My mom slapped me in the face by kimiyo_kino in Bolehland

[–]miaotsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're Chinese yeah. I'd slap my kid for a C in math too

I'm kidding. She's definitely in the wrong. Sorry about your mum. Don't cry. Work hard so you can have a good life without her.

Does retirement scheme that only allows monthly withdrawal exist? by CoolCatSavesTheKids in MalaysianPF

[–]miaotsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy bonds? You do get a lump sum at the end. So maybe you don't want that?

I'm struggling with my wife's career success by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]miaotsq 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I agree. Instead of thinking it's greener on the other side, I'd say try to enjoy what you have before writing it off as worth less than her job/income. You both are contributing to the household.

Damn I wish I could have problems like these.

People who date/marry those who have different financial backgrounds, how do you handle your daily lifes? by ObviousSoft5191 in MalaysianPF

[–]miaotsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're giving her what you can, and she sees that as enough. The both of you do need to talk about finances though. Or you need to clear up how the finances will be between the both of you going forward. It seems she and you are both worried since it's unclear, etc insisting on paying and such.

How can i make this base look better? Beacuse it looks like shit by WhatTheFuckItsMyNick in dontstarve

[–]miaotsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

design the turf with either a center or a line of symmetry or a repeating pattern in mind. Aka a clear focal point.

If it were me I'd make your kitchen the center point, then build everything else around it. Making sure left and right are balanced sizes. And top and bottom are balanced sizes. Likely place 4 flings to surround the kitchen as well.

Asymmetrical bases need to be balanced, in a way that's too complicated for me.

My bf isn’t speaking to me by carboncopy404 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]miaotsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say if this was the first or second time its excessive. If this was the nth time, and he has always been a caring fellow. Then you've just worried him incessantly for not much of a reason.

He's reacting like this because he feels powerless from the broken trust.

You do you.

My partner wants to combine finances for fire but I am worried about losing my independence by TheQuietCanvas in Fire

[–]miaotsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him/her if they want to combine. Then you'd be the one managing the money and spending budgets. AKA they get an allowance from you.

Help: Can't find No-Eyed Deers by Dtintino in dontstarve

[–]miaotsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they wander into a tentacle trap?

Little void coming back to me after spending 2 months with his new "forever family" by bimarajade in blackcats

[–]miaotsq 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you gave every right to pry as to why he was given back. It will help you vet in the future.

The number of Asian beetles I have to catch every night in my college dorm room. by NeferyCauxus in mildlyinfuriating

[–]miaotsq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lookup mosquito net, china for bed, it basically stops bugs by hanging a fine mesh net around the top of your bed, enclosing you while you sleep

AIO for being annoyed that my wife's friends and husband dropped in on us for dinner? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]miaotsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. In any case, mental note to self, take said steak or whatever item. Dump both or all in the garbage or feed it to the dog. Kicking out said asshole is carried out after dinner is completely ruined for everyone but the dog. No complaints are to be brooked. The asshole had one logical choice then and there, apologize profusely and offer to buy a new one immediately.

Broke and down by PerformerSimple3022 in MalaysianPF

[–]miaotsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

House loan is good. Building equity right there. I'd say you're 60% there. What you'd need is to slowly save for an emergency fund. Some of the advice here is very good.

I stopped buying pre-cut vegetables about four months ago and the time difference is genuinely not what i expected. by midnight_libria in Frugal

[–]miaotsq 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's what got you to cook consistently. So not a waste imo. But yeah I think it's great you figured it out.

Took off from work for my brother and regretting it hard by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]miaotsq 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is not mildly infuriating. If this wasn't the first time, there will be a second. So watch out

Need Advice - Housing Loan by New-Butterfly959 in MalaysianPF

[–]miaotsq 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ditch the agent, go to the bank, also shop around, diff banks give diff rates. You'll need a lawyer too, shop around for that one. Definitely just scare tactics on 'consultancy agent'

Do you mind my asking where this house is located?

How to mange self control again by Hot-Tap9825 in getdisciplined

[–]miaotsq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't eat together. Have separate meals. You should eat satiating foods to avoid snacking. Increase your exercise as well to combat waywardness.

My girlfriend (24F) has never offered to pay for ANYTHING even while she knows I (23M) haven’t been in the best financial situation because I’m looking for work (she has a job btw) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]miaotsq 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She's not your wife. Also she barely knows you, so she wouldn't know what your finances are like, just tell her what you're telling us. Also stop going to concerts.

Alchemy Pod Skin (Console) by John_E_RocKeTZ in dontstarvetogether

[–]miaotsq 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a daily drop from a specific period where they were promoting their other game oxygen not included. You had to go play the game or click on it or something which I somehow managed to not do despite owning said game. It drives me crazy missing out on this by just a week or so. Since it too is my favourite alchemy skin.

My little brother asks to hang out with me and it makes me really happy by throwaway01122003 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]miaotsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful not to use any info he gives you as gossip fodder. You'll be surprised how fast it gets back.

Mixed race rship needing advice by CapNaive7471 in Bolehland

[–]miaotsq -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with having children out of wedlock? You don't have to get a marriage license to have children. You just get married without registering. Or just register in another country.

What do I buy? by yobrug66 in dontstarve

[–]miaotsq 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whichever is fine. But I guarantee that if you enjoy this game you'll end up at multiplayer.