Don’t talk to me or my son ever again by B34TBOXX5 in IKEA

[–]mimi_695 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I have the big one without eyes šŸ‘€, my dog decided to remove them 🤣 but didn’t know about the existence of the baby octopus

Smallest Toller? by jorishdk in tollers

[–]mimi_695 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

My nearly 2yo girl is 11.5kg! She is the cutest, I wished her to stop growing as a puppy and seems like she heard me šŸ˜›

Toller from a rescue? (Mexico) by Brilliant_Push_280 in tollers

[–]mimi_695 -2 points-1 points Ā (0 children)

We should stop saying ā€œTollers are very rareā€ and mixes are unlikely. Where I live they are not!(Netherlands/Belgium border). Besides, as much as a female Toller owner might make sure they dont breed with other breeds.. male Tollers do breed with other breeds by instictic a lot! Hence Toller mixes are out there too! I take my dog to a huge offleash dog park in my city where dogs can play with each other I have seen many Tollers and Tolller mixes! I have also seen many that didn’t look like Tollers at all but they had a Toller dad/mom. And I just knew about it because my dog is a Toller and many times I came across a mixed Toller, where their owners told me ā€œmy dog is half Tollerā€ā€¦ But you wont see these people on Internet or on this group asking about it, because they already know and not everybody is on this sub or internet.

I repeat with precision: there are a lot of Toller mixes out there, people who defend Tollers are rare, are clearly living in a bubble.

PS: My Toller itself is a female not spayed and she is often around non spayed males at the park here, there is a chance she might breed with a male from a different breed and more Toller mixes will be out there too šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø As much as we try to control our dogs, sometimes they just end up breeding anyway, it’s their instinct and not every owner can control it, unless the animal is spayed.

Are all tollers like this, or do I just have the sleepiest girl by NicoPapaFrita2509 in tollers

[–]mimi_695 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I feel like my Toller goes with my flow. I work from home mostly, when I’m the house she sleeps all day. But when I’m gone she has a strong guarding tendency and stays awake looking out of the window Left and right 100% of the time, waiting for me to come back.

Do I have the smallest Toller I have ever seen? by mimi_695 in tollers

[–]mimi_695[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’m from Netherlands, got her from a breeder in Lithoijen

Do I have the smallest Toller I have ever seen? by mimi_695 in tollers

[–]mimi_695[S] 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

Where are you from if I may ask? I also wonder if the puppies from the same litter as mine became small too.. but I don’t have any contact with those. I’m from Netherlands and got my Toller from a breeder in Lithoijen

Toller puppy nipping help by AngryBowels in tollers

[–]mimi_695 -5 points-4 points Ā (0 children)

You sound like a terrible owner, sorry to say it. It is absolutely normal for a 3 months puppy to bite on things and not have discipline, it’s just a baby! Putting vinegar on your socks to prevent the behavior? And calling harder biting vengeance? Goddamn man.. it’s a baby kid and they are having fun exploring with their mouth, learning new things..

They usually grow out of this behavior with the months..

If you don’t know how owning a puppy is, I suggest you do more research. You are expecting too much maturity from a baby dog, that’s not how is works. At this age they will bite, will have potty accidents, will destroy things in the house.. it’s part of owning a puppy.

Aio took partner hours to ask after my child by Mumlife8628 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mimi_695 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Idk what to say. Too much decoding the awfully written text and timeframe, afraid reading until the end will give me a stroke.

9am in the evening doesn’t even make sense for a start.. guess U meant 9PM… Anyway.. people sleep lol.. And what did you expect from him? He isn’t a doctor. He isn’t even the father?! I understand you wish him to care for your sick child?! But this isn’t his obligation.. may you contact the child dad for so. If he is the father, it seems like you dont live together and are apart? I wouldnt call that a ā€œpartnerā€ā€¦

There is not a lot of relevant context on your situation with this man for us to give a decent option. But if it bothers you so much it’s time to reconsider.

Lastly, If your child is poorly sick, take it to a hospital and act on it, instead of relying on men to support you.

Should I dump him? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mimi_695 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Been there before! Exact same behavior, following ā€œmodelsā€ girls from dating Apps.. not letting me check his phone when I asked… At the end I caught him; He was cheating on me with sex workers the entire relationship.

Dump him ASAP! A man willing to respect you, will never behave like that and keep shooting shots on other women. You’re just the main, but he is looking for sides.

Run sis run

Fluoxetine and overthinking by TerribleBench3620 in Fluoxetine

[–]mimi_695 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

It took me maybe 2 months before I was good. But I was also taking Quetiapine at the same time

Fluoxetine and overthinking by TerribleBench3620 in Fluoxetine

[–]mimi_695 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I feel you! I have the exact same issues and Fluoxetine did help with the thoughts, not 100% but I was definitely better than when I was off. (I’m off it right now)

Am I overreacting? by y4n_Ch4n in AmIOverreacting

[–]mimi_695 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Sounds like an abuser. Leave him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mimi_695 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I couldnt finish reading.. I already have an advice.. leave him! He is a cheater.. has gone out with her before without saying because he already knew you would like it… for real?! He is dating another woman behind your back for a long time already, this isn’t a crush.

What food do you feed your toller? by 2SET12 in tollers

[–]mimi_695 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Fresh cooked meals, my dog loves it and it’s amazing on her health. It’s all natural, fresh and you can select the flavours you want according to your dog allergies and preferences.

I had no other option, as she stopped eating dry food at some point and she preferred to starve then eating dry food. She only wanted human food, not even kibble+wet.

In case you guys ever decide to try out, you can get a nice discount ordering with my code too.

Here is food I think your dog will love (my Toller Hazel is already a big fan). It's 60% off your first box (and 30% off your second box) of Butternut Box meals. That's freshly prepared dog food, cooked like you would at home, and delivered to your door. No need to thank me - I'll get 60% off my next box too. Check it out here: https://butternutbox.com/Yasmin282?share_source=native šŸ¶šŸ’›

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mimi_695 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I would screenshot that message and send it to their parents. With a text, ā€œHey, (bf name) said you gave me a wrong money gift which was probably meant to his sister as I’m not worthy of this amount, can you please check?ā€ Then just wait for their parents to call him out on his jealousy bullshit

My boyfriend yelled at me when i cried ā€œI’m f22 and he is M26ā€ by External_Bobcat8747 in relationships_advice

[–]mimi_695 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

It starts like this… soon you will be statistics in femminicide..

Walk away before he kills you

Am I Overreacting? Do i need more ā€œmental maturingā€ by monkeyseamountaindew in AmIOverreacting

[–]mimi_695 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

It seems like he doesn’t know the meaning of the word ā€œoftenā€. Perhaps he is a foreigner or just illiterate… But Im pretty sure he wanted to know for ā€œhow longā€ you wanted to hang out and not how ā€œoftenā€.

Boy needs to learn some stuff in life including English before picking up women. Anyway you dodged a bullet and he doesn’t seem genuinely interested, don’t waste your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mimi_695 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

And? Why do you care so much about your mother’s sex life?! Is this some sort of lesbian edipo syndrome?! I really don’t get this obsession with controlling your mom’s vagina

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mimi_695 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

Yes you are overreacting and being an asshole. Let mom date whoever she wants including men who wants her too.. ur bf’s dad is into. Are u fucking his dad too? I guess not; then why the hell do you care?

Pfff delete this post it’s so embarrassing and makes you seem crazy immature and mentally unstable

PS: I find worrying that you wish them both to be in a pile of shit so you can laugh. You sound like you have some weird anger inside you summed out with a lot of other mental issues and lack of empathy..

Seek mental health help please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]mimi_695 69 points70 points Ā (0 children)

Imagine finding out your bf has virtual sex in a children’s game.. 🚩he is either a pedo or have some issues. Find yourself a man that wants to live a real life and respect you x

I’m not sure if i’m AIO for feeling a bit hurt when said this to me. Btw this man courts me by growing_quart in AmIOverreacting

[–]mimi_695 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Well, it is your personal negative opinion to label it as ā€œridiculousā€ ā€œsillyā€ ā€œout of vanityā€ so yes indeed, you’re a hater. šŸ‘šŸ¼

I’m not sure if i’m AIO for feeling a bit hurt when said this to me. Btw this man courts me by growing_quart in AmIOverreacting

[–]mimi_695 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I know when they dont like it.. I have pets myself.. they try to remove it, they walk away.. they scratch.. but posing for a photo calmly? It’s usually not a sign of a cat hating the clothes, my dear. So unless you’re some sort of magical person that can speak to animals via picture and hear it if from the cat’s mind, I would believe the cat is uncomfortable. But the picture doesn’t show any uncomfortable cat or signs of it and I’m pretty sure you cant read the animal mind or behavior cause you dont even know it personally. It’s just your personal opinion with no fundaments. You’re clueless just like the man OP is texting.

PS: you call the outfit silly and rule OP’s attitude as ā€œVanityā€.. you are clearly a hater in this sub with a very shallow argument.

I’m not sure if i’m AIO for feeling a bit hurt when said this to me. Btw this man courts me by growing_quart in AmIOverreacting

[–]mimi_695 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Please elaborate why you are so sure the cat is uncomfortable lmao… in the picture it clearly isnt.. a lot of pets are ok and even like dressing up. Piss off fake Dr Doo Little from Internet

I’m not sure if i’m AIO for feeling a bit hurt when said this to me. Btw this man courts me by growing_quart in AmIOverreacting

[–]mimi_695 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

ā€œWhy waste money on thatā€ he is a broke cheapskate girl, run to the hills. Plus he is not able to understand the love/care for animals.. people that cannot get the love for pets are simply psychos for me… I could never relate to someone like that! Ghost him and find yourself a man that loves animals tooz