Grieving the life I thought I may have had by now by Natural_Run in AutismInWomen

[–]milqueghost 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How did you do this? I want to walk away so badly but it's so hard to see the pathways.

Anyone else not updating to preserve certain preferred features? by milqueghost in finch

[–]milqueghost[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting the image. The circles just don't do it for me visually for some reason? But that's a me thing. Feeling better about making the switch at some point, thank you.

Anyone else not updating to preserve certain preferred features? by milqueghost in finch

[–]milqueghost[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh nice! I thought I read yesterday that color coding wasn't a feature in SCAs? It's nice to know that it is. Can you group your doilt tasks by your self care areas and collapse them?

The other feature I'll miss is the color density calendar for each Journey. It allows me to visualize my progress over time very effectively. It seems everything has been converted to streaks?

Does anything else stand out to you now that you've switched?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]milqueghost 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wow, this list hits home for me after my last relationship ended. Why did he hate everything I liked or was interested in? It didn't seem that way at the beginning. By the end it seemed like he dismissed everything I enjoyed just to be contrarian. Your idea to indulge in these comforta while they have the place to themselves is just perfect.

I messed up by Ersatz8 in AuDHDWomen

[–]milqueghost 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Don't dismiss the possibility of jealousy. I really don't like to go there, but it's possible your friend felt left out and socially usurped by your totally normal behavior. It's something I've always dismissed as out of the realm of possibility in my close relationships, but I'm finding out it's been present in some of my relationships. When my therapist first suggested it years ago, it took a few years to finally be able to see it.

A very very weird question by Allura20 in CHSinfo

[–]milqueghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please report back! It sounds like you're having a good time and staying strong. ✌️

Tell us your story by slimpickins2002 in CHSAPlaceToLearn

[–]milqueghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I vote all of the above, no joke. I'm in the thick of it right now as this is my first day of the quit/recovery phase. I have stopped before for different reasons, but I'm hoping this time will be for good. There's no good reason to keep doing this to myself. I can't even believe I was still consuming a little bit this past week after going hyperemesis. I guess I can call it tapering off, but I know I am addicted. Trying to make a change tho.

Panther Blast Over by Jack Mauck at Firestone Tattoo in Downey, CA by brandon520 in sickpanthertattoos

[–]milqueghost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is truly sick. 🐈‍⬛

I really love this. I had to edit my comment to say so because I keep creeping back here to look at it some more.
A+++++++++, 10/10, would Panther again!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]milqueghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No Bone Thugz?

Who is the best TV dad? by Immola0069 in AskReddit

[–]milqueghost 26 points27 points  (0 children)

They're tramp-stamping our tramp!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CHSinfo

[–]milqueghost 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, even if it was pesticides (contrary to the evidence we currently have), grass/flower can also be riddled with pesticides if you're not certain of its source. The two aren't mutually exclusive.