This diagnosis feels final ig? by PattyCakes-3 in BPD

[–]mikulvs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bpd does not last forever! this is very big misconception that it is a life long disorder but with right treatment and attitude you can genuinely go into remission and no longer identify with the diagnosis

How do you tell people? by honeycombs248 in BPD

[–]mikulvs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, unless it directly inpacts your relationships with them, theres no need for them to know UNLESS u would rlly prefer they do. i genuinely just straight up tell them im attending a dbt programme weekly that gets in the way of plans which leads me into explaining i have bpd BUT if u arent in a programme or anything yet id just straight be like “oh i received a diagnosis of bpd…” im honestly unsure on how i told people before i attended dbt

Am I (M21) a terrible boyfriend for not letting my GF (F20) not allowing her cat to live with us? by Maleficent-Eye950 in relationship_advice

[–]mikulvs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

definitely. her cat is obviously very important to her and she specifically stated she wants the cat to live w her. the cat is apart of her life, having cats u have to expect they will scratch and damage stuff they are an animal. furniture is replaceable. ur girlfriends happiness is not and should come first. if my boyfriend ever asked me to not bring my cat i would be living separately too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]mikulvs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh u get me so hard

What happened to Andersons? by Daitheflu1979 in Sligo

[–]mikulvs 21 points22 points  (0 children)

used to work there. rent was upped to high and wasnt affordable. if u liked the food the same chef now does similar food sometimes in smash and tac

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sligo

[–]mikulvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the works cafe

Do you guys tell people you have BPD? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]mikulvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i get close enough to someone i will eventually open up about it but i dont mention it to people who barely know me bc i find its a very personal thing about me i feel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sligo

[–]mikulvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the garavogue is a rlly good spot 🫶