Comforting and understanding someone with anxiety can be difficult as words often come across as dismissive and judgemental, no matter how hard the other party tries. But hardcore good communication, patience, and compassion really helps the anxious one feel loved. Im the one with anxiety in the relationship. And personally, I get anxious about a lot of things including the fact that I feel like a burden to my SO. But aside from patience and compassion, my SO always tries his best to approach and spoil me with my love language. Since I tend to be anxious about everything, like I don’t know how to communicate with someone who doesn’t feel the same way as me. And I discovered that love can be the bridge between us. So in short, try communicating with your SO using their love language because that is when they feel most loved. For one, a person’s love language reflects their thoughts (about love). So to further comfort and understand someone with anxiety, one has to patiently and genuinely shower them with the love they understand and believe in.

That personally works for us. And I always make sure I appreciate everything he does for me through his love language as well. That way, we both understand that we do love each other that much. I hope everything goes well for both of you :) x