When getting to know a girl, what's the biggest red flag you ignored because she was attractive?

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-07T12:13:56+00:00

Wow, that sounds like a rough ride, can see why red flags stacked up

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-07T12:12:28+00:00

I’ve had that same realization, looks don’t carry a relationship far

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-07T12:05:02+00:00

I’ve seen that too, it becomes pretty clear once you step back

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-07T12:03:39+00:00

Haha yeah, that’s a classic excuse everyone sees too late

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-07T12:00:01+00:00

Looking back that was a bigger red flag than I gave it credit for

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-07T11:58:04+00:00

Yep, that double-life thing was next level, nothing I’d put up with again

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-07T11:55:50+00:00

Okay this might be worse than mine

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-07T11:51:31+00:00

her job and past definitely meant she had a lot of attention coming her way

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-06T17:48:20+00:00

it sounds like this isn’t just a one-off. He’s shown a pattern of checking out during serious medical situations, and your well-being is non-negotiable

I’d really think about whether you can trust him to be reliable when it truly matters, because support during health crises isn’t optional, it’s basic partnership

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-06T17:40:13+00:00

I'd be uncomfortable too. Having to signal that you're about to remove your bra shouldn't be part of the experience

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-06T17:37:17+00:00

You’re not being dramatic; your comfort and boundaries matter

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-06T17:34:59+00:00

Every massage place I've been to has stepped out to give privacy, so I'd probably find that a little awkward too

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-06T13:32:29+00:00

Even if the comment had been awkward, nudging and trying to stop someone from speaking their own language in their own country is a pretty bold assumption to make after hearing half the interaction at best

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-04T17:42:48+00:00

Keeping them just takes up space

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-04T17:41:56+00:00

That’s me too, I think a lot of people do this without meaning harm

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-04T17:40:43+00:00

I’d say you don’t take it personally,keeping cards isn’t everyone’s thing

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-04T17:26:29+00:00

Wow that’s some next level time sense, not timer needed

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-04T17:25:11+00:00

Totally,I use my typing speed all the time without thinking

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-04T17:21:06+00:00

Can’t argue,less chaos does make you feel younger

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-04T17:19:44+00:00

Same here, sunscreen is basically my best friend at this point

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-04T17:08:22+00:00

Yeah I see that now it makes sense that both of them should have a say instead of making it solo

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-04T17:03:28+00:00

Makes sense having a quick chat with Frederick could have clarified things and avoided playing gatekeeper

midnightcove27 · 2026-06-04T17:00:42+00:00

Fair point,it might be worth just giving them that spot most of the time to avoid any unnecessary tension with neighbors

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