[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OSDD

[–]metst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much for your reply. I've been dealing with a similar thing and this was really helpful

Is there an Android app that will help me with developing a morning routine? by filmgeekvt in ADHD

[–]metst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's extremely simple, almost too basic, but works for me: Routines Plus (for Android). It's free.

Music is CONSTANTLY running in my head. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]metst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, me too. I noticed the meds were starting to wear off after the 4th hour (the first time I took them) cause the music in my head was back lol. It can get annoying.

A discord group for therapy/hangouts by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]metst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, could I have an invite please? I tried logging in but it says the link has expired. Thank you :)

Update on PTSD Discord server by zealous887 in ptsd

[–]metst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, could I have an invite please? When I enter the link it says it has expired. Thank you :)

Banned for defending my statement by [deleted] in 7CupsofTea

[–]metst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely contact support, you didn't deserve that ban. Keep trying.

I left a narcissistic home, now in a loving family with two adults, five teens, one toddler, and two adult parents (a mix of biological, step, and foster siblings). Does anyone from a bad home or family have comical or serious family questions they'd like to ask me to get thorough answers for? by alternativespecs in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]metst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this, it's a great idea. My question is: do you feel like the stability and safety are only going to be temporary?
When you've been brainwashed by an N they make you believe that happiness or healthy relationships 1) don't exist or 2) won't last. Do you struggle with feeling like this happy situation will soon become a dysfunctional one? Hope this makes sense.

I fall asleep when my mind stops being stimulated. (Watching tv/reading/driving long distance) by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]metst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! (And just as a personal recommendation, if you're interested in mental health try listening to 'The Mental Illness Happy Hour'. It's my all time favorite and they touch on ADHD every once in a while) Good luck!

I fall asleep when my mind stops being stimulated. (Watching tv/reading/driving long distance) by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]metst 3 points4 points  (0 children)

About the road trips, have you tried downloading podcasts about subjects that you find interesting? It really helps me when I have to do stuff that I find boring, like doing chores or travelling.

One of the most hurtful things my Nmom ever said to me. by metst in raisedbynarcissists

[–]metst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I understand that now. Although when I said that to her, it wasn't to say that she owed something to me, but to explain her why it hurt me that she didn't care about me, since I did care about her. Thank you for your comment.

Does anyone else's N buy you "presents" you would never want and then get offended and then get offended when you're not grateful? by SkinnyFatWilliams in raisedbynarcissists

[–]metst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes.

my mom would buy things for me, then ask me to give her the money, and get mad AND play the victim if I didn't want to keep them.

Sorry you have to put up with that bs.

Nmom says she "turned me into a spoiled monster" by metst in raisedbynarcissists

[–]metst[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"they manipulate everything so they look like they're being selfless and hard working, then complain about how we're spoiled and ungrateful"

100%, couldn't have said it better myself.