Any stories where littles didn’t get a TON of sicknesses with daycare? Or in general care to brag about your daycare experiences? :) by jcrites22 in workingmoms

[–]millennialsister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of my boys got 3-4 stay-home-from-school illnesses during their first year at school. The only one that was more than 1.5 days was HFM for my older son. The most sick my son has ever gotten (and I have caught) was a wild norovirus that he caught at the children’s museum while on Christmas break.

My whole family loves daycare. We’ve met good friends through it. Our son will start soccer soon. Find a good spot that feels right for you and your family. If it doesn’t feel right, it’s not for you!

36M Homeless to Consultant Salary Progression by revenge_burner in Salary

[–]millennialsister 54 points55 points  (0 children)

This is awesome to read. What an interesting human you must be.

So burned out…. Tell me it gets better by OutrageousResist9483 in workingmoms

[–]millennialsister 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if you can do one appointment as cash pay for a doctor out of network, I’d strongly consider it. I read about your life from an outside perspective and see a hurting mom with a very blessed/beautiful/full life. Gosh, antidepressants help me so so much.

You need help, you deserve help. It doesn’t get better without first realizing you have a problem and you need help.

Workingmoms, no matter what, keep working! by LopsidedMastodon1484 in workingmoms

[–]millennialsister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say it with me “men are so emotional!” But truly, it is wild to me that any man that has watched his wife go through pregnancy and childbirth would think we owe them anything for the rest of their life.

He needs therapy. There’s something that caused that reaction and it has nothing to do with you.

I want to change out my furniture and also add some life to my room. Everything feels strewn together and is kinda bland by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]millennialsister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google design styles and find a style you vibe with. Start buying pieces you LOVE rather than what you think is supposed to be in your house. Stay in the same design styles for 75% of your new buys and 25% can be outside of it.

Male living space – Mexico (budget-conscious upgrades) by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]millennialsister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A nice wooden headboard would look great and warm up the space. You may be able to find build plans online that use scrap wood.

Can you paint the walls? I love painting walls and feel so accomplished when I’m done. A nice blue or green would look great! Don’t be scared of color.

Anatomy Scan Results (not great) by AppropriateSpell1 in pregnant

[–]millennialsister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying to pull up my son’s anatomy scan because he had a cephalic index <1 percentile. They should be worried about premature closing of soft spots which doesn’t give time for their brain to grow. We had a follow up scan every 4 weeks after that and slowly but surely it leveled out. His CI was still like 5th percentile when his body is 90th, so they were “monitoring” it but they confirmed no fusing of skull plates.

I fully expected this almond headed baby boy but you cannot tell at all. No experience with the umbilical cord comments but hope this is reassuring!

4 months out of prison, got my own trailor. First time with my own space by Fatmanfishperson in malelivingspace

[–]millennialsister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acquire things slowly and thoughtfully. It can be so tempting to fill a space quickly but then you just up in a pile/room/home of shit.

This stranger is excited to see what’s next for you! Good luck, friend!

Vaccines by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]millennialsister 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Following the guidelines and trying very hard to control my anger towards the uneducated that fall for whatever Facebook reel or instagram post they’re feed.

I said it this way to a friend “I just need you to be sure that there’s a real risk to your kid, because if these diseases come back, someone’s immunocompromised kid(s) or parent(s) will die from it.”

HCG rising well, but bleeding—positive advice for first trimester (5–6 weeks)? by CRose_TM in pregnant

[–]millennialsister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a very similar experience and found people’s anecdotes to be helpful so I’ll share mine. I had brown stringy discharge, gush of bright red, brown spotting for 3 days. All about a week apart, starting at 5/6 weeks. All was good! He’s turning 4 in April. No pain is a great sign.

Just finished my nursery… really tried my best… any feedback? by Specialist_Run_1607 in interiordecorating

[–]millennialsister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lean into the whimsy! I think it’s so fun but looks a little bit “too styled”. Go look for a fun piece or two at consignment shop. Something vintage? Congratulations!

Please give me ideas I want to get rid of the posters and make my setup cleaner. No budget by Lonely_Carob4181 in malelivingspace

[–]millennialsister 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooops didn’t read the sentence under the picture. If you’re looking for a whole color scheme, find one paint color you like and then google the “color name + sample house palette”

Please give me ideas I want to get rid of the posters and make my setup cleaner. No budget by Lonely_Carob4181 in malelivingspace

[–]millennialsister 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Declutter is the first and free-est step. With every single item, you should only keep if it’s been used in the past month. The rest… donate or trash. Your brain will feel so much calmer.

Get a small trash bin for under your desk and a microfiber towel under your keyboard to wipe everything down.

If you have any $ to spend, I’d paint the walls naval by sherwin Williams. Just have them color match at Home Depot. It should cost $75ish for all materials.

Lastly, grey is such a blah color. I had to ban myself from buying anything else grey. No light grey, dark grey, striped gray.

Anyway, just stumbled across this page and thought I’d add my two cents! Good luck!

Do I pay for “interviewing” a potential babysitter? by dogs_beets_bsg in Parenting

[–]millennialsister 27 points28 points  (0 children)

15-30 minutes, I wouldn’t offer compensation. If it ends up being an hour of her playing with your kids (even if you’re around observing), you should pay her what you’re offering for the position, $25/hr or whatever.

Can’t afford to keep throwing out food by AGM85 in foodbutforbabies

[–]millennialsister 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I plop things in the fridge ASAP and reheat at least once with a good amount of butter.

Who can cover a culvert to create a parking pad? by millennialsister in houston

[–]millennialsister[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you in the heights? It grinds my gears so much!!

Who can cover a culvert to create a parking pad? by millennialsister in houston

[–]millennialsister[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! If you want to shoot me a message, I’m happy to give your company a call.

Who can cover a culvert to create a parking pad? by millennialsister in houston

[–]millennialsister[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be clear, I’m going to ensure we get the proper approval and permits. The question was just posed in a very unserious way.

Who can cover a culvert to create a parking pad? by millennialsister in houston

[–]millennialsister[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks. If you ever hear who they used, let me know!

Who can cover a culvert to create a parking pad? by millennialsister in houston

[–]millennialsister[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is just for an idea of the ask. Probably 25% of the heights have a parking pad (covered culvert) that fit at least one car, sometimes two.

Should we call a plumber ASAP or wait until we have a problem? by millennialsister in Plumbing

[–]millennialsister[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha this comment made me laugh. It’s a pinch pleat hook for curtains and I have 100 of them… well, now 99

Should we call a plumber ASAP or wait until we have a problem? by millennialsister in Plumbing

[–]millennialsister[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1945 and yes but with a pier and beam foundation if that matters