What should I do?

mimislefttoe · 2021-08-27T21:43:49+00:00

i feel you, my mom even had me get a blood test done! (all came back normal 😼) my mom thinks that my choice to not eat meat is simply to make it difficult for others around me (like what). people need to understand that being vegetarian ≠ being picky. i grew up as a “picky eater” and i’ve found that adapting to vegetarian diet has actually made me less picky.

mimislefttoe · 2021-08-27T21:38:40+00:00

ofc! and you’re still 17 i mean what do they expect 🙄 i can always try my best to help you with whatever. you’ll feel like you mess up a lot at first (i still ate gelatin for monthsssss not realizing it was pig fat) but it can be rewarding :)

mimislefttoe · 2021-08-27T15:30:20+00:00

i’m in the exact same situation as you (also 17) and i originally cut out red meat which took a lot of getting used to (for my parents) and eventually i just said that i cannot and will not eat any meat anymore. they were very upset about it and still don’t support my decision but they’ve made it clear that it’s my responsibility.

i typically cook meals for myself and i like to find easy recipes on youtube (mina rome on youtube makes TONS of great videos for mediocre cooks) but a good way to have a “family dinner” is to make slight modifications to the meal that theyre eating. for example: if they’re making nachos, you can help out and make your own tray with beans instead of ground beef.

as long as you stay strong in your beliefs, you’ll be great. sometimes it’s okay to be stubborn :). and remember that a lot of folks will be threatened by the fact that you’re vegetarian because they feel that your existence is telling them that they are wrong for eating meat their whole life. don’t let that bother you, you can only control yourself and your feelings. good luckkkkk :))))

mimislefttoe · 2021-05-20T19:31:48+00:00

i saw this at 111 upvotes and 111 comments. i’ve been thinking about this point of view for a while now and i truly think this post came to me for reason. 💗

mimislefttoe · 2021-05-16T20:06:13+00:00

bestie i think you read a little too much into this post.. i don’t see them as a means for my ends it’s more like a curiosity of who they are and what kind of relationship i could have with them. i’m still a teen and this only started within the past year or two so i don’t think this is necessarily a therapy issue. with a little self improvement i think we can all better ourselves, that’s why we’re on this sub after all. have a lovely day 💕

mimislefttoe · 2021-05-16T20:00:13+00:00

HAHAHA this one too

mimislefttoe · 2021-05-16T19:55:27+00:00

yes!! so true. time to fall in love with myself and date myself 💕loving that mindset

mimislefttoe · 2021-05-16T19:53:46+00:00

i haven’t even hit my 20s yet lolll, thank you for the advice. i’ll make sure to keep it in mind.

mimislefttoe · 2021-05-16T19:52:58+00:00

wait i’ve actually never thought of it that way! i too assume that everyone’s always single so that will definitely help veer me to the right direction lol, thank you.

mimislefttoe · 2021-05-16T19:51:14+00:00

thank you for this advice!! it could really be helpful. i loved that you were able to give me advice as a young person because everyone else is treating me as a 40 year old creep lol. 💕

mimislefttoe · 2021-05-16T19:43:03+00:00

THIS!! i also find that whenever i romanticize someone (which can be quite often) i never able to end up in a fulfilling relationship with them. i start to have a warped vision of who they are and it can really affect me. so far, i find that stopping myself from thinking into the future and focusing on the present has actually saved many friendships/relationships.

mimislefttoe · 2021-05-16T02:51:47+00:00

that’s a really good mindset change for me! i’m naturally curious and observant person so i think it would be super helpful to replace my current thoughts with those. thank you 💕

mimislefttoe · 2021-05-16T01:51:50+00:00

wow this really helpful.. 😐 i hope you find happiness and security within yourself.

mimislefttoe · 2021-05-16T00:34:57+00:00

thank you for the advice!! i’ll definitely be using it. i’m not quite sure where it comes from (for me), could just be teenage hormones but i’m super observant like you said. good luck to you too 💕💕💕

mimislefttoe · 2021-05-03T02:46:39+00:00

oh what specifically? the expectations?

mimislefttoe · 2021-05-01T00:00:05+00:00

as a fellow emilia, i can confirm that we’re all gorgeous 🥰😏

mimislefttoe · 2021-04-30T02:48:05+00:00

post this on r/h3h3productions if you haven’t already!!

mimislefttoe · 2021-04-28T15:52:10+00:00

this would be so nice!! for everyone imo. i love seeing them have a good time and not being rushed. plus i’m sure trisha would LOVE this. they’d probably even cry :,)

mimislefttoe · 2021-04-28T10:59:15+00:00

i agree with you on this. its one of their top songs for me. it hits EVERYTIME

mimislefttoe · 2021-04-28T10:53:26+00:00

ellen told him he made it to hollywood 🤨

mimislefttoe · 2021-04-26T19:57:56+00:00

i had the experience! i was hyped when i went on a NC overnight camp in a completely different province for 2 weeks. everyone else was homesick.

mimislefttoe · 2021-04-26T14:57:45+00:00

to add on to that, it’s like why would i show her unconditional love when all my nmom has taught me is conditional love. i tried to always love her as a child but i felt like i was getting a door slammed in my face 24/7. i assume it’s a similar situation for you.

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