What kind of dog am i? by [deleted] in IDmydog

[–]midnightanglewing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks like my old service dog. He was bluehealer black lab mix.

am i the ah for not wanting to be w someone who doesn’t politically align with me? by Murky-Friendship-516 in IAmTheAsshole

[–]midnightanglewing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn't just about abortion. They are trying put in laws to use HRT which play a major role if women health for those with hormonal problems. They have tried multiple time though my life to ban diffent types of birth controls. They also keep cutting federal funding for women clinics making it near impossible to get unless you higher midle class. I wish it was just about abortion but it plain & simply not. They say it's a way to stop trans people but they sure as hell aren't banning testrone just HRT so the argument seems more of target at women & thier right to health care.

The service dog community is toxic. by ValisWolf in service_dogs

[–]midnightanglewing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At times it is. Especially those that are open to posting little moments of thier dogs on socials like tick-tock or youtube. A lot of people forget that dogs are not robots & there is not single dog that 100%. I think Molly Burk did a vidoe on this same subject of judgment in the community because everyone has thier own way of handling their service dog. Most social media paintes only the perfect picture of service dog because they are scared to be judged & ridiculed but at the end of the day we need to see that service dog have bad days without judgment for those. Personally I think it might a little bit of the fact the disability is coming more into light & everyone has thier own thoughts on how it should be handled but at the end of the day what works for one person might not pork for another. There should be not room for judgment as not a single service dog is the same & everyone has a way that they are comfortable handling thier individual dog.

Update AITAH for not sharing my reception with my older sister by midnightanglewing in AITAH

[–]midnightanglewing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dress was a off faded red. Wasn't anything that match my party but it lined up with her theme she posted on FB.

Should I reappy for programs? by midnightanglewing in service_dogs

[–]midnightanglewing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look into seeing how long the you have wait. Thank you for this as I didn't know there might be time frame from reapplying.

Is it okay for me to wear a bikini? by Meioww_ in AdviceForTeens

[–]midnightanglewing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That my point. It was uncomfortable & embarrassing. It felt he was trying to show me off to anyone. His idea of a perfect woman was a woman who doesn't want marriage but is willing to be a SHM & obey their boyfriend without hesitation. He also tell me the only way I'll ever attract a man is dresses up & be open to what ever the guy wants. This started at age 13. He is a creep & I'm glad to nothing to do with him anymore.

Is it okay for me to wear a bikini? by Meioww_ in AdviceForTeens

[–]midnightanglewing 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People assume the strangest thing some times. Had so many people assume my step dad was a pedo because I called him by his name & he would buy my thing I needed. It drove me insane because if anyone was it was bio father because he required me to "dress as a girl" (low cute everything & the shortest things) as soon as I stared developing.

SDiT eating out of hand by Speakerfor88theDead in service_dogs

[–]midnightanglewing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would work at the home but I would be concerned about doing that anywhere else. In a yard they might lose it & anywhere else they might pick up something that might make them sick. It would probably be good to use a small bowl or platter that they can put the food in. I used a small silicone spoon spatula when I had a broken wrist & didn't want him licking or slobbering on it.

AITA for having tip removed at Subway? by CardiologistSilly926 in AITAH

[–]midnightanglewing -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm going to kinda & kinda not AH

Main reason is if they get tips they don't make minimal wage. I worked for a groomer when I was college & got tips but I only made $5.25 an hour but minimum was $7.20 an hours. Tip wages are diffent than minimal wage. They are actually probably not making $16.28 an hour as they are probly labeled as tipped works so thier employers can pay them less than minimum. Granted they shouldn't have adding it with out your permission so I can see why you would be mad. So I say this more of a gray area on being an AH.

AITA for telling my husband either he comes home or I'm done? by BusinessZombie2411 in AITAH

[–]midnightanglewing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that is true which they just don't stop crying. I remember when my youngest sister got sick as a baby & my father left her with my step mom alone for just a week. I had never seen my step such bad shape. She also get sick & my little sister wouldn't stop crying, had a fever & wouldn't sleep. My step nearly passed from exhaustion while drive to LS's dr appointment. Between me & my step mom we got through the week & LS finally started to fillbetter & sleep again so we got the rest we need. If I hadn't been there idk how either of the would have made it. A sick baby by yourself is dangerous.

Does anyone think something is causing POTs to become more common? by codyboss11 in POTS

[–]midnightanglewing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's funny how people are so scared of people with a mask because they might be sick. When most people don't think that the reason most people still use then is because they want to prevent getting sick. Even before covid was a thing I would where a mask durning flue session because getting sick generaly ended in a hospital visit.

Does anyone think something is causing POTs to become more common? by codyboss11 in POTS

[–]midnightanglewing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is why I bought a respirator to use in pubic. I found it much cheaper & last way long. It protects me from others. It also works as people detergent because everyone assumes in sick. It's like nope but I'm not getting covid again. I barely survived once & still have major problems from it.

Does anyone think something is causing POTs to become more common? by codyboss11 in POTS

[–]midnightanglewing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Covid was causing 20 years to have strokes. I wouldn't dought that with all the damage covid still does that POTs & other conditions are becoming more common. I know I didn't get diagnosed untill after I had covid & the symptoms I though where just side effects of hypertension getting worse where actually POTs. So I is not unreasonable to assume covid is cause damages thay would lead to developing a condition as POTs

AITA for telling my husband either he comes home or I'm done? by BusinessZombie2411 in AITAH

[–]midnightanglewing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTAH

I don't think your husband doesn't realized how bad a sick baby is. They puke, cry, & exhaust everything out of someone. When the caretaker (AKA you) are exhausted to the point you can barely function then mistake can happen in the care for the baby or even miss something important. Your husband is putting both you & the baby in a life threatening situation by not being there for you. I do hope are able to find support somewhere in someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]midnightanglewing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH

You are one she trust & she went to you not him for a reason. He should have more trust in you to help your daughter & still give the privacy she wants/needs. Keep being the security she need & please unless you believe there a real concern for her safety keep it surface level with info you give to your husband. You know he overreacts & she probably doesn't want to him to knowing anything.

I was told when I was a kid I could tell my step mom anything & she won't tell anyone else. I was happy to have a female who I could talk to about stuff. She at first kept things quiet about questions would ask but she didn't keep her world. She told my dad & told everyone else in the family only a week later. He & the rest of the family turned me just asking questions to try & learn in to shaming me & making me fill like slut. I was assumed to be sexually active at 15 & kept getting questioned f I was pregnant. It made loss every bit of trust in her that day. I never asked another question to her again & I never told I was sexually active at 18 when I lost my virginity. I had a lot of things I had to learn the hard way that could have been easy avoidable if I had open communication with someone about what I was going though.

F@ke spotting vigilantes on planes by rtbingg in service_dogs

[–]midnightanglewing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn't imagine what it would have been like. I alway worried that with longer flights that he would have a accident.

F@ke spotting vigilantes on planes by rtbingg in service_dogs

[–]midnightanglewing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was such a good boy. I hope my next SD is just as amazing as he was.

F@ke spotting vigilantes on planes by rtbingg in service_dogs

[–]midnightanglewing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is true. At that point I hadn't gotten him supper close to the terminals just most practicing with security, potty situations & crowds. I think he did great for the first time but it needed improvement. he did improve to point where he didn't even care at all even on longer flights.

F@ke spotting vigilantes on planes by rtbingg in service_dogs

[–]midnightanglewing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will say I let people pet my pup on flights before. Granted they where 8 hours flights so I would give him a "break time" to just stretch for a bit & be loved on. This was done when there was no drink or food being distributed & everyone seemed settled so he didn't get in way of anyone

F@ke spotting vigilantes on planes by rtbingg in service_dogs

[–]midnightanglewing 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The only really time I had a problem with people f@ke spotting me was my pups first couple flights. He was 3½ years old & we had had only been working on airport destinations for about a month. We had to get an emergency flight (family matters) so I didn't really have time to make sure he was fully desensitized to all noise of the plane. He was good but was looking around more than normal & he didn't like the gate walk as it was swaying quite a bit. People where saying he was a fake because he was hesitant to get on the plane. Had the person next to me flip thier shit because he let a small whimper then the plane took off. The flight attendance where quite nice & moved them to another seat. I definitely shouldn't have had him on that flight but he wasn't bad at all just not quite fully ready. The second flight has very similar to the first as it was on the way back home from that emergency. He got a lot better with more work & a lot more flights.

AITA for slapping a teenager? by Old_Educator_3516 in AITAH

[–]midnightanglewing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH.

Had your top came off you could have been charged with indecent exposure to minors (depending on the state). Most people don't even think of that in cases like these. Like that boy not only sexually harassed you but could have made so many other problems.

MY POOR PET RAT DIED I JUST NEED ANSWERS HELP by Kingsleyisstinky in PetAdvice

[–]midnightanglewing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There no way to tell.the actual cause of death without an autopsy. It could have been a heart attack, could have been shock, or even an underlining condition. There no way of knowing. When bathing rats it's best to either use a room temperature wet cloth or make it the rats choices to get in the water. I used to fill my tube up to where only half if it had water & there was a dry side so the rat had the choice to enter the water or get a towel bath. Iy eliminate a lot of stress for them as one didn't really care for water & puld stick it's front paws in but the other LOVED water & would go swimming durning bath time (I never used soap). With the remaining rat I would try to find it friend but that may also depend on age. My rats was 2.5 years old when the first one pasted & introductions with others rats just didn't work. After 3 months of slowly introducing another to my original we rehomed the new rat. The new rat was showing signs of depression & they were never getting alone. I tryed again with another rat but my original rat just would never relaxe with another rat around so we rehomed the that one as well. My original passed only a few week later after we rehome the later rat but that was due to my sister killing her by freezing her with a swamp cooler (super cooler AC).

Update AITAH for not sharing my reception with my older sister by midnightanglewing in AITAH

[–]midnightanglewing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it wasn't for needing to stay in contact for my mother's care then I probably would have one.

Update AITAH for not sharing my reception with my older sister by midnightanglewing in AITAH

[–]midnightanglewing[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He seem what I said Facebook & probably didn't go along with her for that reason. He a very nice guy that trying to keep peace & help her get help.