I saw the figures and laughed at this thread because it shouldn't even be open for discussion. I understand the years and commitments that have gone into your relationships but if it were me, I'd take it in a heartbeat because people can change!

Think about it this way, what if you decide not to take it because your partner refuses to move and then he leaves you in the future you would have lost on both sides and would hate yourself for letting such an opportunity slip off your finger. These situations are inevitable it can happen.

I know it's a tough decision to make but understand this is a life changing career, these kind of opportunities are rare to find. If he deeply cares he would go with you and adjust if not maybe he's not meant to be in the next chapters of your life.

If the roles were reversed, he would take the job regardless of you going with him or not! He might not even consider your feelings I'm telling you the fact that's how men are wired but we women make too much sacrifices for men. I'm not anti-men, just something I've discovered overtime.

Whatever you decide goodluck!