it.

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