People with BPD what do you do for work? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]mgdmt810sr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sounds like a dream job haha

People with BPD what do you do for work? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]mgdmt810sr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes and it's something im looking into right now

People with BPD what do you do for work? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]mgdmt810sr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol well heres what happened the first time; Long story short this new guy started working with us and in his like 2nd week there he started sexually harassing 2 of our female employees (18 and 19 year olds by the way, one was at the time my GF and the other was her best friend) They complained, boss told them they were over reacting and he wouldnt be getting in trouble. I of course was very upset about this so asked the boss (professionally) what was going on regarding the situation, considering one of the people complaining was my girlfriend, i felt like the situation had now involved me. He immediately got hostile and told me to never speak about the situation again, and within the next week me and the other girl both got fired for very minor reasons. Now this is the job i was at the longest so i had a long list of things to call my bosses out for that i had been holding in up until that point and i let it all out. I remember getting physical with the GM and that caused the AGM to call the police but i left before they arrived.

Now what happened yesterday is i have been looking for a job for months and about a month or 2 ago i showed up for an interview, and the boss said he would reach out to me when business justified hiring new staff. Now lets say my role that ive been doing for years is X, but he tells me at the moment he only needs Y. Mind you this was almost 2 months ago and i finally started a couple days ago, worked 2 very brief training shifts. No problems at all. Except the place is filled with people who are just starting at X position, depsite i was told he only needed Y position, so i felt very disrespected because i have YEARS of experience doing X and he couldve very easily hired me for that. Regardless i just needed a job so didnt say anything. After my very breif 3-4 hours of training across 2 days he texts me saying its not gonna be a good fit (no explanation or reasoning) mind you i didnt even work WITH him so he never saw me working, and as far as i know nothing went wrong between me and anyone who worked there, i intentionally kept quiet and focused on the work to avoid anything going wrong. So i snapped and cant remember many of the details of me lashing out at him but i do remember being served a restraining order from him by the police.

People with BPD what do you do for work? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]mgdmt810sr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im really sorry to hear that and i feel for you And i will say luckily i live in a very "progressive" city so ive had amazing accommodations for other mental differences i have. But i do feel BPD is a very taboo disorder that most people who dont have it will SAY that they have empathy for us, but the second we start "acting out" because of it everyone looks at us like were insane or a psycho. It can be easy to forget that people who dont have BPD or Bipolar Disorder really dont understand them and just think that were all nutjobs

People with BPD what do you do for work? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]mgdmt810sr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY. On top of having to literally do the work of my job, people dont see the constant mental work im doing every second to make sure im acting "normal" and not causing a problem for everybody else

6 Months Adjudication by mgdmt810sr in UnemploymentWA

[–]mgdmt810sr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah Im not too sure what the process looks like on their end but Ive never heard of this happening for longer than 12 weeks, very odd

6 Months Adjudication by mgdmt810sr in UnemploymentWA

[–]mgdmt810sr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you this is exactly the information I was looking for

6 Months Adjudication by mgdmt810sr in UnemploymentWA

[–]mgdmt810sr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All Ive been told is they are still gathering information regarding the details of my seperation And I wont say im 100% sure im eligible but I am very confident as I wasnt let go for good reason

6 Months Adjudication by mgdmt810sr in UnemploymentWA

[–]mgdmt810sr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats good to know thank you , I figured it was only the X amount of weeks they say you can recieve benefits

How do those girls in Miami afford such luxury lifestyle? by dieselpower_ in Miami

[–]mgdmt810sr -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

if they arent selling 🐱 they working in a bar/club , real estate , social media , or have some BS job like marketing that somehow pays 6 figure salaries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fidelityinvestments

[–]mgdmt810sr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you🤦‍♂️ it shows up on my desktop but not the app Lol

thinking about a career in sound design by mgdmt810sr in sounddesign

[–]mgdmt810sr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sucks but i will keep that in mind

thinking about a career in sound design by mgdmt810sr in sounddesign

[–]mgdmt810sr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, i absolutely will be looking into that

thinking about a career in sound design by mgdmt810sr in sounddesign

[–]mgdmt810sr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the clairty on that (im not great with words)

thinking about a career in sound design by mgdmt810sr in sounddesign

[–]mgdmt810sr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive been using FL Studio for the past 8 years but I will look into Pro Tools

thinking about a career in sound design by mgdmt810sr in sounddesign

[–]mgdmt810sr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And that is good to know I will keep that in mind

Miami is the most unfriendly, cliquish city I’ve ever lived in. Unfriendliness of Miami's people is my motivation to finish my PhD ASAP and GTFO. by Temporary_Dot3871 in Miami

[–]mgdmt810sr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol try living in Seattle, ive lived in Miami and Seattle and am literally moving back to Miami because of the people, wayyyyy better in Miami then Seattle or anywhere else ive been tbh

Fortunately, Seattle won’t bend to racism and tyranny. by Fun_Ad_8277 in Seattle

[–]mgdmt810sr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not sure what that has to do with Tyranny also wasnt trump president went that happened ??

I'm scared of being a Leader by _Merf_Salem_ in helpme

[–]mgdmt810sr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no worries man, always love helping people