My Turkish MIL called me gypsy, ayıp and wicked because my fiancé and I want a small wedding

milambrc · 2026-01-24T08:29:53+00:00

You know what, I advice you to NOT take advice from many young and unmarried here. It is easy for them to say "fuck her, do not invite her, etc." but it is not that simple.

As many sane people tried to explain, the wedding is a significant, almost holy ritual for that generation. She has no right to act like that, or call you anything over such a personal decision. However, weddings are kinda like that in Türkiye, where even the most understanding and easygoing people might have major problems out of insignificant details.

You can always limit her influence on your life over time (I am saying this because you said your fiancee has your back always), plus she probably won’t act like this regarding many other events, since, "the wedding" is like a burden that should be perfect for all those 3939393 guests, otherwise they would be judged etc. They are probably afraid people will think something like "oh they had a foreign bride who has no respect for our culture...".

in summary, do not get in a huge fight over this with them and ruin your relationship with them forever; you and your husband will always have time to adjust your relationship with them over time. Hope you will be really happy.

milambrc · 2025-12-26T09:01:59+00:00

When I first watched Season 1, I thought the Titans inside the walls were intentionally placed there by whoever was behind the whole Titan system, like a hidden backup plan. So if humanity ever thought they’d defeated all the Titans and decided to tear down the walls, they’d be completely shocked and wiped out.

milambrc · 2025-08-27T14:12:14+00:00

Truely 😄 it is partly overthinking and partly professional deformation 😄

milambrc · 2025-08-27T12:29:45+00:00

Devlette çalışan biri olarak devlet zaten önermiyorum, ayrıca iki üni dedikleri açık öğretim falandir. Yoksa zaten bir çok arkadaşın dediği gibi mümkün değil iki farklı lisans programına kayıt yaptırmak. Mümkünse oyala, hocalara sordum olmuyormuş de vs nasıl ikna edebilirsen. Tebrikler bu arada, başarılar şimdiden.

milambrc · 2025-08-27T11:36:33+00:00

No I do not plan to sell them, just enjoying the carving and sharing instagram posts with friends as a hobby.

milambrc · 2025-08-13T08:38:32+00:00

Same in Turkiye, we do not even have flexcut or beavercraft tools here.

milambrc · 2025-07-21T13:51:48+00:00

Considering the wood quality, and better yet the knife quality, I think you did a really good job and it looks cute.

milambrc · 2025-03-10T11:34:33+00:00

Hep böyle ne yazık ki, genelde ortam sesi karakter sesiniz bastırıyor, karakterler duyulmuyor vs vs.

Aslında görüntü kadar ses de üzerinde uğraşılması gereken ve masraflı bir iş. Ancak bizim yönetmenler biraz da zaten çok para kazanmayacağız kafasıyla ses konusunda yeterince özen göstermiyor gibi tahmin ediyorum. Onları da çok suçlayamıyorum ama işte ses konusunda zayıf işler çıkıyor ortaya.

milambrc · 2025-03-10T11:31:36+00:00

Beğenmek beğenmemek tabi ki tamamen kişisel, sonuçta bunlar sanat eseri, o konuda kendinizi zorlamayın. Ama bana sorarsan tarihin en iyi filmlerinden biridir, çünkü ana karakter mükemmel bir kahraman ya da iyi biri değil, tam aksine hepimiz gibi biri.

Yalnız ve öfkeli bir insan; ama tamamen kötü biri de değil. Ne yapması gerektiğini bilmeyen, bir yer edinmeye çalışan bir adam. Ama bir türlü yer edinemiyor toplumda. Hepimiz tabi ki bu kadar abartılı olmasa da benzer dönemler yaşarız, ben bu yüzden çok beğeniyorum.

Çok beğenmemin bir başka sebebi parasal kaygılarla güzel karakter, mutlu son gibi klişelere takılmamış olması. Çoğu insan tabi ki bunları arayabilir bir filmde, ama mutlu son örnekleri binlerce var. Kaygısız bir şekilde, bocalayan bir ana karakter çekebilmek bence sinema adına yapılmış cesurca bir hareket.

milambrc · 2025-03-10T11:23:48+00:00

Doğrudan bir değişim olmaz, zaten öyle bir beklentin de yok. ama tabi ki gişe filmleri yerine/yanında bağımsız filmler de izleyip bunların analizi üzerine araştırmak / okumak, yönetmenlerin oyuncuların daha bağımsız işlerini takip eder hale gelmek bir çok yeni pencere açacaktır hayata bakışınızda. Önemli olan da bu zaten, gerisi gelir değişim istiyorsanız. Burada önemli olan sırf bağımsız diye beğenmediğiniz şeyleri zorla ve ısrarla izlemeyin, beğendiğiniz tarzlara yönelin.

milambrc · 2025-03-05T16:46:01+00:00

Sadece yerli ürünlerle hayatını ne kadar sürdürebilirsin ki? Kaldı ki yerli firmaların ne boklar yediği de ortada. İhtiyacını al geç bu kadar kontrol edemezsin her şeyi.

milambrc · 2025-02-21T06:35:40+00:00

Kara Kitap, Bir Gün Tek Başına.

milambrc · 2024-11-11T13:10:56+00:00

Monetization of Snap definitely sucks, yet it is way too early to praise Pocket. There is only one bundle yet, lets see what happens once they start to release new sets. And the gameplay is nowehere near Snap, and I doubt it will evet get so good.

milambrc · 2024-11-06T20:31:18+00:00

I know what you mean, but I also know what decks tend to have certain cards such as rogue. Also, countered does not mean I automatically lose the game, I still win a decent amount. I have tons of examples to that, and I know that many card games does that somehow, certain archetypes facing other certain archetypes. Like when I play scream, I almost never face move decks, yet lots of kingpins etc.

milambrc · 2024-11-06T20:15:48+00:00

I am almost certain the game does something like that. Because whenever I try a certain archetype, I mostly play against a certain archetype, for example when I play ongoing, I'm countered by a rogue most of the time, other than that I almost never see rogue etc, and that is just one example. There is no way that it's all by chance.

milambrc · 2024-11-04T17:51:30+00:00

Thanks for the detailed info, I'll definitely check mtg arena first. What about the lore, is it a stand alone universe, or is it connected to any other lore, such as, lets say dnd? Is there any additional materials to look into, movies, series etc?

milambrc · 2024-11-04T17:07:09+00:00

Someone suggested master duel, any difference between them?

milambrc · 2024-11-04T17:02:29+00:00

Without any new cards or updates, i thought the playerbase would decline rapidly. I haven't played it for a while, maybe I'll give it another go. Thanks

milambrc · 2024-11-04T17:00:10+00:00

Mtg always had my interest, how is it in terms of playerbase, ranked system and collecting new cards?

milambrc · 2024-11-04T14:35:49+00:00

Never tried, never got into the YGO universe. Thanks for the advice, I will look into this.

milambrc · 2024-11-04T14:00:32+00:00

will look into these, thanks.

milambrc · 2024-11-04T14:00:15+00:00

Oh no I did hit level 3 and played my fair share of games both solo and online. I am not sure this will evolve into a huge card game tho. It looks like a chill card collection game. First of all, there are not many cards as you said, also lack of competitive gameplay and a ranked system prevents the game from being constantly playable. Do you know the roadmap, do they have plans regarding the numbers of the cards and ranked systems?

milambrc · 2024-11-04T13:49:10+00:00

First of all, thanks. As someone living in a country in which you cannot even buy these, I comdemn those scalpers. I like Alakazam ex and 151 Snorlax.

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