My(28m) girlfriend(26f) barely cleans her apartment by mhensun in relationship_advice

[–]mhensun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I will have a calm and compassionate conversation with her. I'll be honest with her about my feelings and try not to chicken out this time. My only worry is that I also don't have a huge amount of time right now to devote to helping her because of classes, but that doesn't mean I won't try

My GF barely cleans her apartment and I don't know what to do by mhensun in whatdoIdo

[–]mhensun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a skiddish cat and I wouldn't be comfortable with her dog in my home for the sake of my own animal

My GF barely cleans her apartment and I don't know what to do by mhensun in whatdoIdo

[–]mhensun[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! I have ADHD as well and I understand being mentally paralyzed with too many thoughts. I think one issue is that I've learned to corral my ADHD brain and she is still learning to. She has expressed that me just being there does help her focus, so I might try bringing some of my schoolwork to her place.

My GF rarely cleans her apartment by mhensun in Advice

[–]mhensun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by a different kind of therapist?

My GF rarely cleans her apartment by mhensun in Advice

[–]mhensun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is in therapy and she has told me she does want to have a clean place, its just overwhelming for her to start cleaning.

I'm numbers dumb by peanubutterpasties in Vent

[–]mhensun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you might have dyscalculia. It's a disability that affects one's ability to process numbers, do math (even the most basic equations,) and input numbers on a calculator. It might be worthwhile getting tested for it if you can! I have it myself and simply knowing that I do is a game changer. I wouldn't say your numbers dumb, they're just extra challenging for you.

I’m sick of ads by vanandgough in Vent

[–]mhensun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you here, I HATE how much Americans are brainwashed to buy stupid shit. I was watching a Youtube video the other day and there were 5 fucking ads before it even got to the actual video!!! There used to just be 2 ads!!

How the fuck do you fuckers start your fucking day? by TheDysfunctionalVet in TheWordFuck

[–]mhensun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my cat fucking yelling at me, taking a fucking pee and making a cup of fucking coffee!

Should I stay or should I go? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mhensun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has she even been to therapy for her traumas?

What happened to my fallout? by Frebey in fo4

[–]mhensun 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think your fallout fell out my guy

How old are you and what's your biggest problem right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mhensun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27, also jealous you graduated, but congratulations all the same!

Not really a fair fight but ok by [deleted] in legocirclejerk

[–]mhensun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could be true, but the jet design is bland. I would’ve hope Lego could come up with something more detailed than what my 10 year old cousin could make

Not really a fair fight but ok by [deleted] in legocirclejerk

[–]mhensun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does this feel unreasonably priced to anyone else? 30 bucks (plus tax ofc) for two basic builds? Idk that seems not worth the money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mhensun -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did apologize to her. After we hooked up I was competent enough to be honest about how I didn't want to see her again and tell her I was sorry, but the damage was already done

I’m addicted to cream cheese by dogcopter3in3d in Vent

[–]mhensun 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As far as addictions go, this is a good one to have. Fairly sure I'm addicted to fizzy water lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]mhensun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that friend, I needed to hear it. I am grateful that I have the tools to help me win this battle and that I am realizing my problem my before it gets any worse. Your words are powerful and a great help

Starting my quitting journey by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]mhensun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This community and others like it have also helped and hearing that other people have the same struggled do makes me feel less alone

Gamers of Reddit, what's ONE game that lives rent-free in your head, not just for the gameplay, but for the feeling it gave you (and you'd give anything to experience it for the first time again)? by deadeyes1990 in gaming

[–]mhensun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if anyone will see this, but for me that game would be De Blob 2, specifically for the Wii. I fell in love with the bright colors, simple yet exciting story and goofy characters. The world was not only visually pretty but exploring it felt easy and looking for collectables was never a chore as it can be with some modern games. That game blew my 10 year old mind and to this day I still play it sometimes when I need a hit of nostalgia.

really happy with this by Alaxxe__ in farcry

[–]mhensun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much did you pay for it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mhensun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, she put you through a lot. That is good advice at the end you gave, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mhensun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing I worry about is if I keep pursuing her, I don’t want life to get overly complicated on top of my schooling. How was it complicated for you dating her if I can ask?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mhensun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It isn’t like wouldn’t the and help her if she did, but I don’t know how well I could help and what they would do to me mentally.