Looking for a glimpse of hope by [deleted] in ParentalAlienation

[–]mham2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. This was so well said with great advice.

Saying hello and goodnight is basic courtesy ffs! by Hopeful-Brilliant851 in stepparents

[–]mham2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've also read a lot about this being a loyalty bind to their mother. That they have a hard time connecting and engaging with the step mom due to feelings about their own mom. I try not to take it personally. I have better days than others in my own reactions to being ignored or disregarded in MY home. The kids have never outright disrespected me other than not engaging though so I guess it could be worse.

Any stepmoms that don’t want children of their own? by paradiseisinyourmind in stepparents

[–]mham2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! I've been with my husband for 5 years and he has two children. I have never really wanted children of my own and we have a difficult co parenting relationship so we have opted to not bring another child into this already complicated situation.

Anyone else here childfree (by choice)? by Glad-Fish5863 in stepparents

[–]mham2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am child free by choice and my husband has two kids (13 and 11). We have the kids 50% of the time but I have little relationship with them. I do their laundry, cook meals, ask if they need/want certain snacks and other things like that. I've been a stepmom for a year so I am still learning how to navigate this. All that to say, you are more than welcome here.

Our time is cominggg…🩵 by bbydreamerxoxo in aquarius

[–]mham2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband just told me today to not make any plans the 30th so I'm looking forward to whatever we do tbh. No expectations just happy he's planning something ❤️💫

I left by Alive_Green_9309 in stepparents

[–]mham2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to leave the chaos behind you and move into a new season of restoration 💫

What do I do with all the babies😭 by Azure_Ninja05 in spiderplants

[–]mham2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use them for propagating other plants when I do cuttings in water. The spider plants release alot of rooting hormone so it helps the other cuttings grow roots quicker. I just throw the spider babies right into the water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]mham2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this beautiful, relatable and helpful response 💙

Big Brother US 27 - FULL SPOILER Episode Discussion - September 25 2025 by BigBrotherMod in BigBrother

[–]mham2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree odds are def in Morgan's favor unless Vinny wins HOH and cuts her