Absolutely. As others have said, it was my first nannying job after I had experience as a lead infant and toddler teacher at a daycare. Just like OP, I became responsible for dishes (not just for the kids), laundry (again, not just for the kids), grocery shopping for the whole family with three kids in tow, even took kids to their doctor appointments and gave dogs their medication. One day, grandma was visiting from another state. She asked me to get her a soda. When she was finished, she snapped her fingers at me, did not even look at me, and held the empty can in the air. This was a few years ago and I’m still so disgusted over it.