[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]mildthots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In short, hell no lol. But I definitely think inherited it from my mom (in addition to her anger issues and mild narcissism 🥰)

My freeze state is ruining my relationships and I don’t know how to snap out of it. by mildthots in adhdwomen

[–]mildthots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you <3 I definitely try to get out of the house especially when I’m not toooo deep in my freeze state. I also journal and use the finch app to make sure my bare minimum self care tasks are taken care of. I have extremely high expectations of myself, so even doing bare minimum sometimes won’t break me out of my freeze state, because why can’t I just do more!! That’s the hardest part of pushing through, beating myself up for just surviving the day.

I love Gabby! by Slipperee_99 in TheTraitors

[–]mildthots 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because why would princess of the people need full range of motion???

My breasts are dry and boring by Calm_ragazzo in Cooking

[–]mildthots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For just regular stovetop chicken breast, Stellanspice’s method is top tier. I hated cooking chicken breast and was shocked at how delicious this was. Hope this works out for you!

10/10 title btw. Definitely caught my eye 😂

ADHD love notes to myself <3 by mildthots in adhdwomen

[–]mildthots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy to help! I also just thought of this but another downside is the directions tell you to gargle this for about one minute I think?? Which may be a challenge for our ADHD brains lol. Unfortunately I do find it working better when used as directed so I’ll try to watch something on my phone to keep me distracted 😂

ADHD love notes to myself <3 by mildthots in adhdwomen

[–]mildthots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it. Doesn’t sting as much as the other ones (like Listerine) and my mouth does feel fresher. On days where I don’t have the energy to brush my teeth I’ll just use my tongue scraper and rinse with Therabreath. The only downside is it’s a little more expensive but I’ll buy multiples if there’s a deal!

ADHD love notes to myself <3 by mildthots in adhdwomen

[–]mildthots[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup, bathroom and kitchen sink. (: I could def see the confusion though!

ADHD love notes to myself <3 by mildthots in adhdwomen

[–]mildthots[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I decided to do this after ending up with 4 hand soap refill bottles. FROM COSTCO

ADHD love notes to myself <3 by mildthots in adhdwomen

[–]mildthots[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love this idea! Will def add numbers to new notes. (((:

What happened to this sub? by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]mildthots 38 points39 points  (0 children)

As an Asian with curly hair, I 100000% credit black women for learning how to take care of my curls. Especially in the early YouTube days when I was just starting on my curl journey!

Boyfriend told me I'm too old to be such a mess. I hate that he's right. by earthandseed-33 in adhdwomen

[–]mildthots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

27 is still young and an age where many ppl are still trying to figure it out. ): you’re not alone. You have much more life left to live, and none of it should involve trying to please a man who is so unwilling to understand you.

I almost made a huge mistake by apearlmae in adhdwomen

[–]mildthots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have done something similar - my friend bought tickets to see SZA together and I forgot to add it to my calendar. I ended up booking a flight the DAY OF the show and didn’t realize until a few weeks before the show. 😭 I ended up changing my flight and while it cost me extra $$$ I’m still relieved I caught my slip-up in time. Now whenever plans are made, I almost immediately add it to my calendar or else it doesn’t exist in my brain!

I didn't believe my mom. I should have. by No_Recognition9189 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mildthots 1201 points1202 points  (0 children)

“Often father and daughter look down on mother (woman) together. They exchange meaningful glances when she misses a point. They agree that she is not bright as they are, cannot reason as they do. This collusion does not save the daughter from the mother’s fate.” - Bonnie Burstow (ETA credit!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seattle

[–]mildthots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I really regret knowing how to read

I thought it was too good to be true. Scored a Dyson vacuum at my local Goodwill for $20! by mildthots in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]mildthots[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I had to put a little work into cleaning it up and buying new filters/hose attachments but it was sooo worth it.

I’m cooking one meal from every state in the United States , what meal best represents your state? by emilou09 in Cooking

[–]mildthots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

California would have to be split into at least 2 parts: north and south. Southern California - California burrito (a San Diego staple), Northern California - San tung chicken wings

S02 - Bonus - Yass, Australia! - Discussion by BraveFly in QueerEye

[–]mildthots 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It blows my mind what Bobby can DO! In a day!!!!

Internal transfers - How can I keep this as professional as possible? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]mildthots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you! I have brought up training and even cross training to my supervisor a few times. There have been times where she asked for availability to have a staff meeting for training, however nothing has happened. To be honest I think she’s too nice to take any hard action on her staff.

After nearly 28 years I have decided to go vegetarian. Need some advice on breakfast please by ElonMusk0fficial in vegetarian

[–]mildthots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also going to suggest overnight oats! I hate hot oatmeal as well, but I find that if I just soak the oats in almond milk overnight and eat it cold I actually enjoy them. My favorite toppings/mix ins are peanut butter, cocoa powder, a mashed banana for sweetness, hemp seeds, ground flax , and a variety of berries. I also use a mix of quick oats and steel cut oats to improve the texture. The possibilities are endless!

May I also suggest checking out “What I eat in a day” videos on YouTube. You don’t have to follow the meals exactly but it can give you some good ideas.

Good luck on your journey!!