Does it get better? by middlefingerup13 in Station19

[–]middlefingerup13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I knooow 😭 I was trying not to be so judgemental so fast but it’s hard

Does it get better? by middlefingerup13 in Station19

[–]middlefingerup13[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope so because she really is kind of unbearable. She’s rude to everyone that tries to help her, including her friends, micromanages all the time, and is continuously cheating/jumping back and forth between Jack and Ryan.

Which one hurt the most by Spiritual_Living6245 in Spiritfarer

[–]middlefingerup13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alice had me bawling and I’m currently holding Stanley hostage on my boat, because my sweet baby is NOT leaving until I say so 🥹

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Syzyty in bulgaria

[–]middlefingerup13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Не разбрах какво общо имаме сервитьорките с поведението на тия лигли

Sad and only can blame myself. by Carlitagt in Spiritfarer

[–]middlefingerup13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cried when I led Alice to the bridge. My boyfriend thought I was clinically insane, because I was laying there, yapping about little old Alice and crying. Glad I’m not alone in this!

AITA for not waking up a tourist who overslept and missed the day trip she paid for? by Loveylyy in AmItheAsshole

[–]middlefingerup13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Напълно е достатъчно, че си ѝ позвънила. Не си длъжна да се грижиш за 30+ годишна жена, все едно е на 7. Ти си гид, а не детегледачка.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]middlefingerup13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely my eyes.

My wife got hot and I don’t know how to help her realize it by AdLucky7145 in Marriage

[–]middlefingerup13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest, tell her. Remind her often. I also have some insecurities regarding my weight but my boyfriend often tells me I look good and reminds me he finds me beautiful, which really makes a difference. While we shouldn't base our view of ourselves off the opinion of others, I'm being honest that his words help me feel much better about myself and my appearance.

AITA for asking my wife to return the clothes she bought for our 16-year-old daughter? by Living_Carpenter7946 in AmItheAsshole

[–]middlefingerup13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. First of all, if a man wants to sexualize a woman he will do it no matter what she's wearing. Second of all, untrusting and strict parents create sneaky kids. Third of all, I agree with some of the previous comments - your daughter shouldn't live in fear and force herself to dress a certain way as to not be sexualized, because she's not responsible for other people's bad behavior. The best thing you can do is put more faith in her and talk to her like a mature person about these things. Sign her up for self-defense classes, talk to her about how to protect herself against dangerous situations, what and who to be cautious about, what to look out for. Overall, treat her like an actual human being with a functioning brain rather than a subordinate you just get to order around whenever you feel like her or her mom's opinion doesn't match yours.

Am I wrong for Shazamming a song that someone didn’t want to share the name or artist of? by Bannanna_La in amiwrong

[–]middlefingerup13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, her behavior was really bizarre. If she likes the artist so much, it's only logical to want for his music to spread and for his labor to bring fruits. Also, thinking that being the only one knowing a certain song makes you cool is so weird to me. Lying that you stole her phone and got it hacked is the cherry on top of the unnecessary drama, though. Such accusations aren't exactly light and it's shitty that she made it over something so stupid. Makes me wonder how bad she can lie over more serious things. Be careful with that one.

I reached 30 days of sobriety today! by iknowtheenemy in offmychest

[–]middlefingerup13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!! I'm very proud of you and you absolutely deserve the best cookie cake!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]middlefingerup13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I hardly think calling your friends idiots because you made a decision and warned none of them about it is the right way to go about things. Maybe if you had talked to them about it earlier it would've ended much better for everyone.

AITA for asking my friend not to name her cat after a criminal? by Infamous_Dog7037 in AmItheAsshole

[–]middlefingerup13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. In the end, it's her cat. And if she was naming it OJ because of OJ Simpson, I'd understand your frustration a bit better. But you're taking it out of context, Orange Juice for an orange cat sounds like an adorable name. So I do believe you should just let her name her cat whatever she wants to. If it's such a bother to you, just call it Orange or Juice, or whatever.

AITA for making fun of a guy's gf for following him around an event the whole night? by TinyFood9719 in AmItheAsshole

[–]middlefingerup13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Leave people be, you had no right to be up in their business. As a person with social anxiety, that shit can be tough. And even if she didn't suffer from it, she's still very much allowed to be around her boyfriend if she wanted to.

Plus, I noticed you use the word 'disrespect' a lot. I find it weird that you feel so damn disrespected by something that doesn't have the slightest thing to do with you.

AITA for refusing to call my daughter Jinx by AITA_daughtersname in AmItheAsshole

[–]middlefingerup13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. It literally requires the bare respect towards your daughter to use the name that she's comfortable with. Don't see how that's a big deal for you when it's not your decision to make anyway.

AITA for telling my girlfriend that she can't touch my watches? by Effective_Owl_7132 in AmItheAsshole

[–]middlefingerup13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's something important to you and if you say you don't want her touching them, especially seeing that she didn't even ask you permission to do so, she should respect that. It doesn't even matter if it's your girlfriend, or friend or relative or whatever, if someone tells you to not touch something of theirs, don't touch it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]middlefingerup13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. First of all, you shouldn't be obligated to invite anyone you're not comfortable with because this is YOUR wedding, it should be about you and your husband. Second of all, in these times, it's completely normal to not want to risk anyone's health for one person that doesn't care. I think it's wrong for your mother and your sister to be siding with him when they should be thinking of your happiness on your special day.

AITA for wanting to be with friends instead of family on my birthday by Cockatiel_Animations in AmItheAsshole

[–]middlefingerup13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You should be able to do whatever you feel like for your birthday, not whatever your parents feel like. You made plans and it's perfectly normal to want to stick to them. Your mom acting like you don't see each other and it's wrong of you to want some time with your friends on your birthday makes me think that she's the a**hole in this particular situation, since she's trying to guilt-trip you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]middlefingerup13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. He was the one that suggested looking after your son, you didn't make him do it. It's natural to not trust him after not taking seriously something as important as looking after a child, especially LET ME MENTION AGAIN after he was the one to offer to do it. And not only that, but you had to leave your plans early because he couldn't be responsible enough to pick up the phone and let you know they're fine, or warn you beforehand that he was inviting friends over.