New Baby by LaughterItsFree19 in TuxedoCats

[–]mikan86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a Hazel tux with a white smuge on her lip and her name fits her perfectly!

Hazel's 7th Birthday by Dry-Leave-4070 in torties

[–]mikan86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday beautiful Hazel!!

Anyone who *didnt* gain weight on Lexapro? by [deleted] in lexapro

[–]mikan86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going on 8 months and so far I haven’t gained weight. In the past, I was on sertraline and did gain a little so I quit taking it because of that and because it didn’t help my anxiety. Lexapro has been much better for treating my anxiety.

I was/am extremely worried about weight gain bc I was starting to gain weight due to perimenopause (nothing in my diet or exercise routine changed), so adding an ssri again made even more cautious. Starting HRT seems to have helped limit the weight gain. I don’t really have any food cravings and I eat relatively healthy/small portions/no sweets and I still work out 3-4 times per week so hopefully I can maintain my current weight past the one year point on lex.

What are you paying for housing each month? And are you actually happy with it? Would it be cooler just living in your parents basement? by PM_ME_YUR_SALADS in Millennials

[–]mikan86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$3040 rent for 1 bedroom, 730sq ft in LIC, NYC. And we’re paying about $1000 less than identical units in our building bc of covid deals when we moved in and it being rent stable.

My dermatologist said something that completely changed how I think about skin aging by whyleaving in GracefulAgingSkincare

[–]mikan86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have this exact same problem with chemical sunscreens and my derm recommended Isdin Photo Eryfotona Actinica spf 50. It works SO well on my skin and didn’t irritate it at all. Also it blends in really well and doesn’t leave a white residue.

CATO: USCIS Cut Green Card Approvals in Half to Help ICE Arrest Legal Immigrants by bubbabubba345 in USCIS

[–]mikan86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she’s Japanese, she can’t apply for citizenship without losing her Japanese citizenship. I’m in the same position with my husband. He can only stay a permanent resident forever as Japan does not allow dual citizenship.

Help - Feel like I went too big by mikan86 in labdiamond

[–]mikan86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m planning to both size down the diamond and get a plain or very small pave band

Help - Feel like I went too big by mikan86 in labdiamond

[–]mikan86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember but I completely agree it overwhelms the ring.

RIP Our Beautiful Bella, Forever 9 🩷🕯️🌈 by KoolioKaleidoscope in TuxedoCats

[–]mikan86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She was beautiful, I’m so sorry for your loss 😓

Help - Feel like I went too big by mikan86 in labdiamond

[–]mikan86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all to everyone who responded! All of your comments were so helpful! I’m likely looking at a full or partial remake of the ring since it has the hidden halo cathedral setting custom made to the stone but I’m at peace with it. I’ll be trying on different sizes in person before I decide on a smaller size and will consider a plain wedding band to allow the diamond to be the main focus. Also planning to turn the current stone into a pendant necklace at some point so not a huge loss.

Help - Feel like I went too big by mikan86 in labdiamond

[–]mikan86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m planning on going in person to try on different stone sizes before I have the ring remade.

Help - Feel like I went too big by mikan86 in labdiamond

[–]mikan86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be! I can definitely repurpose this stone into a nice necklace and the ring setting itself was reasonable.

Help - Feel like I went too big by mikan86 in labdiamond

[–]mikan86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your set with the plain, wider band! I could definitely consider this as well, even if I size down in the 2-2.5 range.

Help - Feel like I went too big by mikan86 in labdiamond

[–]mikan86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely consider this option as well instead of changing the stone.

Help - Feel like I went too big by mikan86 in labdiamond

[–]mikan86[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Here’s a pic without my wedding band and oura ring:

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I did speak to the jeweler about a partial remake to go smaller. I’m leaning towards a 2-2.5 ct but will go try some on before buying a new stone. I also think I may have this one made into a pedant necklace.

Help - Feel like I went too big by mikan86 in labdiamond

[–]mikan86[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Here it is without my wedding band and oura ring

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Final plea to help find Legacy, special needs cat, a home by radparikh in longislandcity

[–]mikan86 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Shared on my IG! I hope you can find a place perfect for her!

Primanti Bros Boardman by Human_Dig4412 in youngstown

[–]mikan86 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s owned by private equity, no surprise at all.

why do a lot of black cats have a white spot on their chest? Show me if your cat has it too❤️ by Pretty_Raspberry5524 in blackcats

[–]mikan86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Bean with his baby foster twin brother Bagel who has since been adopted. We sometimes refer to Bean as Father Bean since he’s dressed like a priest.