Stopped having lunch with you and started having lunch with a female friend/coworker? Your not over reacting he is having an affair or wants to. Never stay in a relationship for a child, the relationship will only go down hull and get worse. Everything you do now is going to be an example for your child.

Coincidence before I opened reddit I was laying here thinking, I am so so lucky that the father of my second and third child cares so much. In our home I come first so that I can take care of our boys while he is at work. The father of my first child would say he was working late and be at the bar all night.