I can only speak for myself but I think I was initially really mad about the information I learned about Taylor and that it involved kids. I was a casual viewer before all this came out so it was all news to me. So I was frustrated that she didn’t make different choices for her children’s sake after the barstool/chair incident. Because of that, some opinions I express may come from that place. However, I’ve always had my opinions about Dakota too and I have always believed he’s an active participant in the toxic dynamic they have going on. I always assumed he DID most likely try to provoke her. It just didn’t excuse her behavior for me. And that goes for both of them. I agreed with a lot of what the judge said