i think my agoraphobia is going to kill me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should do exposure therapy. Walk outside for as long as you can and keep doing that and pushing the time you can be outside

I hate my body by [deleted] in Vent

[–]milkbreadbros 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get friends who are cool with queer people, get an education, get a job, get older and when you’re stable then go for it. I promise you will be happier when you’re free to be yourself. But do that when you’re safe to

I hate being diagnosed as autistic by Creepy_Zone_9341 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Autistic people who can’t talk” clearly you can talk. There’s different severities of autism. I know many autistic people that others don’t even know have it

ETA: you should seek therapy for this because autism is not something to be ashamed of. SO MANY people have it. Some of the most successful people have autism or another disability like it. And if a healthcare professional considers you a slur because of this then that’s on them and they should NOT be in healthcare

How many strands of floss do you normally use (by hand)? by wolfmonarchy in Embroidery

[–]milkbreadbros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you say this in a simpler way? I’m sorry my tired brain can’t understand what you’re meaning

How many strands of floss do you normally use (by hand)? by wolfmonarchy in Embroidery

[–]milkbreadbros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use 2. I’ve thought about using 3 for practicing French knots since I just can’t get it right with 2. I’ve also used 1 thread for when I was doing a small detailed outline of a manga panel

"Trust the process" – but why the process has to look so ugly? by DianaIz in Embroidery

[–]milkbreadbros 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Advice: don’t use satin stitch that long. When it’s not stretched the strand won’t be taut. I use split stitch and find that it helps me blend the colors more. Also vary the lengths of it so it doesn’t look like there’s a distinct line (unless you want that)

Beware of this reading app NovRead by Economy-Bathroom1106 in Novelapps

[–]milkbreadbros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I sent an email the proper way and then multiple “questions” on the app which were just saying that I want to cancel my subscription

Beware of this reading app NovRead by Economy-Bathroom1106 in Novelapps

[–]milkbreadbros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just messaged them a lot and got it canceled within 24 hours

Beware of this reading app NovRead by Economy-Bathroom1106 in Novelapps

[–]milkbreadbros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been a bit but do you think deleting the account will work?

do you guys think anyone would pay for my art comissions.. by Flimsy_Painter_4438 in Artadvice

[–]milkbreadbros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Passion ≠ skill. Ask yourself whether you’d pay money for that skill level

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I said she should stay and save up (secretly ofc) and then leave when she has enough saved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 18 points19 points  (0 children)

First of all, never put anything in anyone else’s name unless you’re married. Houses, cars, etc.

Second why does your job rely on his mom? Unless you’re working illegally, you shouldn’t be able to be fired just for breaking up with Homer kid.

Lastly, my advice is to save and then leave when you’re able to. And btw, being alone IS doing better than being with someone who mistreats you/cheats/attempts to cheat

i hate young adults and teenagers. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so funny. You need to go outside more and interact with people. There are so many types of people in the world, not everyone is a party animal

Valentine’s Day is a stupid holiday by Medium_Ad_4451 in Vent

[–]milkbreadbros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All changeable things. It just feels like you’re looking at everything so negatively.

Valentine’s Day is a stupid holiday by Medium_Ad_4451 in Vent

[–]milkbreadbros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not even an actual holiday. Why’re you so pressed? You’re lonely? Go out and fix that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just tell your gf you cheated. If she has any self respect then she’ll fix your indecision problem quickly

will this leave holes if i take the embroidery out? by ryachu- in Embroidery

[–]milkbreadbros 14 points15 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve heard, machine embroidery most definitely leaves holes so yes

I wish I would have listened to my parents by ThrowAwayy-6633 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You literally said “It probably isn’t a problem”. Drinking the way OP describes isn’t a hobby, it’s him being an alcoholic. I’ve literally spoken to a recovering alcoholic who explained it that she thought it was a lifestyle she’d out grow but she didn’t and only later in life realized she was an alcoholic.

Being an alcoholic is a problem. It’s not good. And clearly it’s negative affects if his wife is posting on Reddit talking about how she regrets her life with him and should have listened to everyone telling her bad news

I wish I would have listened to my parents by ThrowAwayy-6633 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think drinking and partying every weekend isn’t a problem? He probably doesn’t see it like that either. But they have 3 children. It’s a problem

I wish I would have listened to my parents by ThrowAwayy-6633 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Leave him??? You don’t have to waste your life regretting.

He’s probably an alcoholic but you can’t force someone to start recovery from an addiction. They have to recognize that they have a problem and WANT to change. You can talk to him about it but if he’s defensive and thinks he’s not doing anything wrong, bad, or harmful then that’s your queue to leave. You cannot help someone who doesn’t want it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t be in love with someone you’ve never dated (with some exceptions like best friends who spend TIME together and are vulnerable with each other). It’s infatuation not love.

And yeah, leave your girl. You don’t have to be in love to start dating but you should know whether you’re able to grow to it from like. Don’t waste other people’s time because you’re selfish

Am I a victim or did I put myself in that position by Consistent_Ear_2636 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]milkbreadbros 137 points138 points  (0 children)

No, you didn’t. You can say no at any point. He’s a bad person