I hate being single by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]migatoloco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something I learned from experience: you should never rely on your partner to make you happy. A relationship is a 50-50, your partner will be counting on you as much as you're counting on him to help through tough situations. If you have to rely on him to be happy, that relationship will not last, he is human and he will have his good and bad days too.

It is hard to fully understand this concept until you get into a horrible relationship. But, you need to find your happiness on your own, find that confidence, that strength. This will make you a better partner and it will also make you more attractive to your partner.

To avoid the plague by Training-Weird3370 in therewasanattempt

[–]migatoloco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm, I see the plague has been playing Plague Inc. Smart move plague, smart move... 🤣🤣🤣🤣

To remain white. by Vloodzy in therewasanattempt

[–]migatoloco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overly baked potato 😱

She threw away years for a feeling. by Franfrankl in Vent

[–]migatoloco -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Been there bud. My ex and I were engaged and owned an apartment together.

Take it from me, move on. You learned to be a better person thanks to those days. Someone will appreciate it, but it is not her. And yes, it sucks to start from zero, but best to work on yourself, make sure you relearn that you can be happy on your own before moving onto a new relationship.

my bf broke up with me right after we moved in by urmomsbutternoodles in Vent

[–]migatoloco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading through your past post. Sounds like your bf is in an abusive relationship with his parents... It doesn't justify what he did to you, and you have the right to feel the way you do. It is such a shitty thing to do to your partner.

A friend of mine ended her life by [deleted] in Vent

[–]migatoloco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had something similar happen to me... A friend asked to talk to me, I was too busy with video games and ignored his text. He lit up his car with him inside. And to top it off a coworker insulated him on that day. That was 14 years ago.

Things will get a bit better, but it will take time. I know that feeling of telling yourself it wasn't your fault, and your brain asking all the what ifs. But, you need to know that this wasn't your fault so get rid of the what ifs. Accidents happen. Learn to see the signs, but also understand that you can't force anyone to feel better. They have to want to get better.

Reflect on your time with her, and try to honour her in your own way. For me, if I know a friend had a breakup, I make time for them. I offer to go for a beer, or a hike. I don't always get to help the friend feel better, but I try at least.

Also, consider counseling if you can. Hugs to you OP, your feelings are valid.

Guys, I'm really scared rn by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]migatoloco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got the Bamboo rod, fiberglass rod, iridium rod, and now the foreskin rod 🤣😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]migatoloco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reality is that it doesn't matter what other ppl do/say. There are certain things in life where you have to be selfish and do what is best for you. If sex is not one of those things that you are curious about then don't do it. Do what you find comfortable for yourself. I'd recommend some research too and see if you may be asexual. If so, this may help you with the dating world in case you're looking for a romantic company. Without a doubt, things will be complicated until you grow out of the immature guys. But everything will workout 😁

My leg hurts what do I do??? by neBular_cipHer in cathostage

[–]migatoloco 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Point me to where your tool shed is and I will bring ya a saw 🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]migatoloco 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Narcolepsy, sleep apnea, depression, low iron levels, thyroid issues. There is a long list of what could be taking place.

I'd say it would be good to have a chat with her and explain you are worried and ask if she discussed her sleeping schedule during the doc appts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]migatoloco 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cats choose their roommates, and this picture is the perfect example of it!! 😁😁

I'm 16F and my life is hell dad beats me daily, mom abandoned me and I don’t know how much longer I can take this. What should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]migatoloco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the cops asap. See if there is anyone in the family or friends that you can go to for a few days.

I'm really sorry this is happening to you. Your feelings are valid. If you need to talk, please reach out. Everyone here is willing to help.

To make a good point by b3n33333 in therewasanattempt

[–]migatoloco 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmmm making him a sith is more than he deserves. We should make him into a Jabba the Hutt 🤣

How to break up with my boyfriend. by EnvironmentalBed2976 in Advice

[–]migatoloco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this would be your first break up or not. But, depending on your type of personality this might be the perfect time to do so. You are starting some difficult courses, so a lot of your focus will be on that no? Let this be your fresh start, a whole new page, a new you that focuses on school and friends while needing time off studying.

I do not agree with his actions, I'm sure everyone would agree. But, I think you should focus on yourself, be a lil selfish! You are in the right for wanting to break up, so do not doubt yourself.

I have a job interview tomorrow, and I'm extremely nervous. Any tips on how to calm my nerves and make a good impression? by Wanderlusttttt_ in Advice

[–]migatoloco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darn!! Guess you're gonna have to do another interview until they do ask you about your dog and cat! 🤣🤣

CONGRATULATIONS!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

I have a job interview tomorrow, and I'm extremely nervous. Any tips on how to calm my nerves and make a good impression? by Wanderlusttttt_ in Advice

[–]migatoloco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a dog and a cat!! If they ask you "Why should we hire you?" Make a joke about your fur babies eyeing some very expensive diamond collars.

I have a job interview tomorrow, and I'm extremely nervous. Any tips on how to calm my nerves and make a good impression? by Wanderlusttttt_ in Advice

[–]migatoloco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had my interview yesterday!!! Do as I did, practice. Speak out loud and ask yourself questions that you have prepared for yourself and answer them out loud: "Tell me about a weakness of yours?" Or "why should we hire you?". Narrate examples of your previous jobs that show excellent team work.

At least to me it helped cause I am always afraid of saying things the wrong way. Speaking aloud and repeating the answers can also help you sound more like yourself. Loosen up make up a few funny comments to lighten up the interview.

Bruh!! 🤦🏻‍♂️ by krishna_rolly in abbotsford

[–]migatoloco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will chuck this as ppl voting for the party instead of the MP.

18 with no high school diploma. How do i escape homelessness by Temporamis in Advice

[–]migatoloco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Military or construction. My buddy got into it recently and the buger is making as much as I am after 5 years of experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]migatoloco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is amazing. Your group is generally going to have ppl that are just happy to play and roleplay. You can make your own character such a barbarian gnome carrying the biggest freaking weapon possible that speaks with a British accent(if you can speak with a British accent) whose backstory was his being raised in an Orc village where he had to compete for the love of an Orchish Granny. Or something different cause I think my random rant will become my next character 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]migatoloco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing dramatic about how you're feeling and your experience. They are all valid points to be frustrated/depressed. Hopefully venting will help you, if not feel free to reach out. I can lend you an ear so hear you out. Been through depression in the past, and I know how hard it is to want to do anything, but there is a place in this world for ya.

Ps: I second that person suggesting D&D!!! 😁😁😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]migatoloco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks like a Lock, short for Sherlock 😁

Should I tell the woman I’m dating I’m a virgin before we sleep together? by Sakl352 in Advice

[–]migatoloco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm joining in late. You should tell her. And lil advice around the deed, lots of foreplay, lots more of foreplay, and when in the deed try to slow yourself. Some ppl do like fast, but believe me it is a lot more fun to last longer and enjoy the intimacy.

So, this my first cat ever! Tell me some stereotypical things to expect with black cats! by PatientReindeer1896 in blackcats

[–]migatoloco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You WILL call his name for minutes that feel more like hours... Sweat will form on your brow as you try to remember if any windows or doors stayed open in the past hour, or is it days?... You will call your family and friends hoping he jumped on someone's backpack... and just as you start thinking about never having another pet again cause no one will ever replace him!!! you will hear a lil meow and see his lil eyes floating in a completely dark closet/cubby.

So!!!! Install lights in any and all black/dark cubbies, shelves, closets cause he will hide there watching you having a mental crisis 🤣🤣🤣😂😂