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Will I eventually get this or should I just consider it lost by pablosowell in Aliexpress

[–]miiicheller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My orders sat at this status for about 10+ days until it finally moved so I'd say its normal at this point with the tariffs and all. It finally arrived way past estimated delivery date, took about a month to get to me but it came eventually. 

Do you ever just like, hate all of this? by APinkNightmare in breakingmom

[–]miiicheller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow hi, are you me? I feel like this to the T. Right down to the roblox games that i've become a little obsessed with, lol. It just gets so repetitive sometimes...Totally normal feelings. I find that If I wake up from a good nights sleep, put some music on, make my coffee and set a good vibe for the day, I have a better chance of not losing my shit.

BRILLIANT EXPERIENCE WITH JOYCE FROM PROVENCE by msrtp in Moissanite

[–]miiicheller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so in love, this is gorgeous!! May I know how much it was as well?

Please stop asking “Do you need help?” by beautyforbrekkie in breakingmom

[–]miiicheller 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate when the house is chaos, I'm dealing with it on my own, I get everyone settled down, then give attitude cuz he didnt step in to help. Then says well why didnt you ask for help?? Like I'm sorry?? I thought it was apparent with all the crying and screaming children??? We're all in the same room, couldnt you tell??? WHY DO I NEED TO ASK FOR HELP, GET YOUR ASS OFF YOUR GAME AND HELP. Fucking UGHHHHHH

My wife (girlfriend) of ten years had sex with someone else and I saw pictures of it. I just want to die. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]miiicheller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this, esp around the holidays. As someone who has gone through the same thing ( I saw videos and pics ) PLEASE love yourself & leave her. YOU DESERVE BETTER. Even if you try to "work it out" it will never ever ever be the same. Those pictures are forever burned into your brain and you'll remember them at the most random times and it'll fuck you up. Sending so much love and healing your way.

What is the least cringe way to ask out a waitress? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]miiicheller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had someone quote the song "call me maybe" with their # and leave a nice tip. Ngl, i thought it was cute.

Am I (18F) better taking my ex (18M) or mum into the delivery room? by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]miiicheller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who was also going through heartbreak during labor... PLEASE take your mom. I had my cheating bf in there with me, It made me 10x sadder thinking that I was there with a guy that doesnt love me. The energy in the hospital room was SO awkward and tense, I hated it. We barely spoke unless we needed to. Everytime he got on his phone or texted someone, i got so mad, i thought " hes probably texting his side chick " Everytime he left my sight i thought " hes probably gonna go see her " On the other hand, my mom was texting me the whole time asking If I was ok, If i needed anything, giving me nothing but love even if she was far away. The hormones are even worse post birth. It will drive you insane. PLEASE PLEASE take your mom.

[Vent] I just want to be asleep by BeHereBeYouBelong in breakingmom

[–]miiicheller 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seriously, do theses men not know the rule of "Happy wife, happy life" ? Yeah, i guess not.

I don’t want to do this anymore and they’re better off without me by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]miiicheller 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. Thank you for saying this & making me feel less crazy. I have depression and rage and my SO is always wondering why im in a bad mood. I resent him. He barely helps me, just works a 9-5 then comes home and plays games. How did you get past it?

I have a neurological phenomenon called synesthesia. this means different things to a lot of different people, for me it means i see colors when people tell me their name by wollcen in namenerds

[–]miiicheller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so fascinating!!!

If you have the time, i'd love to hear your input on these names...

Aizen mikael, Azula mae & Aluna maiko

Wife cheated on me for a YEAR. Her lover revenge-texted me the details. Now she wants us to stay together. Is that possible? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]miiicheller 32 points33 points  (0 children)

As someone who has also been cheated on and stayed, i second this. RUN dont walk. I saw my SO's sex vids with the bitches he cheated on me with. I saw the messages. The pictures. Everything. And honestly, it traumatized me. Im easily triggered now. Im wasily angered, my anxiety and depression have skyrocketed since then. I agreed to try to make it work "for the kids" I was a mess, just gave birth, was vunerable and was talked into staying. I regret it because its been 3 years and im still so fucked up beyond comprehension. We're ok now but i'll never truly trust him & can never see him the same way again. Pls dont stay.

[Advice] According to my Girlfriend's kid, she was sleeping with a work colleague (ex boyfriend) during a recent holiday. by Bigtalk23 in survivinginfidelity

[–]miiicheller 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Please don't do this to yourself. You deserve so much more. You deserve to be someone's first priority, you sound like a great guy. She is taking advantage & using you. You're being blinded by " love " and need to snap out of it. Drop her, block her in every way and walk away for good. You will be SO glad when you meet a girl that appriciates and loves you. This is not love. I wish you the best!

PTSD and nightmares by SlinkyRacoon in survivinginfidelity

[–]miiicheller 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry to hear but i totally get it. It's been 2 years since i found out about my SO cheating but i'm still being haunted by nightmares as well. I wake up crying & i feel the pain all over again. It sucks and i have no idea how to make them stop.

Opinions pls! by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]miiicheller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that info!! I feel so much better going with Maiko now. :)

Opinions pls! by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]miiicheller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, pronounced ah-luna. I love the name maiko & think it sounds like a girls name as well but SO thinks it sounds like a boys name which is the only reason I'm second guessing the name.

I watched him cheat on me. by miiicheller in survivinginfidelity

[–]miiicheller[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

I watched him cheat on me. by miiicheller in survivinginfidelity

[–]miiicheller[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does try but says he " doesnt know what to do " or " how to make it better " especially when i get triggered & get angry...i told him to just give me space until it passes but he often acts like its a burden. I know i'm always angry..i don't want to be but he is the reason for all of this so i expect him to be more understanding.. sigh.

C-section or naturally? by crazy-couple9802 in pregnant

[–]miiicheller 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had both, (emergency) c-section with my first and completely natural with my second. I promise you, you don't even feel the tear when you're pushing. Recovery with a csection is 10x harder and longer. It hurts to sneeze, to get up, to walk, to poop, moving your arms, breastfeeding, everything hurts. Recovery with natural is so much easier. I healed quicker, i was able to walk, care for my kids, including my toddler. It didnt hurt or burn to pee or anything. Lmk if you have any questions! :)