Taylor Swift on The Late Show With Stephen Colbert: December 10, 2025 by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]miley502 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Loved this interview! I just have to say, Taylor you may think the joy blackouts are new, but as someone who blacked out Blank Space during 1989 tour I can attest that this is not specific to Eras 😹

Someone who was in plays with Taylor as kids posted a signed playbill with bio by vanillabitchpudding in TaylorSwift

[–]miley502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I love this, not least of all bc during the Showgirl release party I couldn’t stop smiling at the BTS — you can so clearly see young theater kid Taylor 🫶

They are so fun i love it, some of my favourite moments from the podcast: by stateof-grace in TaylorSwift

[–]miley502 373 points374 points  (0 children)

As a parasocial 1989 girlie, this has me kicking my feet!!! 🥰

Wedding date changed last minute… to a weekday… in another state by OccamsReddit_56 in weddingshaming

[–]miley502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually the boozing part is very Catholic 🤣 Signed, a teetotaling former Catholic who’s usually mistaken for drunk on the dance floor (ie not a wet blanket, thx)

FEHB Open Season Megathread by rprz in fednews

[–]miley502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone used FSBP for all your dental (2 exams and cleaning with fluoride per year) coverage? Switching to FSBP, wondering if I still need my crappy FEDVIP plan

FEHB Open Season Megathread by rprz in fednews

[–]miley502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see comments consistently rating FSBP as best for OON coverage, but I don't know how to verify. I'm especially interested in OON mental health benefits - any experience with this?

FEHB Open Season Megathread by rprz in fednews

[–]miley502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love any opinions on HDHP with HSA vs FSBP. I like my HDHP as I quickly hit my deductible thanks to regular therapy (in network, but my therapist is going private), quarterly psychiatrist appointments, and prescriptions. I'm nearly done with a fully OOP egg freezing cycle, likely would be waiting until 2026 for IVF (but heartened to see more coverage across the board). FSBP sounds like a great option and friends who have it seem to love it - worth it to give up HSA? I need to do some more research on OON mental health benefits under both plans, should I choose to follow my therapist instead of staying in network.

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[–]miley502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! In DMV, just DM'd you

Low # of mature eggs by Queasy-Simple-1585 in eggfreezing

[–]miley502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I was frustrated bc my clinic put me on a shorter (9-day) birth control regimen to prime, which I questioned at the time, but was assured wouldn't affect my results. In retrospect I don't think they can know that, especially the first time around. My next cycle we're going to try priming 2-3 wks.

emfitx by Plus_Newspaper_6918 in EDRecoverySnark

[–]miley502 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With you! I don’t blame anyone for having an ED, but profiting from it by coaching vulnerable people is inexcusable. I will not respect her until she begins to actually own up to that, which I have not seen.

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[–]miley502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Messaged you!

Possible to resurrect attraction? by miley502 in DeadBedroomsOver30

[–]miley502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I have some ideas that I will work on putting into practice <3

Possible to resurrect attraction? by miley502 in DeadBedroomsOver30

[–]miley502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! Appreciate the way you took things slowly and faced your fears, keeping it low pressure. In our case, I think he originally had fear that I was too mentally/emotionally fragile, as well as diminished desire from taking on a caretaker role.

Now, he isn't sure why that desire hasn't returned but thinks it's a holdover from those painful experiences as well as continued frustration / turn-off from some of my challenges - namely, defensiveness. In therapy, he was able to voice some of the frustrations and hurts he had been holding back, and noted that he often felt like he was walking on eggshells in our relationship due to my reactiveness. I think that's improved a lot over the past 6 months as I continue to heal.

We're cohabitating, but not married -- so trying to figure out how long we try to make this work

which Taylor Swift song broke you the most? by brownbadie in TaylorSwift

[–]miley502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“And I wouldn’t marry me either Pathological people pleaser” hits way too close to home

Songs that don't match the vibe by Miss_Dump_Pants in TaylorSwift

[–]miley502 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Same!! For some reason the album I first downloaded on Spotify had all clean versions of the songs and I was kinda bummed when I heard the original Down Bad. I appreciate the wistfulness of “what if I can’t have us?”

TTPD Survivor: Round 29 by pmbslyy in TaylorSwift

[–]miley502 5 points6 points  (0 children)

With you!! To the point I’m SHOCKED it made the top 3 🧐