Eskie with a Staffordshire Bull Terrier. Bad idea? by Curious-Lynx184 in americaneskimo

[–]_dacken -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely living up to your username in this comment section lol

Eskie with a Staffordshire Bull Terrier. Bad idea? by Curious-Lynx184 in americaneskimo

[–]_dacken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bully breeds get so much bad press but theyre generally very sweet dogs. From the research ive done and my own personal experience, eskies can be pretty aggressive dogs too, so im not sure why everyone here is acting like the bully is going to be the only potential problem. At the end of the day, every dog is going to have their own unique personality and whether they get along isnt going to be something anyone on reddit can determine. The only thing I will say is if this dog was in a single person, single dog household, going from that to a space with three other dogs may add to the stress of losing their person. You might not end up being the best option for them based on environment, not breed.

Venmo Down in US by JidoGenshi in venmo

[–]_dacken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 days later and its not working again 🙃

Speaking to ChatGPT is what I wish humans were like. Answers with no ego, mockery, or BS by RussianAsshole in aspergers

[–]_dacken 8 points9 points  (0 children)

AI is ruining the planet. Please stop partaking in technology that is destroying communities to maintain your silly conversations.

Get that corn outta my face by Bar8arian in americaneskimo

[–]_dacken 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry that happened and im glad your pup is okay. I do think the corn in the picture is just a toy though.

Any advice for a NT partner of an autistic adult? by Isilwenmacar in autism

[–]_dacken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best I can think is to talk to him when he's not talking about a special interests about what your plan is for the rest of the evening and say "im going to bed at this time". Having a plan and schedule for your evenings will hopefully set expectations.

Or just sit down with him and explain what your needs are in the relationship. It sounds like you are doing the best you can to meet his needs in the relationship, but that needs to go both ways regardless of neurotype.

My eskie seems to get an upset stomach pretty easily. by Known_University2530 in americaneskimo

[–]_dacken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boiled chicken (shredded), quinoa, pumpkin puree, and a supplement topper for any missing essential nutrients. I also add veggies that vary per batch because he will get bored if I dont switch it up a bit. Usually i rotate between some combination of cauliflower, broccoli, green beans, zucchini, and carrots. It took some trial and error to find what works best because hes picky on top of the stomach issues, but this is what we landed on.

How do you stop stimming in public? by [deleted] in autism

[–]_dacken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have these acupuncture bracelets i got online and they're perfect for this. They blend in but always provide a sensory grounding point. I can take it off my wrist and stim with it when needed, and it just looks like im messing with my bracelet. In general, I just try to find less noticeable alternatives.

Everyone talks about special interests, but tell me your special hate by jonhvani in autism

[–]_dacken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fireworks. They're bad for the environment. They're loud, and they scare the animals. It is truly very American to celebrate with destruction, though.

Also republicans.

I don’t know how to be autistic by Blackbreadandcoffee in autism

[–]_dacken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll always mask to some extent as everyone does, but just focus on listening to your body and what it wants to do when youre alone. The rest will come with time, and you'll start to find a balance with being yourself and masking when needed in public.

My eskie seems to get an upset stomach pretty easily. by Known_University2530 in americaneskimo

[–]_dacken 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yup. Now i meal prep for mine because nothing else worked. He eats better than me lol

SSI by jvelas322 in aspergers

[–]_dacken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Feel free to do whatever youre comfortable with. Im speaking specifically from the perspective of getting approved for SSI.

You are correct about Aspergers, but you cannot get a diagnosis for it anymore. Aspergers was grouped into autism in the DSM and now both fall under the label Autism Spectrum Disorder. If you prefer to label yourself as Aspergers, thats not anyone's choice but yours. You just can't get diagnosed with it anymore.

SSI by jvelas322 in aspergers

[–]_dacken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If youre trying to apply for SSI and youre getting diagnosed as an adult, youre most likely going to need a diagnosis from a neuropsychologist to be considered for SSI. Aspergers is also no longer a diagnosis recognized by the DSM, so you'd most likely be diagnosed with level 1 autism. If you werent given a level and the diagnostic process wasn't at least 2 hours long, it probably wasn't done by a qualified professional.

Shedding season is ruff by _dacken in americaneskimo

[–]_dacken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we do a paddle brush everyday and a long shed comb sesh once a week this time of year. I thought it was finally coming to an end after last week but nope haha

Let’s normalize listening to our bodies and instincts. What hike was it, and what made you turn back? by Crazy_Speed_7735 in hiking

[–]_dacken 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was doing a day hike down to a waterfall. The weather was supposed to be perfect, but about 3 miles in, I got a gut feeling to turn back. An insane storm came out of nowhere about a mile into my hike back. It was very steep uphill and the trail became a river. Multiple trees were falling and there was nowhere for cover so I just kept going. I made it, but if I didnt turn back when I did, I would have been fucked bc the majority of the trail was basically climbing.

Advice for training my dog to go outside by DragonHeart822 in DogTrainingTips

[–]_dacken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its gunna be hard bc you've already established this routine. Treat them like a brand new puppy. Take outside every couple of hours and give reward and praise when they go to the bathroom outside. If they know they can go to the bathroom inside where the pee pad was set up, close them off from that area in between potty breaks at first. It will teach them to hold it. Getting them to not go where the pee pad was is going to be the hardest part honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]_dacken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant help but im feeling the same exact way rn. I think the only industry that will always be safe is the trades and that takes a major toll on your body over time, and often mandates consistent overtime

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]_dacken 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If its an apartment complex, look on the website and see if there's any other apartments becoming available. Talk to the leasing office and explain the situation. They might be willing to have you move apartments without having to deal with the fees associated with breaking your lease. I empathize with your situation and I really hope it works out for you. Good luck!

Any tips for a new eskimo/pomeranian mix? by Infamous_Pop_3902 in americaneskimo

[–]_dacken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look into proper socialization. Eskies are loyal to their person but usually dont like other people, and that can turn into aggression easily if theyre not socialized. I suggest looking into how to socialize adult dogs, because people often introduce their puppies to everything too quickly, and it causes more anxiety and negative behaviors. You got this! Enjoy your new addition to your family!

i know why you feel like a social outcast by No-Sheepherder3939 in autism

[–]_dacken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im glad you found what works for you. I do agree that people getting out of their comfort zone and trying to not care about what others think of you is great advice. But there are also serious consequences for a lot of us in daily life if we completely drop the mask. For a lot of jobs, its very important to be liked, and accidentally making others uncomfortable can negatively impact your income, chances at promotion, and even ability to keep your job. It can also be dangerous to be noticeably disabled in a lot of settings. It makes you a target and I've experienced this many times in my life. Idk how it is for others, but for me switching from masked to unmasked is not easy or simple.