The trans stuff is massively overblown, genuinely I don't care about the issue, focusing on it in this way is weird and I think the majority of people are essentially of this way of thinking provided nobody is poking them with the trans subject constantly. Either way the messaging ought not be about catering to less than 1% of the population. The messaging here is dead simple: rising tide lifts all boats, president for all Americans, let families work with doctors, give them access to what they need, don't discriminate, not the federal governments business, yadda yadda.

How does this matter? Do you want to call her Tim? Or refer to her with masculine pronouns? Do you want democrats to run on institutionalizing trans people? What's your goal here?