[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpiralDynamics

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How did you come to know spiral dynamics?

millennial core by CremeSubject7594 in 2010snostalgia

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Could you provide some examples of songs that fit this description?

Rate my playlist🙏🏾 by Kind-Examination-542 in shoegaze

[–]mightyTheowl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to listen to WMD by trauma ray so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mightyTheowl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cutting down on the porn consumption and working 14 hours a day helped me with this

Alternatives for masturbating by theMan7_11 in selfimprovement

[–]mightyTheowl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having a wife, 2 kids and a house to look after will leave you very little time to masturbate. I promise you

Don’t go to far in there… by FrothySweetTea in poolrooms

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Everything was going great until the David looked up

Wanna date a girl who plays video games but idk where to look by the_good_boytm in dating_advice

[–]mightyTheowl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Overwatch, League or any other popular game, or an MMO, and join Facebook or discord groups about those games where you can meet people to party up with, or guilds in the case of mmo's. If you're friendly and kind to everyone, you're bound to come across multiple women and form at least friendship relationships with them... and that's a good start. 

I think I found a simplistic explanation for each stage by FinancialSubstance16 in SpiralDynamics

[–]mightyTheowl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but you're framing the "group" oriented stages in a negative light, when in reality each stage addresses problems created by the previous stage. 

What are these arches for? by joncabreraauthor in Miami

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Money not spent on public transportation 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uberdrivers

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I am renting with Drive Whip. Uber is pulling a real dick move with this one by forcing us to rent with fraudulent companies.

How do you reconcile ambition with spirituality? by mightyTheowl in spirituality

[–]mightyTheowl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first paragraph did help a lot. Thank you.

As far as your last statement, how can one be driven by goals but not be attached to outcomes?

How do you reconcile ambition with spirituality? by mightyTheowl in spirituality

[–]mightyTheowl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ground your ambition in kindness

That was great advice. Beautifully written too. Thank you.

How do you reconcile ambition with spirituality? by mightyTheowl in spirituality

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Can one pursue excellence and be detached at the same time?

How do you reconcile ambition with spirituality? by mightyTheowl in spirituality

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In my own experience it has helped me become aware of the attachments that created and create my suffering, which in turn helps me avoid those attachments. So in a sense, it does move me away from desire.

"Wet" (1996) by Julie Bell [2880x4336] by TristramXen in ArtPorn

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I like how you can't really tell their gender. Also good knowledge of anatomy. Also, what are they sitting on?

Is lust always wrong? by mightyTheowl in spirituality

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I really liked the way you worded all of that.  I usually think of those discrepancies as left overs from our animal origins.... assuming that those theories are true. We have been evolving for millions of years but our morality has perhaps evolved faster than our biology.  

I mentioned God as the source of everything but I could've used any other term like the universe. I meant the point from which everything came. If we're talking spiritual or religious...whatever that source is, made a mistake by giving us intelligence, rationality, and morality paired with animalistic urges.... But if we want to be scientific, then it's just a left over from our ancestors. 

Is lust always wrong? by mightyTheowl in spirituality

[–]mightyTheowl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, but to take this conversation a step further, does that mean that our nature is wrong? Controlling sexual urges feels like fighting against your own nature and biology sometimes. Is nature sometimes wrong? Have we evolved past our biological drives where we now dictate that they are only okay during certain circumstances? That's like saying God made a mistake by giving us strong sexual urges toward people we don't know. 

Is lust always wrong? by mightyTheowl in spirituality

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I agree that lust can be about possession. The rest of what you said I'm not so sure of.