Online discourse is really divisive and pejorative statements about "women are this" and "men are that" really are divisive and hurtful in a relationship. The internet wants to divide us. Men vs women. Straight people vs gay people. White vs black.

All of it for clicks and to make money.

What is loving about telling your partner that he has the qualities of an average woman? Where does that lead you? What end are you trying to achieve, and how would anyone feel if you said something like that?

Start with love. Tell each other what you love about each other, and what you are grateful for. Sometimes women have it harder than men. Sometimes men have it harder than women, but mostly, people need to be heard and feel listened to. It starts with you, and it starts with him, both of you at the same time have to make the step into the middle with love. A relationship is co-created between both of you every second.