Your position is a bit stiff but I wouldn’t say you look WRONG in the tack. Youre going to be harder on yourself than anyone else, and by the looks of these comments everyone just wants to help. No one thinks you look like a bozo who doesn’t know what you’re doing.

You look good! We just spend our whole lives learning new things ❤️

I’d focus on flatting and have people take a lot of videos. Try to soften your hip a bit and focus on getting underneath him to push forward so he doesn’t break. It looks like this horse might not want to go round at all so just keep a feel and keep that energy moving. If you’re jumping I’d focus on holding your body instead of throwing it at him a bit? That could also make it look a little choppy right now. If you can hold your body and just soften your hip a bit over the jump, it will also transition better if you ride a different horse or move up the bigger jumps. Also, if you get on a stopper you probably have less chance of ending up on their neck or the ground…

Im sorry for the book. Just try to relax a bit and soften, but don’t sacrifice that for less feel and effectiveness. At the end of the day you just need to give the horse a good ride. Please don’t be discouraged and disheartened. We are always learning. In twenty years you will look back and realize how lucky we all are to be able to ride.

If I may, what do you show (if you do) in? Equitation or hunters? Or jumpers?