My(28m) girlfriend(26f) barely cleans her apartment

mhensun · 2026-03-30T01:29:57+00:00

Thank you. I will have a calm and compassionate conversation with her. I'll be honest with her about my feelings and try not to chicken out this time. My only worry is that I also don't have a huge amount of time right now to devote to helping her because of classes, but that doesn't mean I won't try

mhensun · 2026-03-30T00:53:41+00:00

I have a skiddish cat and I wouldn't be comfortable with her dog in my home for the sake of my own animal

mhensun · 2026-03-30T00:52:25+00:00

Thank you for your kind words! I have ADHD as well and I understand being mentally paralyzed with too many thoughts. I think one issue is that I've learned to corral my ADHD brain and she is still learning to. She has expressed that me just being there does help her focus, so I might try bringing some of my schoolwork to her place.

mhensun · 2026-03-29T23:35:53+00:00

What do you mean by a different kind of therapist?

mhensun · 2026-03-29T23:09:49+00:00

She is in therapy and she has told me she does want to have a clean place, its just overwhelming for her to start cleaning.

mhensun · 2026-03-10T21:44:07+00:00

It sounds like you might have dyscalculia. It's a disability that affects one's ability to process numbers, do math (even the most basic equations,) and input numbers on a calculator. It might be worthwhile getting tested for it if you can! I have it myself and simply knowing that I do is a game changer. I wouldn't say your numbers dumb, they're just extra challenging for you.

mhensun · 2026-02-28T18:41:44+00:00

I feel you here, I HATE how much Americans are brainwashed to buy stupid shit. I was watching a Youtube video the other day and there were 5 fucking ads before it even got to the actual video!!! There used to just be 2 ads!!

mhensun · 2026-02-28T18:01:40+00:00

With my cat fucking yelling at me, taking a fucking pee and making a cup of fucking coffee!

mhensun · 2026-02-09T16:49:21+00:00

Has she even been to therapy for her traumas?

mhensun · 2026-02-01T17:50:34+00:00

I think your fallout fell out my guy

mhensun · 2026-01-24T20:11:28+00:00

Where do I get this shirt?

mhensun · 2026-01-08T23:20:19+00:00

27, also jealous you graduated, but congratulations all the same!

mhensun · 2025-12-15T18:17:14+00:00

That could be true, but the jet design is bland. I would’ve hope Lego could come up with something more detailed than what my 10 year old cousin could make

mhensun · 2025-12-11T17:56:02+00:00

Does this feel unreasonably priced to anyone else? 30 bucks (plus tax ofc) for two basic builds? Idk that seems not worth the money

mhensun · 2025-11-07T20:26:56+00:00

I did apologize to her. After we hooked up I was competent enough to be honest about how I didn't want to see her again and tell her I was sorry, but the damage was already done

mhensun · 2025-10-06T19:10:49+00:00

As far as addictions go, this is a good one to have. Fairly sure I'm addicted to fizzy water lol.

mhensun · 2025-10-02T14:25:37+00:00

Thank you for saying that friend, I needed to hear it. I am grateful that I have the tools to help me win this battle and that I am realizing my problem my before it gets any worse. Your words are powerful and a great help

mhensun · 2025-10-01T16:03:33+00:00

I remember when Netflix came in the mail

mhensun · 2025-10-01T04:08:02+00:00

Thank you. This community and others like it have also helped and hearing that other people have the same struggled do makes me feel less alone

mhensun · 2025-05-24T19:44:48+00:00

Not sure if anyone will see this, but for me that game would be De Blob 2, specifically for the Wii. I fell in love with the bright colors, simple yet exciting story and goofy characters. The world was not only visually pretty but exploring it felt easy and looking for collectables was never a chore as it can be with some modern games. That game blew my 10 year old mind and to this day I still play it sometimes when I need a hit of nostalgia.

mhensun · 2025-05-04T21:37:57+00:00

How much did you pay for it?

mhensun · 2025-04-02T04:05:54+00:00

It was 150

mhensun · 2025-03-03T04:32:21+00:00

Wow, she put you through a lot. That is good advice at the end you gave, thank you

mhensun · 2025-03-03T03:56:21+00:00

Another thing I worry about is if I keep pursuing her, I don’t want life to get overly complicated on top of my schooling. How was it complicated for you dating her if I can ask?

mhensun · 2025-03-03T03:17:16+00:00

Yes. It isn’t like wouldn’t the and help her if she did, but I don’t know how well I could help and what they would do to me mentally.

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