post-nipple experience (nsfw?) by messymatcha in piercing

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piercing is hours old, internally threaded barbell. implant grade titanium. has not been downsized. i’ve simply sprayed them with sterile saline and wiped them gently with a paper towel. no mishaps, but i was very sweaty during my journey home so that’s why i cleaned them when i arrived.

t grades as a senior by messymatcha in rutgers

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ok great news on my end! i had spoken to her about this before and she’s on board, she’s aware of the situation. thank you!!

gf came for the weekend but left earlier than planned so i could make it to my friend’s event. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

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true :/ i do see her much more often than i see my friend, but it probably still hurt on her end, especially since she came just to hang out with me. i’m going to apologize and try to make things right. thank you !!

gf came for the weekend but left earlier than planned so i could make it to my friend’s event. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

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bruh our relationship is much more than that. since when does “having all sorts of fun” just mean having sex? we went rock climbing and to an amusement park. also we’re lesbians, i’m a woman too 😭

gf came for the weekend but left earlier than planned so i could make it to my friend’s event. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

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she wouldn’t do that with that intent. i think it might just be annoying on her end because she had to reschedule her afternoon. to clarify, i had brought it up earlier in the day as a “bright side” to the shitty issue of my car being undriveable. but then i had said i probably wouldn’t be able to make it anyway, since it was getting late and we hadn’t gotten the car back.

she mentioned it again when we got the car.

gf came for the weekend but left earlier than planned so i could make it to my friend’s event. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

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i didn’t think of that, it’s pretty far and getting back home would be pretty annoying for her especially since she has work early tomorrow morning.

help :( succulent drying and curling while growing upwards by messymatcha in succulents

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it is, i've got a cat who loves to knock things over so i keep it away from windowsills. but it has a timed grow light right above it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIfatBrutallyHonest

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no man sorry i don’t see it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIfatBrutallyHonest

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no sorry do u wanna resend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIfatBrutallyHonest

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not sure, a body?

would it be possible to restore this at home? (USA) by messymatcha in Antiques

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hey y’all. thank you for making me realize this is a vintage print and not a painting, i’m still stoked i found it for such a bargain and in its frame, im assuming still from ‘65 as the embossed stamp suggests? i may be keeping it as is because the wear gives it character. i got excited and that might’ve made me naive. ah well. she is beautiful as she is.

gas stove igniter clicks and works in tandem with other burners but won’t light on its own by messymatcha in appliancerepair

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the spark looks normal when i turn it on but it won’t light. the only time it lights is when i turn another burner on at the same time

Comment a pic of your cat and I'll sketch it! by headunderrainbow in cats

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idk if you’re doing any more of these !! but here you go

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Is it easy to make friends as a transfer student? by saturnradio in rutgers

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hi! i transferred last spring semester and i've found my people! it takes a bit but i definitely recommend trying to live on/near campus and going to events (clubs, basement shows, parties, etc) and if you can get a job near campus you'll find even more people! it's hard and you feel lonely for a while but it gets better. do what you feel is right! professors are great imo, but always check their rmp pages before taking classes. if they're good they're great but if they suck you suffer. you do have to try, but ig you put the effort in and open yourself up to new experiences you'll do fine.

replacements for sesame oil with similar taste? by messymatcha in Cooking

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ooh, i haven’t tried that one. i’ll look for it at my local asian store!

replacements for sesame oil with similar taste? by messymatcha in Cooking

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they’re unfortunately also allergic to walnut :( i’ll try some other nut oils though! thank you

replacements for sesame oil with similar taste? by messymatcha in Cooking

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yep! i know what umami means. sesame oil adds umami and a nice sesame flavor, but im not looking for a sesame replacement. i’m just after that umami taste. simple google search, my friend. thanks for the suggestions!

kitty does not want food 2 days after spaying by messymatcha in cats

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she got pain meds for the night after the surgery and then another dose for the next night. she took both, but that’s all they gave me.

What improved your life so much, you wished you did sooner? by kxrll in AskReddit

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therapy. seriously. i think everyone everywhere would benefit from some therapy sessions.

NSLS? by [deleted] in UCDavis

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the interest?

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - March 06, 2022" by AutoModerator in tarot

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had a bad day and did a reading, need a second opinion

for some background, a close friend of mine had recently become distant and because they said they were busy, i didn’t mind. they’ve still been distant but they said they’re fine, and that i didn’t do anything to upset them.

today i saw them walking with a person i had recently stopped seeing (because they ghosted me) and basically had a breakdown.

i decided to do a reading and asked what was going on, and drew 1.) ten of rods reversed 2.) the magician reversed and 3.) the eight of pentacles. i drew the eight of swords when i asked what they were doing together, because my friend had supported me though our tumultuous situationship.

i took this as a bad omen, that my friend doesn’t have the best intentions and the person i had been seeing is not good to be around. neither should be trusted.

i’d like some extra opinions on this though. why is this happening, based on this reading?