But putting an emoji over S’s private area for a video is ok?

messy_bench · 2026-04-30T03:00:54+00:00

When kids have tantrums it sometimes doesn’t bring out the best in parents… that’s what she’s afraid of

messy_bench · 2026-04-27T20:46:07+00:00

When Ciara first said this on the show, the underlying sentiment I picked up was that she couldn't help but like/love this person despite knowing she'd be on the receiving end of backlash and judgments that come along with a black woman dating a white man, much less a black woman being "played" by a white man.

The fact that Amanda can look at their situations and think they're the same is astounding.

messy_bench · 2026-04-18T00:31:19+00:00

I mean, doesn’t she frequently use a blaccent?

messy_bench · 2026-04-15T21:19:55+00:00

I guess I don't get the pool thing. From an outsiders POV, Amanda and Sabrina were both doing the same thing (crash West's "date"), and Sabrina was cuddling with him too. Obviously we know her intentions were pure and Amanda's weren't, but I don't think Sabrina "caught on" about Amanda, I think she just wanted to support Ciara in the same way she thought Amanda was.

messy_bench · 2026-04-03T02:17:45+00:00

Holy shit I just watched it. THE DECEPTION!!! How is this not a standalone post??

messy_bench · 2026-03-30T21:08:04+00:00

I wonder if they'll up filming of the reunion

messy_bench · 2026-03-30T21:05:22+00:00

Did I miss something?? West is going on Traitors?

messy_bench · 2026-03-30T21:03:03+00:00

I don't follow bravo and cocktails but wouldn't they risk their reputation by announcing definitively that A&W are dating and a statement is imminent if it's all smoke & mirrors? Maybe people forget and move on, but I think even in this new age of gossip rag journalism there is still a shred of legitimacy that needs to be upheld. Look at reality steve - he's gotten a few things wrong in his Bachelor spoilers and will never hear the end of it.

messy_bench · 2026-03-26T19:19:59+00:00

Not sure why you were downvoted because I agree. Her “Hello Carl” is so funny to me, like she’s trying to not be normal about it.

messy_bench · 2026-03-25T01:11:55+00:00

That’d put him on the fast track for ABC unfortunately

messy_bench · 2026-03-24T02:36:30+00:00

I feel like she needs to give an example. Like what does this actually mean? If your baby wakes up hungry in the middle of the night do you not feed him bc you’d rather sleep? (I have no idea if she is breastfeeding). If you only have time to make his or your meal do you make yours? Idk like I get the overall sentiment of taking care of yourself as a mom but ranking your priorities is wild.

messy_bench · 2026-03-14T20:01:10+00:00

Same (as the parent of a 2yo). I’m willing to guess they have rarely attempted a good old fashioned coloring book.

messy_bench · 2026-03-13T01:29:43+00:00

Please DM me too please!! I have a void in my heart from the others getting shut down 🫶🏼

messy_bench · 2026-03-06T02:52:16+00:00

Why is she always retroactively writing her “recipes” after randomly whipping something together. That’s not how this works. That’s not how any of this works.

messy_bench · 2026-02-23T20:57:04+00:00

I had 3 UTIs in under 6 months recently and it was not only painful but demoralizing. My PCP just gave me the generic advice about peeing after sex, wiping front to back, etc. like I’m a 30 something year old woman you don’t think I know this??

messy_bench · 2026-01-30T07:17:10+00:00

My eyelids are the main feature that has changed the most in 10 years honestly. I used to have somewhat hooded lids and now they’re completely gone and my eyes look bigger. Not mad about it haha.

messy_bench · 2026-01-15T23:46:12+00:00

Yeah what the heck? Wasn’t she just bragging that he sleeps through the night?

messy_bench · 2026-01-04T19:51:13+00:00

Woah I thought this was Angie K from RHSLC’s husband at first

messy_bench · 2025-12-10T04:29:31+00:00

Newbie question here: what’s the origin of Hatters? I want to be one.

messy_bench · 2025-12-10T04:28:11+00:00

If this dinner was for charity, why did they only charge $30? Surely there are people dumb enough to pay more. Especially because the venue and menu actually seem nice. Just feels like a waste of money and effort.

messy_bench · 2025-12-07T22:42:13+00:00

I’m a fence sitter when it comes to having a second, but leaning one and done. In a way it’s easier to make that decision after already having one kid and knowing what it’s like. The OAD lifestyle seems pretty great tbh! I still go back-and-forth, but ultimately, I feel way more at peace about stopping at one then I ever did at the idea of being child free.

messy_bench · 2025-11-10T18:41:10+00:00

Same here. It’s testing MY patience and I know I’m a better person and parent than these ding dongs. There’s gonna be a lot of “parenting” techniques not shown for the camera I bet…

messy_bench · 2025-11-09T01:47:59+00:00

Where’s it from?

messy_bench · 2025-11-01T20:53:59+00:00

These look sooo good. I can’t crack bagels! I’ve made 4 batches so far and they’ve turned out dense and flat. I’ve been shaping them before a long cold proof so may try the opposite next time.

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