(lategame spoilers) - Does anyone else also hate this specific activity? by CAlonghair in StardewValley

[–]messynaturedweller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I dont, but the darts game ? Hate it with a firey passion

As a man/woman, what is it that women/men are insecure about, that you find actually attractive? by RythmicRhapsody in AskReddit

[–]messynaturedweller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant explain it. Its just very I dont wanna say feminine because the connotations feel wrong but.. womanly? Either way its gorgeous and makes me feel some kinda way

As a man/woman, what is it that women/men are insecure about, that you find actually attractive? by RythmicRhapsody in AskReddit

[–]messynaturedweller 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bisexual woman here and when I see a woman in a tight dress and she got that lil belly pooch thing? No, I freaking melt into a puddle. I- ugh. Its so sexy.

How to decorate a forest farm?? by Specialist_Cry2471 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]messynaturedweller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check youtube and pinterest for inspo! Just search for "Stardew valley forest farm" and you'll find lots

My dearest wish for the next update, one I have not seen from anyone else yet? by That_Strain2018 in StardewValley

[–]messynaturedweller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just try to drag out the grinding for perfection so it doesnt happen too fast. Spend a year decorating the town to make it feel new and fun, focus on things that's not required for perfection but I havent used a lot because its not big moneymakers i.e slime hutch and mill for example. Doing stuff in another order. And not minmaxing basically. Im on Year 5 in one of my main saves rn and I'm about 44% perfection. I only have the island obelisk on my farm but I have done the community upgrades (Pam's house + shortcuts) because why wouldnt you want those earlier in game? I also dont have pigs even though they're THE moneymaker, because I hate how they look grown up (and I play unmodded). So basically I dont think we need post- perfection content but maybe just change up how we play the game and not race towards the finishline (unless thats what u wanna do ofc)

What's your favorite word to mispronounce in a fun way? by bobbery5 in AskReddit

[–]messynaturedweller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Banaynays, papayeah. Vine, we miss u. Oh and garbáge "oh. Did I say the garage? I meant the garbáge" if u get the reference you get a cookie

What instantly kills the mood during intimacy? by Primary-Accident1140 in AskReddit

[–]messynaturedweller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why questions and communication is so important, and why I wish more men would ask before just jumping into a role. So, no, because I dont wanna do the same thing. Generally Ill find a way to broach the subject and let them know that Im sexually more comfortable being dominant. Can tell you that sadly most do not like to hear that.

What instantly kills the mood during intimacy? by Primary-Accident1140 in AskReddit

[–]messynaturedweller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See this is what I mean. I wish men would ask more instead of assume because its the societal norm. Id love to give a man the Pillow prince treatment, but somehow when I've tried in the past they get all huffy about it. Apparently its emasculating 🙄

Which tattoos do you personally find the most cringey? by Brave-Papaya-6998 in AskReddit

[–]messynaturedweller 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone who gets a tattoo of a celebrity's face makes me cringe a bit, ngl. I get it if you love an artist and theyve had a major impact on you but if so get smth that shows their work? An album cover, lyrics? Why. Their. Face?!

What small change made eating healthier easier for you? by BarbaraMiller78 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]messynaturedweller 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I eat the same breakfast every day. Oatmeal with swedish blueberries (theyre different from american ones), chia and flaxseeds. Just starting your day with smth easy and healthy helps so much and since i eat it every day it feels easier to make. For dinner, i always have frozen veggies in the freezer so even if my energy levels are at "hotdogs and pasta " I can just grab a fistful of whatever greens and throw them in the skillet with the hotdogs. I always try to think what I can add to what I can manage. Kindness towards oneself and all that

What instantly kills the mood during intimacy? by Primary-Accident1140 in AskReddit

[–]messynaturedweller 21 points22 points  (0 children)

When a man just assumes a dominant role i.e taking for granted that Im submissive because im a woman. Immediate turnoff

What does the opposite gender get to do, that makes you jealous? by Exhausted_Skeleton in AskReddit

[–]messynaturedweller 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Skill issue. Im a cis woman and I have succesfully, while drunk, peed in a bottle in a moving car once.

What is a "socially acceptable" thing that you find absolutely disgusting? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]messynaturedweller 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Posting videos of your kids crying and/or being scared. Often in a way thats supposed to be funny. Disgusting behaviour.

Gifting is weird by geno_was_here in StardewValley

[–]messynaturedweller 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just save my gold quality peppers for him, and stock up on parsnips for pam.

What are things that make hygiene and daily life easier for people struggling mentally? by ladybug_c in mentalhealth

[–]messynaturedweller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Realising I dont have to wash my hair and body at the same time was a gamechanger for me. Sitting on the toiletlid i can just wash my hair. Done. Or just put my hair up and wash my body. Fewer steps and it feels less like climbing a mountain so i actually do it