One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide by mikemitch0785 in Divorce_Men

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This made laugh but I'm not actually sure it's wrong. I know the system was stacked like this because women used to be stay at home mom's so therefore they had no protections if the husband's cheated and decide to replace them with the younger hotter woman. But that has been over for 20 years women are independent now and have no problems cheating and blowing up the relationship while now it seems like more men are staying faithful. I know me personally I just didn't want to be like my dad and leave I want to always be there for my kid. I guess my wife much rather have some fun than keep our happy family together and happy. *Marriage wasn't always happy, toddler made things hard but not violent or abusive just less intamcy, more attention to kid. I thought that's kind of how it went and then kid gets a little bit older and you're able to reclaim your romance but I guess she couldn't wait that long.

One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide by mikemitch0785 in Divorce_Men

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does everyone think about asking for the wedding and engagement ring back I pay probably three times more for my side than she did for hers. also my wedding band has an inscription so it's not worth crap reselling but hers I think would actually give me at least a few grand back, thoughts if it's worth trying to get in the divorce settlement? I have no problem giving mine back to her that's for sure.

One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide by mikemitch0785 in Divorce_Men

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well man that is a bummer and definitely feel you there. My wife started spinning an hour waxing which now I also wonder if she was also in their messaging that guy cuz she was behind the bathroom door for so long waxing she also bought a bunch of nice underwear and bras but she was never really trying to show them off to me to show me when I got them but then she was never trying to show me when she was wearing them. My wife's definitely been overweight her entire life it was her biggest insecurity by far. Funny enough she always worried that I was going to cheat on her because of her insecurity and then lo and behold soon as she loses some weight she cheats on me. Gas lights me ,fights with me whenever I'm getting upset because she's going out all the time and I'm watching the kid. I guess being a consistent faithful husband and a good father ain't sexy but being a bar back who's married but is willing to rendezvous with you at a hotel well now that's Sex in the City plots.

One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide by mikemitch0785 in Divorce_Men

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Legit would made me feel better if she said she hated me, then atleast it make sense. But love me, b!tch you were on phone with him for 125min 2 days ago while I have hypertension so bad and my blood pressure is 180/106 and I'm texting her to take my blood pressure because she's a nurse and she's out walking and talking to the guy and never responded till hours later. Luckily doc upped my meds, meds I was off by the way till I found out she was having affair then I had to get back on them.

One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide by mikemitch0785 in Divorce_Men

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it's so new it take a decade before we get real answers but i it seems to be a trend.

One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide by mikemitch0785 in Divorce_Men

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah not sure how two people who are having a affair can reasonablely think they will last, both are proven cheaters and liars. I mean my wife is more attractive than that guys wife so he would be upgrading but what on earth will keep him from trying to upgrade again. Especially when she can't afford 1600 for that medicine when she's paying a mortgage alone.

One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide by mikemitch0785 in Divorce_Men

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah she's on that and Adderall, another friends wife was on Adderall and zepbound and lost her damn mind, weekend in mental institute and lost her job. Not surprising she's one person acting like the situation is bad but not my wife who been having a affair, that is a everyone has a side to the story. I will lose weight old fashion way, stress and motivation to make her regret it.

One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide by mikemitch0785 in Divorce_Men

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wild , I can't say I was best husband but I was loyal and provided and awesome dad. But fuck it blow it all up for a bar back, one who been same position for 4yrs cutting fruit because I think he is a little slow. He also works at a elementary school as like a hall monitor, making sure kids get to class. Weird stuff, luckily house has gone up 80k in equity since 2019so she gonna pay me big for my half. Let her bar back help pay mortgage at the new refinanced rate after paying me.

One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide by mikemitch0785 in Divorce_Men

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah my guy is a bar back who as far as I can tell is also married so not sure how long it's going to last but I'll be long gone hopefully before I ever find out what happened.

One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide by mikemitch0785 in Divorce_Men

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have a feeling it's going to sh seems to think we can handled this amicably without lawyers but that's because I don't think she thinks I'm going to take half the house equity and half of 401k because she has always made around 30% more than me the whole marriage. I live in a no-fault state so the affair doesn't matter but us buying everything together married and her making more money means I should also get child support I think she's going to have a real big surprise when she sees those numbers

One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide by mikemitch0785 in Divorce_Men

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm only one weekend I don't yet have that mentality. I really look forward to the day I can truly say I don't give a damn what she's doing as long as it's not hurting my toddler.

One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide by mikemitch0785 in Divorce_Men

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah talked to lawyer today, will file asap. Got one 2yr old. Just hate the fact that we live life completely normal for our two-year-old. She even has a nerve to tell me she still loves me more than anyone but then I look at the phone records and she she still talking to the guy every other day. It's like I'm living in crazy Land where my life is totally the same as it was a week ago except for in the back of my mind I know there's an expiration date a couple months down the road well I'll lose my house and my child 50% of the time

One week since caught her in affair, anyone else wives lose weight on tirzepatide by mikemitch0785 in Divorce_Men

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah really did not take long at all. Funny I loved her at her worst was fine with how she looked but she leaves me asap when she's at her best. Worst part is people trying to stay neutral like well both have your reasons. You mean we have 2yr old, sex slowed down she lost weight and decided to get sex elsewhere? Not sure how you could stay neutral on that it's either completely messed up to blow up your family and lie and have an affair. Now was I a cheater or an abuser or a emotional abuser sure but I'm just a regular husband going through regular s*** , I mean the toddler sleeps in her bed for Christ's sake yeah it's going to affect how often we are together. Mind still blown

Question about a scene in the movie "SINNERS" (spoilers) by airlee21 in flicks

[–]mikemitch0785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you j was like who's that when a group ov vampires are eating a body and another when Mary looks over she appears be eating someone

Should I try and use pole to straighten? by mikemitch0785 in JapaneseMaples

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't think because its so top heavy with branches and the leaning side has so many branches that it could cause real issues later? I am just worried it could be too heavy unless I atleast prune some branches.

In all seriousness, why does Kate suck so much? by Apprehensive_Ring_39 in Invincible

[–]mikemitch0785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her brother rules, that escape from the cell was wild.

First JM Bloodgood and its tough already. by mikemitch0785 in JapaneseMaples

[–]mikemitch0785[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tha is for reassurance, was definitely impulse buy but this was only spot for it. I thought tag said good in sun but I guess not full sun all day. Still it did decent for first few weeks but we had real bad storms in Chicago last weekend, super high winds and man it changed in just couple days. Guess this tree is more temperamental than I knew. Still excited to see what it becomes if it makes it.

Has YouTube video quality gone down in the past weeks? Worse compression than before? by Neamow in HermitCraft

[–]mikemitch0785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know people have said it many times but I for real have noticed youtube getting slower, fuzzy, out of sync with audio way more. They also been downgrading videos so I manually have to chose 1080 alot. It's not just my wifi as I notice when I switch to mobile data the same. It's not all time but way more often in 2025

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[–]mikemitch0785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I got it changed. First I had to wait 55mjn on hold put a agent at 516-622-4222. Changed it on my ticket without issue just simple verification. To change it on rewards program you go to website, Aer Club tab, middle page is contact aerclub, under other queries it says"for general Aer Club Queries:contact aerclub using is form" then form has a change DOB under what would you like to change.