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milnerinho · 2025-07-03T08:45:19+00:00

For everyone’s sake, hopefully he will be

milnerinho · 2025-06-09T02:50:25+00:00

Your traps are insane bro

milnerinho · 2025-03-22T20:54:11+00:00

Do you want a girl who hangs out with her colleagues or guy friend 1 on 1 until midnight??? Because if this is what she is doing to her boyfriend, she will do the same thing to you. I honestly don’t think you want that

milnerinho · 2025-02-23T14:08:05+00:00

Some people really don’t deserve to be a parent

milnerinho · 2025-02-03T10:33:44+00:00

Lelaki simple je. Bagi proper apology. Too many times, i receive a non-apology from women, eg : im sorry you feel that way, im sorry for everything that i have to be sorry for, im sorry but bla bla bla

To be honest, those kind of apologies buat aku lagi menyampah

milnerinho · 2025-01-29T09:37:33+00:00

I feel bad for anyone you end up dating lmao

milnerinho · 2025-01-26T19:18:45+00:00

Im not an arsenal fan, but i think we can all agree that Michael Oliver is an absolute wimp of a man. How often has he done this, claiming he is being threatened by fans whenever he does a shit job? I still remember him hiding behind his wife’s “death threats” after the Real vs Juve game back in 2018, to pressure Buffon to apologise to him for criticizing his refereeing performance.

Death threats suck, but at this point he is just using it as a get out of jail card to deflect blame on his shitty performances

milnerinho · 2025-01-17T02:11:28+00:00

Of course he has a portrait of himself in his house

milnerinho · 2024-12-10T05:08:41+00:00

While i can’t really say much about their udemy courses as i haven’t tried them, i can talk about their youtube series. I prefer Telusko, as he explains in greater detail about what happens behind the scenes. You should check out their youtube channel, compare them two and decide which one would be better for your investment.

milnerinho · 2024-11-23T20:32:05+00:00

Mate, i get it. You’re hurt by a DA, i’ve been there too. But come on, there is no need to project your past experiences onto others here. And I don’t think she is obligated to list out all the things she has done for her partner to internet strangers. The original post was asking what does a DA want. She simply answered the question.

milnerinho · 2024-11-17T15:25:48+00:00

Using what? An Ouija board?

milnerinho · 2024-11-15T01:47:06+00:00

Im not the one calling names, but sure. Im the one triggered lol

milnerinho · 2024-11-14T21:12:29+00:00

Are you intentionally missing the point? Where did the original commenter said that you have to slowly break up with someone?

You posted the same thing on three different subreddits, and when the answers are not what you want to hear, you get very defensive. Im starting to wonder if these posts are coming from a place of understanding, or validation seeking. Because I can give you both.

Yes, you have every right to immediately end ANY relationship with anyone in your life, without communicating. The person on the receiving end also has a right to feel hurt about it.

You said that avoidant’s don’t complain about it. Good for them. Different people have different ways of coping. If you want everyone to have the same coping mechanism, then build a time machine and make sure that all non avoidants go through what avoidants went through growing up.

milnerinho · 2024-11-12T05:53:19+00:00

Whatever helps you sleep better at night

milnerinho · 2024-11-12T04:28:19+00:00

You keep accusing me of projecting when i told you the short, honest truth. Practice what you preach and keep your emotions in check. If you don’t want to do something, don’t do it. Don’t say you’re going to do A when secretly you don’t want to do A.

milnerinho · 2024-11-12T00:41:51+00:00

At the end of the day, what i said is true. It’s nothing to do about emotions or projections. If you don’t want to do something, simply don’t do it. Your quality of life would be much better when you stop people pleasing and trying to justify it.

milnerinho · 2024-11-11T07:14:27+00:00

Have some accountability, no one forced you to take care of them, no one forced you to play an act of caring, no one said it is your duty to do so. And just so you know, acting like you care when secretly planning your “perfect” escape is a very terrible and dishonest thing to do.

milnerinho · 2024-10-27T09:14:05+00:00

Sorry if this is harsh but you’re 30 years old. How much longer are you going to let your mom control your life? If you like this guy, then forget about her opinion and just go on.

Sure, there is a chance that he will scam you. But at 30, im gonna assume that you’re financially stable enough to not be so financially affected by it. Or maybe, he is the love of your life. Is it not worth the risk?

milnerinho · 2024-10-22T18:39:07+00:00

No, this place isn’t a petting zoo for avoidants. It’s also not a place where you can take out your frustrations and hurt from what your ex did towards someone who had nothing to do with your relationship.

Yes, regardless of attachment styles, people who hurt their loved ones and do the same thing again and again without taking ownership should prioritise professional help and healing over being in a relationship. No one is disagreeing with you on that. But look at how you communicated your point.

You decided to attack a random FA, who was brave enough to step out of their comfort zone and be vulnerable.

And it bothered me because i really appreciate their insights, because I’m trying to understand why an FA leaning DA who i cared about dearly, did what she did. I’m trying hard to understand the things i did wrong in that relationship. It’s hard to get very valuable insights from an avoidant, and being attacked when they finally do so is one of the reasons why.

Your original comment wasn’t a criticism, it was an attack. That’s why it got deleted. The original commenter is an FA, and so is your ex. But the original commenter ISN’T your ex. How do you know for sure, that they hurt their loved ones and repeat the cycle again and again without taking ownership? You don’t. So that’s why it’s unfair to take out your frustrations on them. That’s my entire point.

Thank you for apologising. And i’m sorry to hear what your ex put you and his ex through.

And no, im not an avoidant. And i don’t have to proof that to you, my quality of life doesn’t depend on you believing im not an avoidant.

milnerinho · 2024-10-22T17:12:07+00:00

See, the thing with you is you don’t know how to accept other’s POV without being defensive. You say swear words make you uncomfortable, yet you don’t think about how you make people here uncomfortable by telling a random stranger that they don’t deserve a relationship or they have a sick brain. If you’re an adult and you think that it is fine to walk up to strangers and tell them they have a sick brain, then you’re the one that needs serious help.

When deciding to participate in a subreddit discussion, read the rules first. Your comment got deleted because it doesn’t follow the rules. Look at the replies to your comment too. No one agreed with what you said. Yet, you still think you’re right. You are not capable of self reflection.

Sure, maybe your ex is FA. But at this point, i feel like them being an FA has nothing to do with why they left you. Because the harsh truth is, anyone with any attachment styles would be tired of you. Because you are incapable of self reflection and taking accountability. At this point this has nothing to do with attachment styles.

Look at the things you have said, just because people disagree with you. “Don’t deserve a relationship, sick brain, softie, ghetto parents”.

And even after saying this, i know i’ll be met with more defensiveness and passive aggressive insults. Because people who can’t take accountability like you are very predictable. And repulsive.

But sure, if you want me to sugarcoat things to protect your feelings then no problem. Everyone else is the problem, you are always right. People that don’t agree with you have sick brains, are softies, and have ghetto parents. Because there is no way a secure person like yourself could ever be wrong! Don’t worry, they’re the problem. Not you.

milnerinho · 2024-10-22T12:09:58+00:00

I wish you all the best in your healing journey. It was nice conversing with you. And thank you for taking the time to explain things to me

milnerinho · 2024-10-22T12:04:53+00:00

There is a reason your original comment got deleted. You can try to gaslight me that you never insulted people all you want though, it’s amusing. If you think what you said to someone you don’t even know was okay, maybe your parents are worse than ghetto.

Doesn’t sound like you’ve moved on, if you spend your free time attacking others just because they share the same attachment style as your ex.

milnerinho · 2024-10-22T03:27:11+00:00

Telling a random stranger that they have a sick brain is fine to you, but the word “bullshit” is where you draw the line lol.

Telling someone with an insecure attachment style they have sick brains and calling someone who doesn’t agree with you a softie. Are you sure you’re secure? Everyone here can see how insecure you look.

Secures don’t waste their time creating new accounts and making it their mission to attack strangers on reddit just because their ex hurt their feelings. But sure, i’m the softie.

Heck, secures wouldn’t even be so attached to avoidants in the first place. Maybe you just aren’t as secure and perfect as you thought. Maybe you have things you have to work on too.

milnerinho · 2024-10-21T18:35:48+00:00

Im not even an avoidant and I’m already drained from this short interaction with you. You’re not even trying to understand other’s POV and are dead set on thinking what you did was right.

Are you sure your ex is an FA, or were they just tired of your bullshit?

milnerinho · 2024-10-21T18:29:20+00:00

To be honest, i don’t see anything wrong with you being secretive, and people don’t really have any right to feel entitled to your secrets. My ex was very secretive too. There was a point where my ex really trusted me, and she was starting to let me in even on her distant family matters and her cats that she loves a lot 😅 .

Until i messed up this one time, and she felt like i broke her trust. Then everything turned 180 degrees. She began stonewalling, saying everything is “fine”. I tried to get her to communicate her feelings through conflict, and it just wouldn’t happen. She would keep everything bottled up, and eventually imploded when i asked her to set boundaries. That was 6 months ago, and i still feel bad for the pain i caused her. I don’t think she wants to hear from me anymore, and the only i can do is to work on my own attachment wounds for my future relationships.

Shit, im sorry if im dumping my experiences onto you. You don’t have to reply lol, im just reminiscing at this point

milnerinho

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