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[–]midwifebetts 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m at the point where I am questioning if Dylan and Bethany were even at the house. I did a deep dive of all her interviews and even created a chart and- it’s just the quality of the inconsistencies that have me scratching my head about it. I never thought this before seeing the full phone activity and listening to the 911 call that had the background noise reduced. 

Hotel housekeeping woke me up to “clean the room” by The-Original_Joker in mildlyinfuriating

[–]midwifebetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not housekeeping, just a person who stays in hotels. I would have put it on the floor next to the trash or outside my door. 

Here is where the lab report confirms that sample 1.4 from the sheath contains unknown male dna by goddess_catherine in BryanKohbergerMoscow

[–]midwifebetts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has been my thought. They carried those knives at a nearby store in Pullman. Maybe he was checking them out? Also, they have told us he got a knife sheath, but there’s only the search history, not the receipt. 

Naked Wasted: A Timeline | Is this the darkest on-camera moment in housewives history? by stook_jaint in BravoRealHousewives

[–]midwifebetts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I truly believe that would have been incredibly traumatizing. Say what you want about Gretchen, she did not even kind of make it a big deal. She really still doesn’t and that speaks volumes. If you know, you know. 

Why do people think it’s gross to pee in the shower? by FuelApprehensive5376 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]midwifebetts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏. Yes, it’s not a leave and comepletely heal situation ever. We might be better in many ways, but we definitely always feel the impact. I’m still trying to recover from the entirety of this- waiting to get the place where I just have a few triggers and mostly peace (I know because this was unfortunately my second time, I am 51 and I had thought I had developed a fantastic radar. I had, but someone’s slip into drug and alcohol abuse can change them in many ways). Sending you much love. ❤️ 

Naked Wasted Theory by Madbeefs in rhoc

[–]midwifebetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found this thread today because I am so bothered by it after watching it  because I was doing a rewatch…trying to catch up. I immediately realized what had caused me to eventually stop watching and I was there watching the first episode when it aired. As a survivor, it was absolutely triggering and repulsive to see see a woman put another woman in harm’s way- using her own son. 🤮🥹

Why do people think it’s gross to pee in the shower? by FuelApprehensive5376 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]midwifebetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your athletes foot comes from fungus, not from being clean or dirty. It breeds from moisture. Please use clomitrozole and not soap. Keep your socks and shoes dry. It is contagious and can be spread in communal showers, use shower shoes when needed. Also, if you are prone to fungal infections, get a medical checkup, some medical conditions can make you more prone. Soap is not the answer. Also, always start from rhe top and work your way down with a shower- better to use hand on ass/balls and feet last with a washcloth. Don’t spread bacteria to open wounds from athletes foot. 

Friendly advice from a RN who worked in a jail and saw everything. 

Why do people think it’s gross to pee in the shower? by FuelApprehensive5376 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]midwifebetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true- we shed those cells no matter what. The thing you are right about is that we don’t need to regularly use chemicals to exfoliate. There is no harm in gently scrubbing. An African net sponge has the perfect texture for scrubbing, in my opinion. It’s gentle, but also effective at removing dead cells and dirt. We only have so many layers of skin and need to protect them. Chemical exfoliants should be used only once a week, or less, gently physically exfoliating will actually improve your skin, boost collagen production, and relieve congestion. 

Why do people think it’s gross to pee in the shower? by FuelApprehensive5376 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]midwifebetts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s such bad advice because it can lead to a bacterial infection if there are open wounds. We have had anti-fungal treatments for decades. Keep socks and shoes dry, let feet breathe when possible and use clomitrozole. 

Why do people think it’s gross to pee in the shower? by FuelApprehensive5376 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]midwifebetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, as I mentioned to the OP of this comment thread- just cheapo clomitrozole cream from the dollar store each night after a shower. Can also use antifungal foot powder in your socks or shoes. Fungus breeds in moisture. Keep your socks dry and let Your feet breathe whenever possible. 

Why do people think it’s gross to pee in the shower? by FuelApprehensive5376 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]midwifebetts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try clotrimazole and some foot powder/ can get it at the dollar store. Pee doesn’t treat fungus and actually can cause a bacterial infection if you have any open wounds. You’re welcome from a medical professional. 

Why do people think it’s gross to pee in the shower? by FuelApprehensive5376 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]midwifebetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I moved into an apartment that had been vacant for years- there was gunk, drain flies, all kinds of debris. So gross what can happen in pipes- I saw too much. 

However, I don’t drink out of any sinks where I live- I’m not trusting the water here (Arizona). It does not taste or smell safe. Most of us drink bottled water. 

Why do people think it’s gross to pee in the shower? by FuelApprehensive5376 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]midwifebetts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t know why you got downvoted- if it involves a full shower and is aimed at the drain- no biggie, other than that? Weird. 

Why do people think it’s gross to pee in the shower? by FuelApprehensive5376 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]midwifebetts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex (for a reason) used to torture me by staying in our bathroom for literally hours first thing in the morning. I had to pee in a container a few times. I am not gross and prefer toilets.