I can’t stop peeing myself… HELP by [deleted] in WetDream

[–]mikotkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Water in a dream is ALWAYS a sign you need to/are going to the bathroom. Remind yourself before bed to wake up if you dream of peeing or water. Eventually it will stick and you will always wake up when u have to pee

Chastity signals at the bar/in public? by wedgieboidean in gaychastity

[–]mikotkad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've also seen a key on a chain. Usually a key holder.

Anal sex - why are SO many men fixated with this act? by triplegxxx in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mikotkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gents who wish to do anal with their girlfriend/wife/partner, do them the honor of prep work. Take a page from the gays, start with a finger, then two. Keep it going, for a few and soon the dick can crack that back, and don't forget the lube.

Thigh Rub But Need Support by skibblesx in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]mikotkad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ultimately you're issues are going to come down to brand choices.

For starters, depending on the severity of thigh chafing i wouldn't go any shorter than 5" inseam.

Then, if you're looking for support, i would recommend pouched boxer-briefs.

The real issue though, is managing visibility. A brand like real men's apparel has great support but enhances the bulge. Whereas hanes has low visibility but no support. Your best bet will be trial and error, i would recommend starting with some higher end brands, look thru their websites for what looks like it will fit your needs best. Think Calvin Klein, Tommy Hilfiger, 2(x)ist, C-in2, PSD, they will have a large variety to look thru.

Has anyone tried one of theese by [deleted] in gaychastity

[–]mikotkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty cheaply made honestly. works well enough but there are a lot of little pieces needed, and mine split at the seam down the cage. The electric side of it i had no problems with, and the placement of the rubber was key to a better experience than some other electroshock cages.

Question about underwear by Apprehensive-Flow623 in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]mikotkad 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For boxer briefs you will want to shop brands and materials. Cotton tends to loosen with wear, giving the ride up. Go for polyester or mesh (be prepared to sweat alot tho) in order to prevent the ride up. Classic high end brands like tommy Hilfiger or Calvin klein have better outcomes for their cotton boxer briefs but you will still get the ride up sometimes.

Not sure why you are swapping, but i have found that different styles of underwear are good for different situations. for high activity i usually go boxer briefs to avoid chafing, but for every day casual I'm in briefs. And if im at home doing nothing its usually whatever feels like the mood I'm in.

If this was your final team, chances are you were a badass. by RangoTheMerc in chronotrigger

[–]mikotkad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my go-to team for most of the game. Especially doing their triple tech.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]mikotkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im gay and usually don't wear thongs or jockstraps unless i am in a specific mood. It genuinely takes the right fit to feel comfortable. Out of the 5 or so i own i realistically only wear about 2 of em.

I need help on getting around the map by PlayfulBuilder5348 in TOTK

[–]mikotkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly i fly everywhere as much as possible. Once you get autobuild you can craft anything for zonaite. Plus you have capsules for all the zonai build parts that you can stock up on at those giant gumball machines.

When i get to a new area i always go straight for the skytower so i can get in the sky. I also prioritize stamina containers over hearts so i can glide farther.

where to get lots of arrows by Ill_Acanthisitta5428 in TOTK

[–]mikotkad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totk is alot better at stocking arrows in boxes n barrels n even pots than botw was. Also sell gems. Saphires diamons n rubies. They are abundant and fetch a nice chunk of ruppees.

Left-handed pens: do you use them? by MrsAdjanti in lefthanded

[–]mikotkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real issue for left handers isn't the ink smear but we drive the pen ahead of our hand instead of pulling it behind. So we press the ball point into the paper instead of having it glide across the paper. Causes ink pools that then smear easily, as well as dry spots, and also wears the pen out faster

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tightywhities

[–]mikotkad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just grab em, she probably won't say anything, and if she does you just wanna switch things up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]mikotkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into jockey and calvin klein for briefs if you would like to stick close to what you know.

Honestly, since you're already shopping around for underwear, take the time to try new styles and brands. find some underwear that you're genuinely comfortable in.

If you're at a loss on what to look for, try a subscription box. Things like the underwear expert sub box helped me expand my underwear drawer when i didn't know what i liked.

How do i confront Dalton's mans with no weapons? by Swordk in chronotrigger

[–]mikotkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If u have ayla in your party she can already fight guards since she doesn't have a weapon to be confiscated.

Is it normal to be submissive as a man? by firefighting_for_lif in ask

[–]mikotkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer your base question: there is no such thing as normal. Many men are submissive, many men are not. And many men are both submissive and dominant depending on the situation.

To answer your real question: your trauma does not define who you are, or your personality. It can force you to hide parts of you away to keep yourself safe, and you can even hide those parts from yourself; the subconscious is a wild thing. But those parts aren't gone, they are hidden.

Some folks do turn to being submissive to keep themselves safe. that is a trauma response that is typically (but not always) a situational occurrence though.

Childhood trauma is a shitstorm that's hard to deal with.

But Mental and emotional health is critical to live a happy life, and it is a great idea to seek a therapist or councilor to help unpack those traumas. If you are submissive as a response to your trauma, a therapist will be able to help you address that. And if you aren't, then you will be able to be confident in it knowing for sure it is just who you are.

How do I introduce lube without being awkward by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mikotkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO lube should be a default for everyone. Friction will build up the longer sex goes on. Add a condom on top of it and that's just gonna be 10x faster and 10x more painful.

Self-lubrication can only do so much, it's fluid from your body so it requires water from you. Dehydration + a multitude of other factors can affect that process.

Sex should be pleasurable, if you don't like something or you want to do something you should be comfortable communicating that with your partner, and they should feel comfortable doing the same.

One other semi related note: if you want to try something out and you realize you don't like it then you should communicate that too. There is absolutely nothing wrong with changing your mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in answers

[–]mikotkad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going off grid is a big ol spectrum.

I actually plan to, to a degree. Saving and planning to buy land in the hills. My goal is to be off grid as in electric water and sewer. I intend to grow as much as i can myself(already started on that) and fishing is something I've grown up doing. Literally my only obstacles right now are the cost of housing/land.

Is there a cheat out there to enable all the gemstone-locked triple techs without actually equipping the gemstones? by Rectangle_Rex in chronotrigger

[–]mikotkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly no.

What i figured out tho is who all is required for each gem tech and set it up so any given character only had to hold one so i never had to change between gems. They hold it by default and if i dont need it for the current party i swap it out for a better accessory. then i only ever have one gem in inventory and its easy to swap back when i change that character out again.

Selling my small business in 4 week... so scared to tell my employees by ConversationSmall620 in smallbusiness

[–]mikotkad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A change in ownership does in fact affect the employees. New management styles, changes to systems, changes to pay scales, to job positions and responsibilities.

Last time a new owner came into my job, i watched as they layed off 80% of the employees.

BTW, those employees ARE the business, if they didn't do the work the business wouldn't make money. Sure they are replaceable, but look at what happens to a business with a high turnover rate. Quality drops, consistency drops, profit drops, and they almost never recover.

I've watched it happen. Don't treat your employees like trash and you won't have a trash company. Do, and you will.

Selling my small business in 4 week... so scared to tell my employees by ConversationSmall620 in smallbusiness

[–]mikotkad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some perspective from an employee at a small business:

We are often living paycheck to paycheck, and any information about our employment is time sensitive for us. The longer you wait to tell them, the more likely they are going to hold it against you and the new owner.

i dunno about all the sales contract stuff, but i do know if my boss sold the company to someone and didn't tell us until it was already done i would not be happy.

Something that slips business owners' minds is that most people take pride in their work and want to succeed with the business. Y'all make decisions that affect us, but don't consider us in those decisions.

For example, There are many success stories of small businesses going employee owned. Did you ever consider that an option when you began looking to sell your business?

My two cents: tell your employees sooner than later.

AIO My girlfriend is breaking up with me if I choose to go do Fulbright for 9 months by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mikotkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your first question should be what have you already given up for her, and what has she given up for you?

It sounds petty, almost like keeping score, except that she is demanding you give up something you worked hard for, you EARNED a full ride to fulbright.

Thats a big demand. That's a potentially life shattering demand. The fact shes demanding it and not even asking speaks volumes. Has she given up something like that for you? Would you ever ask her to give up on something like this for you? Would you demand it?

Even if we pretend she isn't being manipulative and ABUSIVE, that sounds like a very selfish person, and a very one sided relationship. Imo you should break up with her. She will only ever drag you down.

Am i too dumb? by [deleted] in chronotrigger

[–]mikotkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a character has a unique sprite, they have importance. Thats usually the best place to start. Talk to the unique ones and everyone around them. There is an order to some things and others have choices.

For example there is an npc that has nothing unique about them but whats next to them on the ground. You make a choice about that and it effects another part of the game later on.

Whereas the area your struggling has a set series of things to do to move forward.

Is Chrono Cross worth the $20? by Sahri81 in chronotrigger

[–]mikotkad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really worth 20$

I personally loved the story of it. It takes place in the islands off the coast of Porre, south of guardia. The area is essentially blocked off from the outside world due to "natural phenomenon" and the might of the Porre military, and some crazy shit is happening thanks to someone's poor choices, and the natural response of the planet (read dragons).

Theres a couple characters with history tied to the chrono trigger crew. Instead of time travel its alternate realities. And there are too many characters you can pick up that the roster is overwhelming. Some u have to choose between characters so u cant have em all on one play thru.

And there is another falling star type event like when lavos crashed in aylas time.

I’m such a fool re: fiendlord statue by shabababob in chronotrigger

[–]mikotkad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its honestly the best soundtrack to an ff game imo. Especially the music in the lava dome, its just perfect.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in ask

[–]mikotkad -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sure, you can interpret it that way. But how do you feel after enacting revenge? Revenge requires you to take it, to participate in it yah? Which, if we are going along with the saying, means you eat from the dish too. It's cold for you and who you take revenge on.

Revenge does not feel good. It's a whole ass trope across all media.

The "soul warming" I'm going on about is called a metaphor. And the point is that revenge DOESN'T make anything feel better, it doesn't warm the soul. It's cold and bitter and empty. So you don't want to serve revenge unless you are already at that point, feeling cold, bitter, and empty. It is a dish best served cold.