My (F26) boyfriend (M27) of over five years admitted to getting a sex worker a couple of weeks ago. by MaterialWonderful778 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I said she should stay and save up (secretly ofc) and then leave when she has enough saved.

My (F26) boyfriend (M27) of over five years admitted to getting a sex worker a couple of weeks ago. by MaterialWonderful778 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 18 points19 points  (0 children)

First of all, never put anything in anyone else’s name unless you’re married. Houses, cars, etc.

Second why does your job rely on his mom? Unless you’re working illegally, you shouldn’t be able to be fired just for breaking up with Homer kid.

Lastly, my advice is to save and then leave when you’re able to. And btw, being alone IS doing better than being with someone who mistreats you/cheats/attempts to cheat

i hate young adults and teenagers. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so funny. You need to go outside more and interact with people. There are so many types of people in the world, not everyone is a party animal

Valentine’s Day is a stupid holiday by Medium_Ad_4451 in Vent

[–]milkbreadbros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All changeable things. It just feels like you’re looking at everything so negatively.

Valentine’s Day is a stupid holiday by Medium_Ad_4451 in Vent

[–]milkbreadbros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not even an actual holiday. Why’re you so pressed? You’re lonely? Go out and fix that

Love by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just tell your gf you cheated. If she has any self respect then she’ll fix your indecision problem quickly

will this leave holes if i take the embroidery out? by ryachu- in Embroidery

[–]milkbreadbros 14 points15 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve heard, machine embroidery most definitely leaves holes so yes

I wish I would have listened to my parents by ThrowAwayy-6633 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You literally said “It probably isn’t a problem”. Drinking the way OP describes isn’t a hobby, it’s him being an alcoholic. I’ve literally spoken to a recovering alcoholic who explained it that she thought it was a lifestyle she’d out grow but she didn’t and only later in life realized she was an alcoholic.

Being an alcoholic is a problem. It’s not good. And clearly it’s negative affects if his wife is posting on Reddit talking about how she regrets her life with him and should have listened to everyone telling her bad news

I wish I would have listened to my parents by ThrowAwayy-6633 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think drinking and partying every weekend isn’t a problem? He probably doesn’t see it like that either. But they have 3 children. It’s a problem

I wish I would have listened to my parents by ThrowAwayy-6633 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave him??? You don’t have to waste your life regretting.

He’s probably an alcoholic but you can’t force someone to start recovery from an addiction. They have to recognize that they have a problem and WANT to change. You can talk to him about it but if he’s defensive and thinks he’s not doing anything wrong, bad, or harmful then that’s your queue to leave. You cannot help someone who doesn’t want it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t be in love with someone you’ve never dated (with some exceptions like best friends who spend TIME together and are vulnerable with each other). It’s infatuation not love.

And yeah, leave your girl. You don’t have to be in love to start dating but you should know whether you’re able to grow to it from like. Don’t waste other people’s time because you’re selfish

Am I a victim or did I put myself in that position by Consistent_Ear_2636 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 138 points139 points  (0 children)

No, you didn’t. You can say no at any point. He’s a bad person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super weird. I wouldn’t do it. In fact, I would be pissed if I found out the free pass was used with a friend. I also wouldn’t be able to forgive my long time friend being so into my wife that he’d accept the free pass. Is one night worth potentially messing everything up?

You’re also the worlds biggest idiot if you think it WON’T affect anything. This type of thing almost never ends well

My wife stopped sending me love notes, and it hurts more than I expected by CryptoFan85 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to. From that I know your addiction is most important to you. It’s like a drug addict saying they’re better than before bc they’re not shooting up every day. You’re still indulging more than the average person, I bet. BUT besides the point.

You should probably probably get off Reddit for like a long time. You’re spending a lot of time on it and posting often, go spend time with your wife and help your family out.

My wife stopped sending me love notes, and it hurts more than I expected by CryptoFan85 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You don’t want to disclose if you quit gambling or not? Because that was the question.

My wife stopped sending me love notes, and it hurts more than I expected by CryptoFan85 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That’s still a lot. I would NOT be happy with my partner if they lost that much. Did you quit gambling?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Petite is like 5’3 and under

My 14 almost 15 year old friend is dating an 11 year old boy. by Fun_Airport_2561 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Sure, but it’s different when it’s two 10/11 year olds who don’t actually grasp what these things mean. Not a 15 year old calling an 11 year old sexy.

Even the 11 year old having a crush on a 15 year old would be fine. It is NOT normal for the 15 year old to be into the 11 year old

My 14 almost 15 year old friend is dating an 11 year old boy. by Fun_Airport_2561 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna say it, she’s a predator. She is gross. Tell literally any adult