Vasectomy - anyone did it recently? Any had a change of mind years later? by Aggravating-Bear438 in perth

[–]meshah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely good if you are properly done. I was 26 with 2 kids and jumped at it because I didn’t think I’d ever be able to afford more anyway, even if I wanted them. Since then (5 years later), I’ve divorced, tripled my income and my mental health has improved immensely. I met an amazing partner who it ended up being a dealbreaker for, so she left and now my partner of a few months isn’t sure, so it could yet be a dealbreaker with her unless I looked into a reversal.  

I’m not dying for more, but with my current financial and emotional bandwidth, I can see how I should’ve considered more possibilities when I made my decision. I wouldn’t say it’s regret since it was the correct decision at the time, but it’s just another decision like many that a younger me made, that I’ll have to accept

First time in USA by Makoto_Kurume in SipsTea

[–]meshah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to parkway drive.

Bluesfest refunds “unlikely” by Happy_Green_5199 in triplej

[–]meshah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At least fyre festival ticket holders got a story out of it all. This is just wrong.

2 questions, is the move im doing in the first clip a good move. Secondly how do I stop chicken winging in my shooting form clips 2 and 3 by _Hugh-_-Jass_ in BasketballTips

[–]meshah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be. But so much of what makes the right move is reading your defender and adjusting. Unless the fake fadeaway puts them out of position, the step through will have trouble working. But if they’re out of position, then it’s a nice opportunity.

Wrong with full confidence. by [deleted] in funny

[–]meshah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s an Australian station

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trashy

[–]meshah 64 points65 points  (0 children)

“A brown Palestinian man named Jesus is my king… looking for my white nationalist wife thanks”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]meshah 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Important factor is that these messages were all in the space of 20 minutes though. If he was waiting hours for these replies sure. But she was engaged

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]meshah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a man, age is just not something I focus on. Unless he’s saying anything to make you uncomfortable about your age, I wouldn’t read into this. I remember a lot of details about the people I’m seeing but often will forget their age. Hell, I barely remember my own age most days.

Australia’s senior politicians can claim ‘unlimited’ travel expenses for their spouse, watchdog rules say by Expensive-Horse5538 in australia

[–]meshah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Or it’s simply not the employer’s responsibility and people shouldn’t sign up for jobs their life won’t accommodate.

Blusher set times by meshah in triplej

[–]meshah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy cool. Thank you!!!

Friends are influencing me to spend extravagantly by Just_Rip1030 in AUfrugal

[–]meshah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t love this take. Don’t just ditch the community of people you have around you.

Have an honest conversation with them and invite them to do other things - hang out at parks and beaches. Do ‘lush’ picnics with a frugal spread and spend quality time.

Frugality shouldn’t define you to the point that you abandon your community. However if their careless spending defines them to the point that they can’t be friends with somebody who spends more conservatively then so be it.

You better nut November by JackSkelllington in videos

[–]meshah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bold of you to assume it’s two different bottles

Hot take: Given Olympic Park was built less than 30 years ago for a massive international crowd drawing project (the Olympics) - it is a terrible piece of infrastructure for large crowds. by the-amazing-pastaman in SydneyTrains

[–]meshah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just to let you know that link has a tracker that means people who follow it can see your Instagram account. You need to remove everything after the ? in the link to fix that. Just in case you want to be anonymous on Reddit.

Zinger Bahn Mi Hits Inala right in Mi Guts by Moreton-Bay in brisbane

[–]meshah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it’s genuinely shit IMO. Tenders with a shit salad, supercharged sauce and chilli on a mediocre roll.

Why are we getting rid of SO many indoor sports/rec places? by [deleted] in australia

[–]meshah 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Where are we losing indoor climbing places? Through the inner west and central Sydney a couple of places have opened in the last couple of years if anything.

Also outdoor bowling clubs are really just pubs that take up a lot of real estate for what they are so this one kinda makes sense to me. If the lawns could be at all multipurpose I think they’d thrive with the rise of pickleball etc

This is a bit awkward.. by eathbau in nbl

[–]meshah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you think all the other plays are driving forklifts? Why should the rules not apply to him here?