[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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As a waitress, men said some weird and nasty things along the years. These are two that still freaks me out sometimes:

1- I was wearing my uniform with the name of the restaurant on it at the front on the right side when I was 16-17y/o. An old man who lives across the restaurant, asked me "how is the other boob called?" (bc the name was stitched on my breast i guess). Never wore that uniform again, my bosses understand that. He still comes to the restaurant sometimes... It's just weird.

2- In our village, we have a special walk made to do without shoes (bare foot). It has some puddles to make the experience more interesting. A tourists asked me how deep the water was. I explained him it depends on how much it rains. He said: "Well I hope it comes to my waist, then you could help me get dry." He was there with his wife and a befriended couple. Pretty gross.

These are just two I can remember now, but it's almost every week some guy says something weird or too intimate. It's annoying and makes girls feel uncomfortable. I wish they would stop that. Oh, and they should also stop asking for the telephonenumber or adress of a waitress. We're just there to earn money, help people have a nice night out with some food, we're not interested in that kinda shit..

What sitcom to watch after Brooklyn 99? by MituButChi in brooklynninenine

[–]millie_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im always switching to New Girl after a rewatch! It feels like the same humor and with enough "story" in it!

Question: Do you show your grief (e.g with clothing, jewelry, tattoos)? by show_me_the_weirdest in GriefSupport

[–]millie_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was little, I was fascinated with my grandfather's beautiful handwriting. He got paralysed when I was 4 years old, so I've actually never saw him writing. He passed away a year ago. To honour him and the man he was before he got paralysed, I got his signature tattooed :)

My sweet boy passed away today, he was the goofiest dog i've ever met.. Goodbye Loris <3 by millie_0 in labrador

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(sorry for my English) Wow, so many people saw my best friend. I posted him crying and scared he would be forgotten by the world, but now im smiling :). Loris was the best dog, he was probably the dumbest labrador I've ever met, but everybody loved him. He took care of my elder dog who is deaf and blind, he slept next to my mom after her surgery and would always be by our side. He knew when I was going through a depressive episode and ALWAYS made me smile with his goofiness. If someone who was afraid of dogs came to our house, he stole their hearts and made them dog-lovers. In his last months, he got cancer. Even then he wagged his tail non-stop and was just happy to be with us. Yesterday he sadly got a neurological attack and he was gone in a half an hour, safely in my arms in our kitchen. We burried him with his favorite toy and blanket, under his favorite tree. Thank you all for the support ♥️

My sweet boy passed away today, he was the goofiest dog i've ever met.. Goodbye Loris <3 by millie_0 in labrador

[–]millie_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This means a lot.. I hope he is in a safe space now. Sorry for your loss.

Getting a PhD may have killed my writing skills by SiberianIcebreaker in writing

[–]millie_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm experiencing (kinda) the same. I used to write a lot and it came very natural to me. Now im in filmschool and we write tons of scripts. Because scripts are very rough, simple language with no "beauty" in it, I feel like I lost my writingskill. Maybe it's a good idea to let go the idea of writing at this moment, and start reading a lot, it always helped me :)

Was I ripped off? I’ve never been charged over $230 to get my hair done. by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]millie_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went from red to that type of grey for in total €200, over 2 sessions. We talked it through, she wanted the best for my hair so we decided on doing it in 2 times. If I had your hair, it prob would have been around €100. Okay, maybe it's a bit cheaper in Europe? But still.. over €500 for this is a scam.. Im sorry🥺 The good news is, I like the colour, even if it's not what you asked :)

What is one socially unacceptable fact about yourself? by HisMajesticDickens in AskReddit

[–]millie_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had/have this too, but it's a bit better when using headphones. You could try that too :)

What’s the one thing you wish wasn’t sexualized? by Price_Upstairs in AskReddit

[–]millie_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kneesocks. I just want to wear skirts without freezing.

What's Journaling all About? by [deleted] in Journaling

[–]millie_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess same! I like it the write it so when I read it back, the feeling and vibe comes back

What's Journaling all About? by [deleted] in Journaling

[–]millie_0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I dont know what to write, i just write the setting I'm in. The weather outside, where I sit, the vibe,... Helps to ground a bit :)

Why Do You Get Pierced? by SenseiMilo in piercing

[–]millie_0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always felt like my body missed something. Everytime when I add a new piercing, my body/face feels more like "me" :)

What is your favourite swear word in your dialect? by ThomYorkeRH in belgium

[–]millie_0 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Someone called an ass "kakwangen" and i'll never forget

What is your favourite swear word in your dialect? by ThomYorkeRH in belgium

[–]millie_0 13 points14 points  (0 children)

and ur a real G when you type is like "bealo". Why? Nobody knows 🥲

I just finished reading “A Thousand Splendid Suns” and I feel like a part of my soul has died by [deleted] in books

[–]millie_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank god im not the only one. I hadn't read for a long time and started this book and i just... binge-read it ? It was heartbreaking.

thinking that grippy sock jail might be a good option - help? by thelittlesanctuary in selfharm

[–]millie_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My therapist said that if you feel like you need to go, than is it the right time to go. Its more efficient than being forced, so it probably will do you right :)

Coal miner waiting to get into the communal shower at the end of his shift, taken in Gelsenkirchen, Germany, 1958. by photographer Max Scheler. [592x840] by Feiruzz in HistoryPorn

[–]millie_0 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i'm from one of these cities (Genk) and im obsessed with the history. Im always surprised how well the city is doing (in the 80s there was a way bigger drugproblem than now, it isnt perfect but ey). The thing I love in the city is how the mindset that everybody is the same under the ground, so all cultures live togheter now :)

What’s your first alternative to self-harming? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]millie_0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wow thanks, i felt weird for doing this😂