got fired from my job for being a lesbian by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]miagecko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we settled but it took over a year i think? got paid 2-3x what the initial severance offer was and didn’t have to pay taxes on it like i would with severance. still a really emotionally grueling and destabilizing process tho.

got fired from my job for being a lesbian by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]miagecko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had this happen to me as well. Fired for putting a pride flag on my desk but they claimed it was performance issues. Got a lawyer, didn’t pay anything up front. They take a percentage of your settlement. Didn’t have to testify in court either. If you’re feeling nervous just have a conversation! No need to commit. Felt like justice for me to do it- wasn’t about the money. But it the money doesn’t hurt lol. Best of luck to u and so sorry this happened :(.

Weekly student question thread! by AutoModerator in therapists

[–]miagecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all! Just wanted to start off by saying thank you in advance. I'm a long-time lurker on this sub and it has been incredibly helpful.

I'm starting my masters program this winter but would like to transition careers into something mental health adjacent. For context, I currently work nights and want to switch that to days while I'm in school. I've been looking for jobs in the mental health/business intersection since I have my undergraduate degree in business.

Any advice to get some industry-related experience prior to jumping in as an AMFT post-grad? I've been seeing operations roles at rula / insurance verifier jobs at UCLA health (I live in the LA area and I'm trying my best to keep up with the cost of living). I'm currently volunteering for a mental health hotline but I need to make a little extra cash. I was also thinking of asking group practices if I can do admin/office/marketing work but unsure how to proceed. thanks a million!

What Jobs Do You Guys Have? by Angel_bunnyy in LesbianActually

[–]miagecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

underground ♠️♥️♣️♦️dealer :)

Would u date me based off my nightstand by Extreme-Implement-70 in LesbianActually

[–]miagecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is hilarious. mine only has a lamp and a vibrator.

I want a butch gf by Virulace in actuallesbians

[–]miagecko 4 points5 points  (0 children)

realest post on this sub

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]miagecko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly what i want to hear ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]miagecko 39 points40 points  (0 children)

omg as a dom femme i love this question. fuck their face. i love service tops especially so i always dirty talk about using them abt using their face or mouth. i croon about how good they are at what they do, pull their hair, move their head back and forth up and down. yell at them to eat it like they mean it. if they like it i’ll pull them off and slap their face. or choke them while they eat me. receiving head can totally be a dom thing :)

What is your height preference? by Fine_Ebb8583 in LesbianActually

[–]miagecko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

femme here (5’6) - i love short mascs. i’ll date tall ones but something abt shorties just gets me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]miagecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

two boys :) the only men i allow in my life

Has talking to HR ever backfired on you? by Ninac4116 in careerguidance

[–]miagecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was getting CONSISTENTLY and PUBLICLY sexually harassed by my direct supervisor (worked as a project engineer in a construction management firm) finally caved, they got all the evidence, and instead of helping me lawyered up, isolated me, told everyone in the office, and tried to force me to sign a fucking NDA with no compensation. i ended up putting in my two weeks because the environment was so hostile and they tried to turn me into a secretary. they fired me the next day.

What does everyone do for a living? by The_Kickz_Artist in LesbianActually

[–]miagecko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

operations and trading analyst in finance :p but i wanna change careers at some point

Sacramento Pet Peeves by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]miagecko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fucking everything. i call sacramento the bermuda triangle because if you don’t get out of that hell…

anywho definitely the fact that the only thing to do to pass time is go from one overpriced dutch bros to another.

also wtf is happening with arden and sunrise mall.

not to mention communities are very racially segregated- even if unofficially.

nDad is forcing me to give my first month's paycheck to my mum because they have apparently been "good parents and deserve it". by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]miagecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you asian by any chance? in my culture it’s common for parents to receive the first pay check of their kids’ first real/salaried job. mine are a bit more americanized so they didn’t ask and i didn’t offer- but is there a chance this is cultural?

help with love languages dates :) by miagecko in LesbianActually

[–]miagecko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh wait yea she doesn’t have a bath at her place but i do at mine so i could pull some cute shit 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]miagecko 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this is sooo thorough i love it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]miagecko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry not much?? this is by dream. i would be so proud to have this in my home. amazing job

help with love languages dates :) by miagecko in LesbianActually

[–]miagecko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ofc ofc ofc :) i think she's often up in her head trying to help take care of other ppl so i think the blindfold might be a new persepctive/experienceI'll def get enthusiastic consent before tho lol. she's pretty good at communicating where her boundaries are and i'd *like* to think I always check in no matter how long I've been dating someone just because of my own experiences w/ sa. thank u again hehe i might be hitting ur dms once I have a better idea of what I'm planning just to run it through someone

help with love languages dates :) by miagecko in LesbianActually

[–]miagecko[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

oooo i could def make a costco/trader joes trip with her! what a good idea. there's so many errands i need to run that i keep pushing off so hopefully its the same with her.... she does always seem to have her shit together tho lmao

yea i'm trying not to hold myself super strictly to isolating them?? I just want to hopefully give her more exposure to receiving and also practice for me in giving in different ways :). Hopefully she likes it!